Hi all. I’m a mum to one in my late twenties. My best friend is similar age and no children. My friend lived with her ex for a while but now lives with a friend who she help care for her and her children, she currently sleeps on the sofa. But in all fairness she doesn’t do anything to change her circumstances. Anyway, she’s always asking to stay at my house. I hate people sleeping at my house and I hate staying at others. When my little one goes to bed and after work me and my partner just like to relax and do our own thing. Sometimes I give in and let her stay and she stays on the sofa but we both are up early for work and when our dc wakes up I don’t feel like I can walk around freely. We’re going to an event one night and I’ll be child free so after this I just want to go home and relax in my own company in silence 😂 but she’s asked to stay and I feel like I’ve exhausted all my excuses. I do admit I am a people pleaser and don’t want to hurt her feelings. Am I being unreasonable not letting her stay? And what should I say to her?