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Mammasjusttired · 07/09/2025 18:39

We’re currently in a really rubbish financial situation, neither me or DH have good credit ratings. We currently own our home but are slightly behind on mortgage as well as other bills. We desperately need to move house as well have a small two bedroom and due to DC additional needs we need another bedroom.
obviously getting a mortgage for a bigger house is not an option. However we have seen a shared ownership house near us that we are interested in. Is this something a mortgage company would allow us to do in our situation?
For reference we have approx £80k equity in the house. We bought it for 155 and it is now worth approx £210. New house is 55% ownership for £155

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titchy · 07/09/2025 19:55

Put up a plasterboard wall down the middle
of the master bedroom. It won’t be particularly neat given it’ll run to the middle of your window, but youll get two single bedrooms out of it.

YYURYYUCICYYUR4ME · 07/09/2025 20:23

Get financial advice from CAB, check out Turn2us on line. Do NOT buy shared ownership, as you'll have yearly rent increases, service charges, issues with you having to repair / pick up all maintenance. I worked for a housing association, it's a money maker for them, not you.

Alwayssnacking · 07/09/2025 20:29

Hi OP, I work for a sub prime lender..When did you miss your 1 payment ? if you have paid the last 6 months on time but owe 1 month from previously,.pay it off and it is possible. You will pay a higher interest rate due to your credit rating. In short though if the calculations show you can afford the mortgage, rent, sc etc then yes you could do it.

Biskieboo · 07/09/2025 20:31

Goodadvice1980 · 07/09/2025 19:27

I wouldn’t recommend shared ownership, it’s fraught with pitfalls & harder to sell if you ever need to move.

Agreed, I know a few couples who have been properly stuffed by shared ownership schemes. If there is any other option - ladder up into a basic DIY loft conversion, bed in a shed, just grinning n' bearing the current set up a bit longer until you can get on an even keel - I'd do that before shared ownership. Apologies if none of that is feasible but I'm deeply sceptical about these schemes that try to fudge a solution to the basic problem that housing is just too expensive for many ordinary working people.

BusMumsHoliday · 07/09/2025 20:34

Have you explored whether you're eligible for a Disabled Facilities Grant to convert your loft or build a downstairs extension?

Icanflyhigh · 07/09/2025 20:38

Mammasjusttired · 07/09/2025 19:32

When we spoke to a letting agent they said that renting should be fine as once we sell the house we will be in a position where we can pay 6-12 months rent upfront

Don't do it! I did this and ended up renting for 10 years before I could get back on the property ladder.
Is an extension an option at your current house?
Remortgage and release some equity to clear the arrears and gain the extra room?

KeenGreen · 07/09/2025 20:53

Shared ownership only works well if you can realisticallly staircase to own more of the property later.

Our first home was SO 50% and it worked well for us as I was at the start of a career and knew my earning potential would allow us to own 100% further down the road. Which we did after 2 years and then years later sold and purchased current home.

As others have suggested look for a solution with your current home and get the debts under control. Speak to stepchange for advice.

Moving costs would need factoring in, moving company / van hire, stamp duty, conveyancing, estate agents.
Moving to rented would be less costly up front but monthly would likely much more than your mortgage.

JustGoClickLikeALightSwitch · 07/09/2025 21:01

As PP wrote, partition wall in one of the bedrooms.

DeliciouslyBaked · 07/09/2025 21:04

How old are your DC? Do they spend most of their time downstairs or in their room? What's the downstairs room in green on the floor plan?

Could you remove the green room and put a divider in the lounge so your bed could tuck in next to the kitchen wall with a kallax unit as a divider for storage and then sofa / tv etc in the bit by the outside doors? I cant work out if the dimensions work from the plan. Then each DC has a room upstairs, but the bigger one has a wardrobe for your clothes? Its not great but that would allow you to stay where you are, get your finances in order and aim to move somewhere bigger when you are on a bit more of a stable financial footing?

I agree with pp that if you rent for a while, you might find it incredibly difficult to get back into home ownership.

UnhappyHobbit · 07/09/2025 22:19

Mammasjusttired · 07/09/2025 19:32

When we spoke to a letting agent they said that renting should be fine as once we sell the house we will be in a position where we can pay 6-12 months rent upfront

Yes but you will have to pay that upfront. You won’t get your money from your house until it completes I.e you have to move out. Rentals normally require you to pay upfront and in good time of you getting the keys, not the same day.

ThatGladTiger · 07/09/2025 22:38

Mammasjusttired · 07/09/2025 19:07

@YellowSubmarine994we wouldn’t be borrowing more, the mortgage would surely stay the same as we would need the same amount for the new house as we bought our current house for, although now we have 80k equity.
I didnt think this would be an option just wanted to check. Looks like we’re going to have to sell up and rent somewhere bigger instead unfortunately.

If the mortgage is staying the same you are in the same boat regarding mortgage payments.

As others have said, selling to then rent is potentially an awful decision. You may never get back on the ladder again.

Try and find ways to increase your income/reduce your outgoings as it seems like you have a cash flow issue which won’t be solved by moving house.

Is there no way you can rearrange your top floor? I’m no expert but seen a lot of programmes where they move walls around and find space!

lljkk · 08/09/2025 08:17

can you explain more about needs of your disabled child, or how they affect sibling, why does disabled child need a separate bedroom.

Mammasjusttired · 13/09/2025 11:21

lljkk · 08/09/2025 08:17

can you explain more about needs of your disabled child, or how they affect sibling, why does disabled child need a separate bedroom.

Sorry only just seen this. He is autistic and has major violent meltdowns. This often results in people being hurt and unfortunately his sister has had the brunt of it a few times. I need her to be able to have her own “safe space” to go to and his bedroom would need to be one that I could remove anything that he can hurt himself or others with.

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