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Aibu to be annoyed the food shop disappears so quickly

510 replies

toadstool32 · 07/09/2025 12:09

It drives me insane. Food shop arrives and within a day most cupboard snacks / fruit has been eaten. I’ve spoken to everyone on numerous occasions about making things last. Family of 5 plus a dog, spending anywhere between £100-£130 a week. How do you make things last?! (Obviously not fresh stuff with dates but the constant snacking).

edited to add: school lunches and snacks are all provided by school. I get lunch at work too. So this is just home food.

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Doone22 · 08/09/2025 16:33

toadstool32 · 07/09/2025 12:19

But £600 a month effectively when lunches are covered for 4/5 of us is loads in my opinion.

You are right. Why are you all constant snackers though? You must have gone along with that at some point and now it's out of hand.
Just stop stocking up on snacks. If someone moans tell them to go get their own.

IMustDoMoreExercise · 08/09/2025 16:57

toadstool32 · 07/09/2025 12:25

Snacks I’ve bought this week : 2 punnets of grapes, 2 x strawberries, 6 bananas, 2 x four milky ways, triple pack of biscuits, 2 x packs of rice cakes, 2 x packs of mini marylands, yoghurts, specific snacks for the toddler.

There are all really expensive and easy to eat quickly.

Just buy lots of apples, pears and bananas. They are healthy and filling.

Why are you buying all the crap like biscuits and rice cakes.

Itchyfeetkeepmemoving · 08/09/2025 17:11

toadstool32 · 07/09/2025 12:25

Snacks I’ve bought this week : 2 punnets of grapes, 2 x strawberries, 6 bananas, 2 x four milky ways, triple pack of biscuits, 2 x packs of rice cakes, 2 x packs of mini marylands, yoghurts, specific snacks for the toddler.

That’s a lot of snacks.

Buy ingredients instead and invite someone to bake biscuits or cakes. That slows mine down and means a constant supply!

Reasontoreason · 08/09/2025 17:28

Isn’t it strange how people food shops vary so much . We are a family of 5 and I spend £70 per week on food and it last all week apart from the odd loaf of bread . So I guess it just depends on what you buy / how much you eat .

Northernladdette · 08/09/2025 17:28

People nowadays are obsessed with snacks. Don’t buy them 🙂

Jade247 · 08/09/2025 17:35

Sounds like maybe not buying enough, we are two adults and a 2 year old and spend the same … so for 5 would need more. I also buy fruit every few days

Snackkers · 08/09/2025 17:53

We are a family of 5 and budget about the same for groceries. I’ve just read the first page of posts but what you have bought for snacks I would think should last the week and would in my house.
we do eat big meals, and a pudding to limit the snacking.

LittleBitofBread · 08/09/2025 18:02

Remingtonsteele · 07/09/2025 12:32

That’s not enough snacks for five people really.

No, I agree. It's one banana a week, basically. DP and I eat more like a banana a day each.

IneedtheeohIneedtheeeveryhourIneedthee · 08/09/2025 18:03

Don't buy snacks. Buy the staples and then give each kid an allowance and all snacks have to come from that.

soupyspoon · 08/09/2025 18:11

Naanspiration · 08/09/2025 11:50

Yes, everyone's spend comes out of the same pot, your total monthly income. But we separate it into different pots don't we. I don't include toilet bleach with the food spend pot.

Some people will claim to struggle with their grocery budget but then disregard the £40+ quid they spend on Just Eat or Uber Eats every week. Different pots, even though it's still food.

Apart from takeaways, which we dont have, havent ordered anything for nearly 3 years now, its all just 'shopping' comes under the category of 'shopping'.

Household and food shopping, thats what the budget has to cover. This week for example it was literally just food and one container of hand wash

Some weeks however I might need sandwich bags, toilet roll, kitchen roll, bleach and laundry products all in one go. That is a very hefty week on the purse.

GleisZwei · 08/09/2025 19:12

TorroFerney · 08/09/2025 12:17

Why do you keep giving the peace sign? It’s not a full stop.

I'm aware that a peace sign isn't a full stop, not sure why you're linking the two. ✌️

GleisZwei · 08/09/2025 19:14

Ilovecakey · 08/09/2025 11:44

Also I don't know if anyone has said this as I haven't read the whole thread but Uber eats do half price fruit and veg on Mondays (which is today)

No such thing in our area, but might help some folk.

BogRollBOGOF · 08/09/2025 19:31

DS1's preferences are complicated by autism affecting his preferences and inclination to get and eat food. He snacks on own brand "oatie" hobnob style biscuits which are fairly cheap and have a relatively decent amount of substance to them.

DS2 is more proactive and will do things like scrambled egg on toast or banana pancakes. Cheap, easy, nutritious and substantial.

Bananas are fine, but fruit isn't a cost effective way to fill a hole. It's better after dinner.

Pineapples198 · 08/09/2025 19:40

£100-£130 for a family of 5 is fantastic, not sure you’ll get it below that. We spend about £200 a week for 4 of us. Not helped by autistic son’s food phases

Slightyamusedandsilly · 08/09/2025 20:04

PassOnThat · 07/09/2025 16:35

I am not a budgeter, but having read this thread, it seems to be that a big part of the problem is that 'snack food' is seen as something separate to 'real food'. Supermarkets package it up to look attractive and it commands a premium.

We love chocolate in this house and have it several times a week, but we don't seem to spend a lot on other packaged stuff (especially little packets of things) which I think is where we're making some savings compared to others.

My DS's favourite snack when we get home from school is a jam sandwich. The younger one likes cheese on toast (admittedly cheese has massively increased in price!) and carrot sticks. But these aren't extra 'snacky' things, they're just food we have in anyway being eaten as a snack. I'm feeling a bit mean now because I've realised that, although we do have some biscuits in a box, I view them as 'mine' and don't really share them with the kids. The kids sometimes like munching on dry cereal like cheerios and cornflakes. They do get ice cream several times a week (a scoop out of a big tub, with a few sprinkles on top). I make them pancakes sometimes if I have the time.

Buy a waffle maker. I whip up batches of waffles and then freeze them. 2 for breakfast and then 10 or so in the freezer. SO easy to make and cheap as chips. Couple of eggs, flour, milk. I don't add sugar. The sweetness comes from whatever topping you use. Own brand golden syrup, jam etc.

rainbowunicorn · 08/09/2025 20:09

Reasontoreason · 08/09/2025 17:28

Isn’t it strange how people food shops vary so much . We are a family of 5 and I spend £70 per week on food and it last all week apart from the odd loaf of bread . So I guess it just depends on what you buy / how much you eat .

Can you give examples of what you buy / meals you make each week for £70 for 5 people?

friskery · 08/09/2025 20:13

I don't really buy 'snacks', we have a snack after school which is something like pitta and hummus or yoghurt and fruit. I buy apples, satsumas, bananas, kiwis, cucumber and carrots as snacks. My teen often makes himself a sandwich or bowl of cereal after school.

Oblomov25 · 08/09/2025 20:16

I spend a lot more than that each week. Ds2 eats a lot of protein for sports. I never run out of food, I just buy it again as soon as it's eaten.

steppemum · 08/09/2025 20:19

You need to change to cheaper snacks.

Buy the packets of biscuits like custard creams, ginger biscuits and bourbon. They are free to eat, limitless. As are apples and oranges.

I used to buy one 'nice' snack per day for after school. That was usually something like a box of mini brownies, or a packet of jaffa cakes. Shared out. So you'd need 5 of those per week, at least. Those snacks were kept in a separate cupboard, and were off limits expect for 3:30 after school.
I encouraged them to eat things like apples and peanut butter, drink milk or make a sandwich, when hungry rather than berries and nice cakes which are pricey.

greengreyblue · 08/09/2025 20:20

Oblomov25 · 08/09/2025 20:16

I spend a lot more than that each week. Ds2 eats a lot of protein for sports. I never run out of food, I just buy it again as soon as it's eaten.

Some people have to budget

friskery · 08/09/2025 20:21

Oblomov25 · 08/09/2025 20:16

I spend a lot more than that each week. Ds2 eats a lot of protein for sports. I never run out of food, I just buy it again as soon as it's eaten.

Must be nice!

TomatoSandwiches · 08/09/2025 20:33

Reasontoreason · 08/09/2025 17:28

Isn’t it strange how people food shops vary so much . We are a family of 5 and I spend £70 per week on food and it last all week apart from the odd loaf of bread . So I guess it just depends on what you buy / how much you eat .

What ages are the people in your family and what kind of meals does this budget cater for

SleepingStandingUp · 08/09/2025 20:50

toadstool32 · 07/09/2025 13:53

I feel pretty judged. I’d love to be able to afford more but I can’t. I already buy own brand cereals, butter, biscuits, ketchup, squash, in fact anything if it has an own brand variant then yes. Milky ways and marylands were a treat which I can’t afford regularly.

The advice of swapping big packs of apples and bananas for berries is helpful. As are some other suggestions. So thank you.

I have a nectar card, Clubcard, any card for anywhere I’ve got it. Plus I use cash back through my banking app.

I’m doing my best.

If they're all being fed at school, and you're buying food for evening meals and weekends too, then honestly don't feel bad. People don't need endless snacks.

Surely the qn tho is WHO is eating them? You mention a toddler, so assume they're not helping themselves. You're not. So how old are the other two kids and how much does DH take for work?

Overwhelmedandunderfed · 08/09/2025 22:28

toadstool32 · 07/09/2025 12:25

Snacks I’ve bought this week : 2 punnets of grapes, 2 x strawberries, 6 bananas, 2 x four milky ways, triple pack of biscuits, 2 x packs of rice cakes, 2 x packs of mini marylands, yoghurts, specific snacks for the toddler.

Between 5 people that’s probably only enough snacks for 2 days - sorry! My daughter eats a punnet of grapes and strawberries in 2 days and when you look at it in a bowl it’s only like 2-3 of your 5 a day. I would be stocking up on the cheaper stuff they’ll eat - bananas are really cheap so triple the amount you get. Biscuits in a triple pack is only maybe 45 biscuits so 4 biscuits a day per person is only going to last you 4 days etc and most of us can eat more than that. I’m sorry because it’s so depressing that food costs this much, get some cheaper snacks if you can and hide some of the stuff you like?

Overwhelmedandunderfed · 08/09/2025 22:36

rainbowunicorn · 08/09/2025 20:09

Can you give examples of what you buy / meals you make each week for £70 for 5 people?

I would like these two but I suspect it’s not massively nutritious (and I don’t mean that judgementally I promise) it’s almost impossible to buy food to feed 5 people 7 main meals and 7 breakfasts for £70 - I’ve tried! I made myself stick to a budget of £80 recently and we had to eat a lot of frozen / tinned veg, barely any fruit, bread with lots of additives etc. Tonight we ate a chicken dish and it really wasn’t fancy but I found myself eating a really small portion so the OH didn’t moan that he hadn’t had enough protein - it was almost £6 just for 4 chicken thighs. £6 x 7 =£42.00. A pack of mince is at least a fiver £5 x 7 =£35.00. How are people eating fresh, nutritious meals for £70 a week? 😭