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School recommendations/What to do next worried mom

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Jaymom · 05/09/2025 10:05

Hi everyone, we’re starting to look at schools for my son (starting 2026 reception) and would love some recommendations. We’re in the catchment for grange infant but it’s rating is not good.So i am bit worried.Also cherrywood primary is in 2 mins drive.Which i am not very convinced with other group comments.
Understand we can select three schools or move to different area which has better schools.

Also I know it’s totally depends on my circumstances.But i love to hear mom feelings and decisions when it come to select infant/primary schools…

Looking for honest feedback 😊

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FuzzyWolf · 05/09/2025 14:09

I think you are unlikely to be able to move to a different area within the cut off time for school applications.

Have you viewed the schools? What was your feeling about them? Is there anything necessary that you need to consider eg parking, smaller/larger class sizes, wraparound care, the menu, SEN etc?

Jaymom · 05/09/2025 16:16

I’ve got some schools visits in October.
🙇🏻‍♀️Offset reports and parking is my priority atm.
what is your opinion about applying for school which is not in your catchment.In case if they have spaces.

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SteakBakesAndHotTakes · 05/09/2025 16:48

It depends on the demographics in your area and how popular the schools are that you're looking at.

Always go on the wait list if there is a school you particularly like...I was in this situation with DC1 and went on the wait list for an outstanding school pretty far outside our catchment area and got in just before the start of term.

mindutopia · 05/09/2025 16:53

Go to the open day and choose the school that feels right. Ofsted reports can be helpful, but only if they’re recent and you can read between the lines.

When we first chose a primary school for our eldest, the options were an outstanding school or one rated as requiring improvement, both a 10 minute drive. We went to the poorly rated one and were very happy. In our time there, families were leaving the ‘outstanding’ school in droves due to bullying and behaviour issues.

You should be able to see online somewhere the admissions figures for all schools so you’ll be able to gauge your chances of a place, if the school is oversubscribed, and how far down the list of criteria they got in assigning places. I’ve only done this for secondary school, but I imagine the data must be organised in a similar fashion.

Really though, I would visit and trust your gut. A friendly welcoming inclusive school that offers lots of outdoor play, forest school, enrichment activities, etc should be easy to spot. Consider breakfast and after school club options as well unless you don’t work or will never return to work. Even if you don’t need them now, a lot can change in a few years and you will be grateful they’re there when you need them.

Jaymom · 05/09/2025 17:23

This is really helpful.Thank you so much.I will for sure wait for the school visit

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Jaymom · 05/09/2025 17:28

SteakBakesAndHotTakes · 05/09/2025 16:48

It depends on the demographics in your area and how popular the schools are that you're looking at.

Always go on the wait list if there is a school you particularly like...I was in this situation with DC1 and went on the wait list for an outstanding school pretty far outside our catchment area and got in just before the start of term.

How does the waiting lists work?Do you have give up on all other schools and wait for the school you like or i can keep the school council offer me and still be in the waiting list?Sorry my eldest going to school.I have no experience on this subject.

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madnessitellyou · 05/09/2025 17:35

No, you accept the place you are given otherwise, if I’m not mistaken, there’s no obligation for the local authority to find a place.

SteakBakesAndHotTakes · 05/09/2025 17:42

After applying, if you don't get a school you want, accept the offer anyway otherwise everyone else will get a school place and you will have to go to wherever is left over. But go on the waiting list for the school(s) you want. Ask the council admissions team what position you are on the list(s) to get an idea of your chances. Follow up with them if you don't get a place at the start of term and would accept an in-year place. If you stay on the wait list you might also get a place after reception.

FuzzyWolf · 05/09/2025 22:08

Ofsted reports are only useful if they are recent and even then, if they are negative the school has probably put something in place to turn things around. I don’t think I’ve ever read one for a school I have considered sending my child to.

Just make sure that (at the very least) one of the schools is your catchment and you are guaranteed to get a place. Otherwise you could find your child is placed many miles away at somewhere that isn’t full and sometimes they aren’t full because they are undesirable schools.

ButterPiesAreGreat · 05/09/2025 22:18

Jaymom · 05/09/2025 17:28

How does the waiting lists work?Do you have give up on all other schools and wait for the school you like or i can keep the school council offer me and still be in the waiting list?Sorry my eldest going to school.I have no experience on this subject.

Once places have been offered, you can go on as many waiting lists as you like. You don’t have to even have applied to that school. You can accept a place at the school you’ve been offered in the meantime.
After a while, the education office will be able to tell you where on the list you are for each school and you can gauge how likely it is you will be offered a place. The waiting list order is still based on admission criteria so in most cases, it’s not worth going on the lists where you’re bottom of the pile. Especially so for faith schools where faith criteria like baptism or church attendance are a factor and you know you don’t meet those.
You can also ask the education office which schools have available places.
There is more movement with primary schools as some parents may decide to go private (possibly less so now) if they are not 100% happy with the place theyre given, or they just change their mind.
You could be offered a place anytime. Usually they stop them in September but sometimes they run them until the end of the first half term.

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