To think that if people must have sex during the day, they should have some consideration and do it quietly?

[pleasedoitquietly]

so I'm out in the garden with ds. And suddenly I hear from next door, "oooooooh, aaaaaaaaaaah aaaaaaaaah aaaaah aaaaah"... you get the idea. And ds says "mummy what's that?" "um, just someone shouting darling".

could they not at least close the windows?

pleasedoitquietly, it's not your fault because this is something that has been drummed into us and is hard to shake off.

We've been taught (subtly) that sex must be secret so we are looking for ways to keep them from finding out that it goes on. If you truly think sex is natural and normal there really isn't any point in preventing children from knowing about it at any age.

We don't hide flower arranging from them or knitting.

Somebody really needed to hide that moany cow's voice, though.

I mean, she took the phrase 'she's a screamer' to a whole new level.

I hide my knitting it is awful all those dropped stitches.

expat, lol