my close friend of over 15 years has been struggling for fertility for over 5 years. I know that she's been undergoing treatments to help her conceive and normally she speaks to me all about it. I feel like i'm a shoulder for her to lean on and she does tell me about the failures. Although she doesn't share with the rest of the group.
She suddenly ghosted everyone about a month or two ago but sent memes here and there. I did message to check up and she said all is good and i was just giving her space. i think she ghosted as she is expecting but doesn't want to share until it's safe to do so but knows she can't hold in the excitement if she speak to us.
she's messaged our group asking to meet up and i suspect it's to announce her pregnancy.
would I be unreasonable to get her a small present? i'd only give the gift of she makes an announcement, never before. I'm just so incredibly happy at the thought of it but don't know if it's over stepping a little bit.