We've had issues with the neighbour making malicious complaints since we moved in around 7 years ago. It seems to go in cycles; she will complain constantly for months and then go quiet for months. I don't know if there is a pattern on her side, e.g, if something is going on in her life, she lashes out at us, or if it is random.
The complaints tend to be the same: our dogs are barking, our garden is attracting rats, we are growing and selling drugs, and strange men are entering and leaving our property at all hours.
Each time we get a nasty letter from the HA (which they claim is standardised and have assured me no police or court action will ever be taken, even though that is what the letters threaten). Each time I allow the LL to inspect the property to check the garden or look for evidence of us running an illegal brothel or selling drugs, or I provide webcam footage of the dogs not barking, and each time the complaint is closed with no further action.
There have been 3 visits in as many weeks this time, and each time I have had to take time out from work to allow the LL access. The stress of the constant threat of police investigations or eviction is having a massive impact on my mental health and relationship with my family.
AIBU to say I will allow them access for one last visit, but after that, they will have to go to court or involve the police if they want to follow up on complaints?
We are being bullied and harassed, and it is being facilitated by the HA. I don't know what else I can do to stop it. I have asked the HA for support in dealing with, and while they are sympathetic, they tell me they have to follow up on all complaints, especially complaints about anti-social behaviour.