Been on a couple of dates with a guy I really liked and thought I fancied. We get along really well, he’s funny, pretty much my type etc. I definitely felt attracted to him and had the urge to kiss him the first and second times we met up…got all the right feelings when I thought about him etc. Then on our third date he finally did kiss me, which was fairly good. He’s a good kisser. Then we slept together, also fairly good (although maybe my judgement was a bit clouded by alcohol). When I woke up in the morning though I felt like that attraction had just kinda gone. I wasn’t grossed out and regretting it or anything like that, I just had zero urge to kiss him in the morning (when usually if I really fancied someone in that situation I’d definitely want to have sex again in the morning). Since then I don’t feel excited thinking about when we had sex (again, usually in that situation I would) don’t really get excited when he texts anymore. I feel so disappointed cos he’s perfect in so many ways. I’m wondering if I tried sleeping with him again I might feel differently? My gut is saying (screaming!) no I wouldn’t feel any different, in fact I’d probably regret it..so I’m just wondering if anyone’s experienced this and tried again and it’s been better? This isn’t about bad sex - the sex was fine for drunken first-time sex, it’s about attraction. I just think it’s disappeared :(