Why wouldn’t someone bring this up?

[Janelizzy]

Let’s say a woman and a man were intimate after a date. The intimacy was strong and passionate felt like making love. Lots of eye contacting kissing your feet all over your body. Lets say the man didn’t want you to leave, he became super affectionate that night after the intimacy. Lots of hugging pulling you in for cuddling. Willing to pay for you not to go work the next day.

the next day comes and he reaches out and is initiating communication with you. Yet he hasn’t brought up what happened between you too? He’s more so talking about everyday things like work, asking you about your day etc….. but no talks about what happened? The texts are very thoughtful not one worded. He’s been communicating like this for days but no talk about what happened.

Why do need a sex debrief? Are you fishing for sexual compliments after the fact? It's a bit weird, honestly.

WTAF do you want him to say & why can't you say it.

if you just want to brag about sex you might need to find a different audience, we're not impressed or jealous.

You guys I’m not even talking about him mentioning sex, but to at least mention our date ? It was the first time over meeting I’ve been talking to him off and on for some months plus he lives out of state.

Ah so it is you again

I wasn't keen on the taste of your body lotion.

If you enjoyed that much, why didn't you bring it up? Ask him how he felt and share how much you liked it. Why are you not asking?

What, you want him to text you and mention that he went on a date with you? Maybe he presumes that since you were there that you know what happened. Maybe I'm missing something.

You slept with this man? Despite all the advice telling you to block him.

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/5393839-why-does-he-remember-everything-i-post?page=5&reply=146512653

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/5397995-am-i-wrong-for-getting-offended?reply=146652116

I fear some people are beyond help.

What should he be saying? He showed how much he enjoyed the sex you had. And the intimacy and cuddles afterwards.

I would just be happy with that and then be in a general good mood the next morning if I was them. I wouldn't say a whole conversation about what happened would be necessary. I would ask to see them again and hope for the best.

Is it that you feel like he's now going to drop you? Based on what happened I wouldn't assume that.

I’d be pretty uncomfortable if someone kept on about it in the following days, even a subtle reference would ick me. Just get on with it, you’re getting to know him not reviewing performances.

What is it you want? If you're old enough to have sex then you're old enough to (disclaimer i hate this phrase, but it really does fit) use your words with him

Oh come on. Kissing feet dies not equate a foot fetish. Does kissing tummies mean a belly fetish or kissing behind your knees mean a behind the knee fetish

comments like yours make me think some people have weird sex. Like just touch the necessary bits please

How is saying the next day ‘I really enjoyed last night’ equate to keeping on about it for days?

oh dear not the same man you posted about before

Good grief op you're obsessed

OP, you were concerned enough in your previous threads to ask for advice.

If you’re not going to reflect on anything anyone said, the warnings they gave, then what’s the point.

You met, went on a date, and had sex with a really weird man who is already stalking you.

What’s the next thread going to be?

Did you mention it? If you didn’t how are you any different to him? And if you did how did he respond?

Maybe he’s written a Google review but it’s still pending review?

Text him and tell him you're still awaiting your post match report.

I don’t have weird sex, just my experiences I guess, every bloke that has wanted to kiss my feet has turned out full on in other ways, very clingy and love bomb-y, so every time someone mentions foot kissing/licking it causes that reaction in me 😂.

To me, foot kissing is symbolic of worship. Her description of his behaviour did seem very needy and touchy as well. As I said, different strokes for different folks. He could just be very excited and keen I suppose.

Maybe he can't get the taste of your bunion out of his mouth, sorry hun 😔

What’s that’s supposed to mean

🤮 Oh my god, this post should carry a 'sensitive content' warning! You've put me off my crisps!

Dear Jesus I cannot believe you met up with this man never mind slept with him

Sorry 😂