I don't know if I'm overreacting but my ex partner and I built a business together (I gave him the startup money for his venture he did the work) it is now valued at millions and Franchised all over the country.
He cheated on me with someone younger prettier after money started coming in and thus I left him with 2 DD 3 and 9months at the time with no money as he hid all the business and money from me.
He pays minimal CM through CMS and always claims he has no money when asked for extra. Clearly he and I know he's lying but I've given up arguing with him. He has a new family new younger prettier wife and DD And DS. He travels everywhere with them. Never takes the older two. Tells them the dates don't work, mum said you can't, default always blames me.
My DD's have just come back from their dads to tell me he is going away Wednesday for a week with his wife and kids, even though he promised he would take them away at least every other year. He hasn't. I feel so angry on their behalf. He chooses term time so he has a reason to exclude the older two. He's had 6 weeks to go away and he has been on 2 holidays himself but none with the girls.
Im so angry while writing this as I feel he's rejecting them and I worry this will lead to them having daddy issues and finding the wrong tyoe of person to fill the void.. it feels like history repeating itself (with me). Help me make sense of my anger please .
Children are now DD13 and DD10.5.