Ex mother in law made me cry bad

[TheOpalFox]

Any tips please ? I took my son to the gp for him to be checked out
His dads mom called
Me
A bad mom for it????? She said what about they ate a paedo(??? wtf ???? She made me feel horrendous for getting my son checked? Am I? My sons nearly 16 and not hit puberty yet? Thankyou
She said she’s calling social services on me !!!!

Let her call social services. She’ll be time wasting, but let her make a fool of herself.
She’s mad!
What are Dr’s meant to do if they can’t examine a patient. She sounds like she’s 2 electrons short of a full outer shell.

@TheOpalFox you still have not answered the questions about where your mil is getting her information?? she is not entitled to be informed of anything at all????

My son told her

No need she even has your phone number.. Block her.

Ignore the EX MIL

BUT why did your son tell her? Was he uncomfortable with the Dr? Was there a nurse in the room too?

you are ridiculous to be crying 'hard' over this (& I can cry over a butter advert)

They are saying I’m fucked up for taking him
and letting a doctor look at his private??? And calling him
a peado :(

You don't need to allow the woman to contact you.
Reply with a thumbs up emoji then block her and don't give her a moment of thought.

I'd be considerably more concerned about her sanity than what she thought of my parenting. Maybe she'd should go and see the paedophile GP.

But now my sons dad is saying the same and reporting me to the social services for neglect and sexual abuse from taking him gp ? Can he do this

He can do it. But Social Services will think he's a fuck wit.

Let them report you op. You took a dc needing medical advice to a medical professional.. They wil both get laughed at.
You were being a decent dm.

They sound bloody stupid.
And you can't argue with stupid.

It’s lucky he is contacting Social services as this will show them what an idiot he is and saves you the bother.

An appointment with a GP, when an examination is required, will be seen as an act of care not negligence.

So if your son had a problem with his genitalia - a rash for example - who do they think should examine and treat?🙄

She didn’t make you cry. no one can make you do anything. She is crazy so just tell her so, hang up and block her.

Well technically of course they can report you to social services for any (batshit) reason they want.
it doesn’t mean anyone will take any notice of them though, so you’ve no cause for concern

How did your ex’s mother find out? Did you tell her? Or your ex? You don’t need to share everything that happens, you know.

There's got to be more to this.

How?

My son told her . He’s quite close to his Nan

How? Because it's beyond the realms of reason to believe that your son's father and grandmother would threaten to call social services just because you took him to the doctors. It is equally beyond credibility that they both think all doctors are pedophiles. I think it's more likely that they strongly disagree with you about your son's condition and it's resulted in this. Are you honestly saying that they both completely out of the blue and with no prior disagreements made these threats just because you took your son to see a doctor. Sorry, but that's completely unbelievable.

Are you vulnerable yourself OP? I don’t meant that in any way to cause offence just a genuine question

I have all the proof in texts. Trust me I do!!!

It’s because the doctor examined my son . That’s what they disagree with 😬 and saying they are paedos for examining my son . I have
alk the proof in a text

Well my sons dad abused me years ago? But I have been in therapy and now lead a normal happy life ?

I'm not doubting that they said it OP, but I don't think you've given us the full picture. In fact you haven't given any background information at all. Have there been any arguments about your son's condition or upbringing? Do his father and grandmother belong to a particular religion that might affect their opinion? You are only providing basic answers, so it's very hard to believe that they would behave like this completely out of the blue.