I’ve recently joined hinge after 3 years of being single. Before that I was in a very toxic relationship for 9 years which took me a long time to get over..
a guy “liked” my profile and first look he looks lovely, handsome and going off his bio really funny. Then I saw his age 27!! I’m 37!
I replied saying I was flattered but the age gap feels too much.. he’s been lovely and said age is just a number etc and would love to take me out.
My profile makes it clear I’m only open to dating, I have 2 children and a full time job so a relationship is not something I want but company is, someone to go for meals with, cinema dates etc. He is the same as his long term relationship finished in December and he has a daughter so doesn’t want anymore kids either.
My friend thinks I should go and have some fun and if neither of us are looking for long term then it doesn’t matter but the age gap freaks me out and I don’t know why! If he was 10 years older than me then I wouldn’t care!
what would you do?