Long story short, my mother offered to come and mind DS while DH and I toil in the garden - only for a few hours and combined with a weekend visit - ie staying the night.
I accepted the offer and emailed to ask when can she come, turns out either this weekend or else not for another month so I said this weekend would be great but I understood it was short notice (this was on Tuesday).
She's not replied... I now feel I've called her bluff and she probably only offered out of feeling obliged or something. But I want to know if she's coming or not. Relations somewhat strained of late (due to her not bothering much with us yet lavishing time an attention on other people/activities) so I fear if I phone it will turn into her getting huffy and me upset that she's not coming.
AIBU to expect her to let me know if she is coming this weekend?