Next door boy aged 17 plays very loud and v. crap music with his window open [so he can have a fag innit] the lyrics when i got home today were ''i'm a player and i don't give a fuck' it is generally rubbish sweary gangsta [keepin it real in suburbia riight] This has been going on for a couple of years. For a while we did nothing, his younger brother died prior to the loud music starting and well we were all teenagers once so we let it go but I really feel now enough is enough. We have spoken to his mum, who is lovely but doesn't seem to have much influence, when dd was born 6 months ago I wrote him a note, dh has been round and asked him to stop behaving like a twat. Dont know what to do, dont want to upset anyone, know they have had a really rough time but want to be able to live in peace, enjoy garden/having windows open this summer...