Married 13 years 16 together my husband has gone from being the party fun super social to a complete introvert when it comes to any kind of socialing to the point where he gives me crap and tries to fall out with me whenever we have to go anywhere with people.
it makes me feel so stressed before I go out that I don’t want to go as I’m on edge.
I’ve got to the point where I hate getting invited out as a couple and would rather go out with the girls but then he moans at me and asks what time I will be home I feel like I have to clock watch.
i am never out super late and always keep him updated where I am but I just feel on edge constantly I can’t relax.
I always makes excuses why he isn’t there people actually don’t expect him to come so much now.
in the house he prefers to be watching his own thing so I’m sat on my own a lot at night we don’t have kids so it’s just us.
He does things that suits him.
when we get invited to do something he makes such a fuss the majority of the time giving me shit or he has to agree a time to go home we are always the first to leave anywhere it makes me feel awkward as I could have a full drink and enjoying myself.
we used to have such a lovely life and do things together at the weekends now I just feel lonely and fed up
i go to things alone a lot as don’t want to just work all week and then sit at my home on my own.
i don’t want to leave him but honestly feel like I live a single life but with the agg of his moods and miserableness.
its been getting worse over the last 18 months