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To ask when does a crisis become the new normal?

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FurForksSake · 22/08/2025 18:24

I keep seeing posts on social media about how ten years ago it was achievable for a family to have a takeaway without thinking about the cost, buy a magazine, get a coffee, go to the cinema etc on a semi regular basis. Now, for many families those things are either out of reach, a rare treat or a cost that needs at least to be considered. Of course there will be families who can manage these things without thought, but the pool of people that applies to has become smaller.

the cost of living crisis has been going on for so long and there are unlikely to be rate cuts this year and inflation continues to run at a level above the target. Wages are stagnant, prices continue to rise.

so, is this a crisis or just how it is now? We will never recover the standard of living we had and need to accept that this it. Prices won’t be coming down, wages will have to rise so significantly to catch up that it’s unlikely to happen.

I feel sometimes that by calling it a crisis people expect it to be time limited. Like a recession in our boom and bust economic history. Is it likely? Are the boom times coming? Should we be just setting our expectations lower or can we hope for more?

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OnePinkDeer · 22/08/2025 18:27

People have short memories.

When i was little, not that long ago, School in the 1990s, everything was so expensive. Toys, clothes you name it. Eating out never happened. Cinema hardly ever.

There was no primark or disposable fast fashion your clothes had to last.

Possibly just become accustomed to a cheap way of life but it isn't the first time the cost of living has been bad. Maybe not for 30 years but it happens.

Theunamedcat · 22/08/2025 18:30

I think its our new normal now awful isnt it? Even when costs go down they are not passed on to the customer when it goes up they push it up more the amount of things I no longer buy because it's just not worth it is ridiculous

thistimelastweek · 22/08/2025 18:31

When did food banks become normal?
We live in a wealthy country.
So how has that happened?

DramaLlamacchiato · 22/08/2025 18:34

I think it’s just so individual for people. I was far more skint 5 - 15 years ago than now, when I worked part time and had to pay for childcare. I feel positively minted now in comparison

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