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AIBU to think that those who say “covid is just a cold” would rather just have a cold than covid if given the choice?

105 replies

Owlonbranchtwo · 21/08/2025 12:17

As per title.

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Boomer55 · 21/08/2025 16:40

Owlonbranchtwo · 21/08/2025 12:17

As per title.

My DH died of Covid, in 2023, so it was certainly more than a cold to him. 🙄

GeneticallyModifiedGrump · 21/08/2025 18:49

Owlonbranchtwo · 21/08/2025 13:46

This is the view that my AIBU was aimed at, so I’m interested in your take. You have to work for the day in room a or b. Room a has someone with a cold, room b has someone with covid. For you, both will have similar symptoms in the acute stage. Which room do you pick?

Personally I would probably pick the covid room, I seem to catch every single cold going, so far I haven't had covid (that I am aware of, no longer testing) despite my daughter having it and being in close contact with her (she was 10 so interacted with the family as normal, only had mild 'sniffles'). I worked in care towards the end of the lockdown so regularly came into contact with people with all sorts of symptoms.

Berlinlover · 21/08/2025 18:56

I caught Covid three weeks after finishing chemo, it was like a mild version of a cold.

Owlonbranchtwo · 21/08/2025 19:14

DiscoBob · 21/08/2025 15:57

I totally agree. They're very different. I would never say it but OP did.

It’s not something I think, but something I’ve seen others post. I was genuinely interested in whether they would really dismiss all the info on short and longer term risks and impacts for themselves (and on many occasions, others) if they see covid as the same as a run of the mill cold.

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DiscoBob · 21/08/2025 19:16

Owlonbranchtwo · 21/08/2025 19:14

It’s not something I think, but something I’ve seen others post. I was genuinely interested in whether they would really dismiss all the info on short and longer term risks and impacts for themselves (and on many occasions, others) if they see covid as the same as a run of the mill cold.

Yeah, I got that it wasn't you thinking it. I just meant you brought it up. Perfectly reasonable to ask about it.

Owlonbranchtwo · 21/08/2025 19:29

GeneticallyModifiedGrump · 21/08/2025 18:49

Personally I would probably pick the covid room, I seem to catch every single cold going, so far I haven't had covid (that I am aware of, no longer testing) despite my daughter having it and being in close contact with her (she was 10 so interacted with the family as normal, only had mild 'sniffles'). I worked in care towards the end of the lockdown so regularly came into contact with people with all sorts of symptoms.

Thank you. So it’s more just focusing on the immediacy of the impact on you?

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unsync · 21/08/2025 20:07

If you have a chronic respiratory illness, or a compromised immune system, or look after someone with a life limiting condition, Covid is bad news. No-one seems to give a shit about people with long term health conditions though. So whilst the pandemic may seem a long while ago to you @Owlonbranchtwo, for some of us, it is still very much present in our day to day awareness.

If I came into contact with someone who had Covid and I passed it to my cared for, there is a possibility I would kill them.

ShesTheAlbatross · 21/08/2025 20:12

A cold can vary hugely in severity, from a mild sniffle to something that puts you in bed for a few days. Covid can also range from very mild to severe. I’ve had asymptomatic covid, and miserable colds. I’ve also had mild colds (and I assume asymptomatic ones, I just wouldn’t know), and miserable covid.

Aspanielstolemysanity · 21/08/2025 20:18

"just a cold" can also be dangerous for some people
I don't like people who trivialise either

ShesTheAlbatross · 21/08/2025 20:22

Aspanielstolemysanity · 21/08/2025 20:18

"just a cold" can also be dangerous for some people
I don't like people who trivialise either

I agree. I find it bizarre when people say things like “I’ve got a horrible cold, but I’m going to make sure it’s not Covid before I visit my elderly relative”. Well if it’s not Covid it could be a horrible cold that they don’t want, or flu, which (despite some people’s insistence) can be mild enough to make you feel rotten but still able to get out of bed.

Owlonbranchtwo · 21/08/2025 20:27

Boomer55 · 21/08/2025 16:40

My DH died of Covid, in 2023, so it was certainly more than a cold to him. 🙄

I’m very sorry for your loss.

FWIW, I don’t think of covid as a cold. I know it’s already taken many lives and destroyed/destroying many others.

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Gwenhwyfar · 21/08/2025 20:28

Not necessarily.
Obviously, I hope I don't get a serious bout of Covid, but mild Covid can be less annoying than a cold.

Gwenhwyfar · 21/08/2025 20:30

ShesTheAlbatross · 21/08/2025 20:22

I agree. I find it bizarre when people say things like “I’ve got a horrible cold, but I’m going to make sure it’s not Covid before I visit my elderly relative”. Well if it’s not Covid it could be a horrible cold that they don’t want, or flu, which (despite some people’s insistence) can be mild enough to make you feel rotten but still able to get out of bed.

Yes, but some parents want to see their adult children even if they have a cold. In fact, the older the person is, the more likely they may be to want to take that risk. It's not as straight forward as you make out.

museumum · 21/08/2025 20:34

Covid (x3) for me has been like the flu. And I’ve only had the flu twice in my whole life. I’d take a common cold any day of the week.
my covids have involved 40th fever and a heart rate over 100 when sleeping. And I’m healthy otherwise with no immune issues.

Aspanielstolemysanity · 21/08/2025 20:37

Gwenhwyfar · 21/08/2025 20:30

Yes, but some parents want to see their adult children even if they have a cold. In fact, the older the person is, the more likely they may be to want to take that risk. It's not as straight forward as you make out.

I always let people know if I am under the weather with anything - that leaves them to make an informed choice

User3456 · 21/08/2025 20:40

catsareace · 21/08/2025 14:22

In my NHS Trust us medical staff are expected to still come into work if we have Covid. We can still see patients all day long just wear a mask. I don't think that many folk test anymore to be honest.

I think this is appalling policy from NHS trusts
At the very least, patients should be informed if the health professional they are seeing is infectious and should be offered the opportunity to change their appointment or wear a mask

Gwenhwyfar · 21/08/2025 20:41

Aspanielstolemysanity · 21/08/2025 20:37

I always let people know if I am under the weather with anything - that leaves them to make an informed choice

Yep, if they're 95 they know they could go at any time anyway and may prefer to see people.

Gwenhwyfar · 21/08/2025 20:42

museumum · 21/08/2025 20:34

Covid (x3) for me has been like the flu. And I’ve only had the flu twice in my whole life. I’d take a common cold any day of the week.
my covids have involved 40th fever and a heart rate over 100 when sleeping. And I’m healthy otherwise with no immune issues.

I had diarrhoea then back pain then a bit of a cough. I've had colds that were much worse with various phases, really painful sore throat and loss of voice, etc.

XenoBitch · 21/08/2025 21:09

I have had Covid twice, and it was like a very mild cold for me. I have had colds that have knocked me for six. The type were you are counting down the minutes to the next dose of Lemsip. I always seems to have one around New Year time.
Both colds and Covid vary so much. Some people had Covid with no symptoms at all.

Dangermoo · 21/08/2025 21:19

OnlyMabelInTheBuilding · 21/08/2025 12:52

How does anyone know if they have covid now? Seriously, I’ve not seen tests for sale anywhere. Surely no one is still testing?

I did recently because, having it so bed two years ago, I wanted to keep tests in. I didn't think the onset of my cold would be covid, but it was. Thankfully it was more like mild flu, this time round.

Tamar2 · 21/08/2025 21:20

@GeneticallyModifiedGrump Covid isn't going to disappear or stop disabling people because it has gone out of fashion to care about it. It is still causing significant long term damage and disability in plenty of people of all ages. Quite different than a cold.
https://healthcare.utah.edu/healthfeed/2022/01/covid-19-increasing-stroke-risks-people-of-all-ages
https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/covid-19-leaves-its-mark-on-the-brain-significant-drops-in-iq-scores-are/?utm_campaign=socialflow&utm_medium=social&utm_source=reddit

Owlonbranchtwo · 22/08/2025 00:26

unsync · 21/08/2025 20:07

If you have a chronic respiratory illness, or a compromised immune system, or look after someone with a life limiting condition, Covid is bad news. No-one seems to give a shit about people with long term health conditions though. So whilst the pandemic may seem a long while ago to you @Owlonbranchtwo, for some of us, it is still very much present in our day to day awareness.

If I came into contact with someone who had Covid and I passed it to my cared for, there is a possibility I would kill them.

I don’t think the pandemic was over a long time ago - if anything, I’d go as far as to say we are still in it, but obviously in a different position to pre-vaccine.

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Athreedoorwardrobe · 22/08/2025 00:31

It's different for everyone surely!!
I had it twice. One of the times it developed into pneumonia. The other i didn't even really have any symptoms, i wouldnt have even noticed only we had to regularly test due to my husbands job.
However my friend who was in her late twenties and pretty fit, had it and had a pulmonary embolism due to it!! She's still not back at 100% even now.
Another old school friend died in his sleep due to covid.. only early 30s.
Another friend has long covid and his life is still a nightmare.
None of these people had underlying medical issues
So actually I guess despite having covid once with next to no symptoms.. I'd choose the cold because it seems like covid is a ropey lottery

ImGoingUpstairsToTakeOffMyHat · 22/08/2025 00:33

I had to check I hadn’t time travelled 5 years.

Who cares.

I had COVID in 2021, was pretty bad. Had it twice since and it was much easier. I’d rather have COVID now than a cold TBH.