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To wonder Why some poorer Asian countries seem to have “better” mental health than richer European countries

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Aqus · 19/08/2025 10:11

I have travelled extensively in Asia especially South east and have noticed people tend to have little financially but better mental health while it seems opposite in rich countries in Europe and US.
I always wonder why that is? I think one of the factors is their culture about families supporting each other and concept of big families and extended family being there to support in bringing up children and looking after elderly. Another factor seems like sunshine and weather.
What are your thoughts on this?

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turkeyboots · 19/08/2025 13:11

Chinese working culture is 996. 9am to 9pm 6 days a week. Leaving your kids with your parents 1000km away as you can't get them into a local school as your offical "home" is back with your parents. Mental health issues are rife, as is alcohol abuse.

Poverty is never kind to mental health and all the smiles tourist and businesses people see are part of the sales package.

DancefloorAcrobatics · 19/08/2025 14:46

A luck of understanding and diagnosis doesn't mean that these health conditions do not exist.

DiordreBarlow · 19/08/2025 15:22

WhenYouSayNothingAtAll · 19/08/2025 12:12

Nothing to do about being at a different stage in life or the fact that they had already amassed some wealth (pensions, property etc.) right?

Because I bet the people moving there didn’t live their whole lives in a council house , in NMW jobs and only have a state pension do they?

How many of the youngsters that grew up there stay? How many are stable, secure and happy? How many take full advantage of the social clubs and what not , or are they too busy working in the low paid , seasonal jobs?

Well I am sure there is an element of people being at a different stage in their lives but the people I know are from lots of different backgrounds and are at different stages in their lives. Some of the older people who come to live here still do part time work to keep afloat.

Lots of people who grew up here stay. They're tradespeople, teachers, traders on the local market. Lots of my neighbours fall into exactly that category and now live, have families and work here. They very definitely are in the local teams, clubs, scouts, pub teams, WI, swimming groups etc. The local football, cricket and rugby clubs are packed with local young people.

I'm in a litter picking group where the local DofE kids are really active, my climate group was started by a girl in the local sixth form.

There is community spirit galore here and not just from grey incomers if that's the point you're making.

MoodyMargaret11 · 19/08/2025 15:27

Imo, There's a huge ENTITLEMENT in the UK these days.
People with low to mid level MH issues insisting they can't cope and cant do anything to help themselves. So many organizations nowadays supporting people in all kinds of ways (and for free), but everyone complains that it's not enough or nothing works.
That goes for benefit entitlement too - I have anxiety so cant work, too depressed to work etc blanket statements.
If you are genuinely NOT ABLE to work, then it wouldn't matter what country you live in. But somehow magically in the developing countries people have ten times the resilience and are "much more able" than someone with the same issues from the West.

RubySquid · 19/08/2025 15:30

CreationNat1on · 19/08/2025 10:26

Hierarchy of needs, if you preoccupied with daily survival, you don't have too much time or energy to over-analyse.

This

TakeMe2Insanity · 19/08/2025 15:33

Simonjt · 19/08/2025 10:17

You haven’t travelled much in Pakistan then have you? Find me a genuinely happy woman living in poverty.

Wow such a sweeping statement. So all women in Pakistan are living in poverty having a mental health crisis.

WhenYouSayNothingAtAll · 19/08/2025 15:41

TakeMe2Insanity · 19/08/2025 15:33

Wow such a sweeping statement. So all women in Pakistan are living in poverty having a mental health crisis.

Reading comprehension failure there.

WhenYouSayNothingAtAll · 19/08/2025 15:46

MoodyMargaret11 · 19/08/2025 15:27

Imo, There's a huge ENTITLEMENT in the UK these days.
People with low to mid level MH issues insisting they can't cope and cant do anything to help themselves. So many organizations nowadays supporting people in all kinds of ways (and for free), but everyone complains that it's not enough or nothing works.
That goes for benefit entitlement too - I have anxiety so cant work, too depressed to work etc blanket statements.
If you are genuinely NOT ABLE to work, then it wouldn't matter what country you live in. But somehow magically in the developing countries people have ten times the resilience and are "much more able" than someone with the same issues from the West.

In developing countries they end up on the streets , dependent on the charity of others or simply… die. Unless they are lucky enough to have extended family that will support them in some form or another. Those countries don’t exactly have stellar records when it comes to disabled people and their quality of life/survival rates. Why do you think mental health issues would be any different?

GleisZwei · 19/08/2025 15:49

RochelleGoyle · 19/08/2025 10:13

Meant to say, less culture of materialism, entitlement and greed.

Edited

Many people want what they're used to having and/or what they see those around them having.

Simonjt · 19/08/2025 17:43

TakeMe2Insanity · 19/08/2025 15:33

Wow such a sweeping statement. So all women in Pakistan are living in poverty having a mental health crisis.

You’re the one who has decided that all women in Pakistan are living in poverty. As an aside, how long did you/have you lived in Pakistan for?

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