Me and my mother in law have never really got on. She's very controlling of my husband. Still treats him like a child. With her grandson she blows hot and cold depending on her mood of the day. She was all over her grandson when he was first born but the novelty did last long. She rings up at 11pm at night for ridiculous reasons. I've tried to get her interested in groups, day centres, groups to do with gardening, social groups, she has gone to one group. It was a dining out group and it was going good, after 4 groups. She fell out with ppl from that group. She tells ppl too much about herself whens she first meets them. i think it scares ppl off. She's too much too soon with ppl. Her behaviour sometimes can be very strange. She's very sensitive but she has a very dark sense of humour. My patience is wearing thin. I decided to put in some boundaries. I want to tell her to ring or txt before showing up at our home. I want her not to ring after 8pm as we have our own lives and it's going to come toa point where I snap. I don't want that to happen. Can anybody give me some advise please