Been with partner 15 years, 3 years ago I had an inkling that he was smoking weed something I hugely disagree on especially as we had a child together ! I smelt it on him several times and he denied every time and made me feel like I was abit mad to think it, one evening I searched his car and found a lot of weed a grinder etc I told him I wasn’t prepared to stay with him if that’s what he’s doing especially behind my back ! Anyhow a few days later I found out I was pregnant and gave him the choice me and our baby or weed! He promised he wouldn’t do it or lie again ! This isn’t my issue I do believe that he has stuck to that and hasn’t lied to me about it again! There are no signs of him smoking it either !
here’s my issue - I don’t like being lied to!
mu little girl repeated something his mum said to him and when I asked him about it he said no nothing was said about that ( something to do with sending his nephew a card ) doesn’t matter to me annoys me because they didn’t acknowledge our sons birthday but not sure why he’d lie about it !
then today I had a message from his mum to say “ dp said about a message you deleted “ I asked him again if he’s mentioned a message I deleted to her and he said “ no I’ve not said anything about it “ which he clearly has ! Again I’m not bothered if he’s said anything it’s the fact he’s lied to me about it ! And Petty lies to there’s no need to lie but now I’m wondering what else he lies about!