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Husband and another woman!!!

34 replies

Tiredmumof3boy · 16/08/2025 16:18

My husband recently met a woman through a sport he follows. He claims they are just friends. My 2 older kids have met her through watching football games. They sit together during the games and have sat together during away games. It's the school holidays and he took the kids to meet her at a local park and for lunch. He didn't tell me about it. He then posted the photos onto social media sparking comments from my friends asking if everything is OK. I've told him I'm not at all happy that he took my kids to meet this woman and find it strange she wants to spend a weekday out with my husband and kids-she doesn't have kids. I've asked him how this day out came about as the sport season has ended therefore how and why are they still messaging each other. He's telling me I'm ridiculous and won't answer my questions. Am I being paranoid???

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Homeandgarden · 16/08/2025 21:09

Sunshineandblueskysalltheway · 16/08/2025 21:07

When did you last have sex, OP?

What on earth has that got to do with it?

Are you trying to justify OP's H sniffing round another woman?

Notquitethetruth · 16/08/2025 21:09

How would he feel if you were going to games or some other activity and meeting up with an almost 30 year old man? You then arranged to meet him outside the confines of the sport.
What do your children say about her? The whole thing is bizarre.

MamaElephantMama · 16/08/2025 21:13

I would be enraged if I am being truthful.

lovemycbf · 16/08/2025 21:17

No that’s not ok in anyway
I’d put a stop to it right away
it’s how affairs start
and I’d be utterly furious that he’d involved our children
totally unacceptable

Trovindia · 16/08/2025 21:31

I don't think I would want him after this anyway, he's emotionally cheating and gaslighting you. Personally, I would chuck him out.

arcticpandas · 16/08/2025 21:47

The meeting in the park was the nail in the coffin. Tell him straight out that it's not on. If he goes to meet her then he is not to bother coming home again. It's very disrespectful and he used your children so that it wasn't flagrant that this was a date. I'm sorry OP.

Sally2791 · 16/08/2025 21:51

He’s hiding in plain sight. Gaslighting as well.

Gladysknightjustwalkinmyshoes · 16/08/2025 22:04

It's never Doris the staunch fan of 50+years of the club.
It's always a younger model and arranging a day out with the kids in tow...nah mate you're not on.

Zanzara · 16/08/2025 22:26

If it were innocent, he'd have mentioned it.

That's it.

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