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Loss of 30 free hours will cost me £37,000 of pre-tax income

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ChildcareCost · 15/08/2025 09:59

9 month olds are eligible for 30 free hours from September. If you earn over the threshold, you do not get this 30 free hours plus the £2,000 of tax-free childcare.

My nursery typically charges £2,150 a month for an under-3. This works out at c. £10 an hour assuming a 50 hour week (open 8-6).

They have circulated the free hours schedule this week, and the monthly cost with 30 free hours is £1,100 hours for an under-3 (noting funded hours only cover 38 weeks).

This means the loss of the 30 free hours will cost me £12,600 a year. Plus of course the loss of tax-free childcare at £2,000.

So, I need to earn an extra £14,600 net just to cover the cost of not being eligible for this scheme.

To earn that £14,600 over £100,000 – I need to earn a gross figure of £137,000.

Surely this is not fair on the parents excluded from the scheme? It doesn't seem proportional that I need to earn an extra £37,000 just to recoup the loss as a result of not being eligible!

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IwouldlikeanewTV · 15/08/2025 14:00

OP I think you have lost it. No one on £160k should get state help for children. Add your partners and you probably both earn over £200k.

HostaCentral · 15/08/2025 14:00

But OP, everyone at certain levels loses something. I was a SAHM with high earning DH. We got fuck all of fuck all. Zero, nothing. No child benefit, no married persons allowance, no childcare, no transferable allowance, high rate taxpayer, with no allowances for being a single earning household. Others, where couples earned the combined equivalent, got everything, now, THATS not fair.

You know what, we even paid for private school and private healthcare, even though we contributed tens of thousands to the tax bucket.

We never claimed anything ever.

JoshLymanSwagger · 15/08/2025 14:00

niadainud · 15/08/2025 13:58

I'm just going to fetch a microscope to enable me to find the world's tiniest violin.

🎻🔬 There you go. 🤐

Kitte321 · 15/08/2025 14:00

Whammyyammy · 15/08/2025 13:56

So your salary is £160k per annum, yet you feel the tax payers should fund the childcare for your 9 month old, to the tune of £12k per year?

what you mean tax payers like HER? Paying huge amounts of tax and as such she is funding it herself in reality?

ToddlerSleep · 15/08/2025 14:00

I don’t understand the hate you are getting here OP. Why is it ok to get basically £37k gross extra support if you earn £99,999 but you are expected to accept the loss if you earn £2 more and be grateful for it?

OP I’m in a similar situation to you and decided to go part time. I worked out that my full time salary without childcare support meant I was financially worse off than working part time and being eligible for childcare support, while also giving me better work life balance.

DodoTired · 15/08/2025 14:01

Hollietree · 15/08/2025 13:17

I think you’ll survive on £160k per year 🤯

I had my babies 10-15 years ago and there was ZERO funding for any free childcare for 0-3 year olds. When they turned 3 we got 15 hours free childcare per week.

Most couples managed to pay for their own childcare, despite earning less together than you earn alone.

I bet you didn’t pay 2K a month for a standard nursery 10-15 years ago and your mortgage was much lower than now too.
even 4 years ago nursery for my eldest cost £1300 full time, now is 2K full time

KarmaKameelion · 15/08/2025 14:01

BIossomtoes · 15/08/2025 13:53

The vast majority of people could work every waking hour and not earn that. Equally some of the hardest working people in the country are on minimum wage. There’s something very badly wrong with a society that equates earning a top 0.5% salary with hard work.

this is obviously tongue and cheek. I used to earn a 6 figure salary until childcare costs fucked my career and now I earn min wage. I know hard work doesn’t equate to salary but I would never begrudge anyone their success.

ChildcareCost · 15/08/2025 14:01

niadainud · 15/08/2025 13:58

I'm just going to fetch a microscope to enable me to find the world's tiniest violin.

Ok so I work part time and claim the free hours.

HMRC lose ~£35k of tax revenue and now have to give me the £14,600.

I know lots of people doing this - as I’ve said, if I earn a penny less than £137k I will lose money.

Why is this a positive? That is what I am being incentivised to do - and what a great many people are already doing.

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BIossomtoes · 15/08/2025 14:02

OldLondonDad · 15/08/2025 13:59

But as has been pointed out on this thread - the high earners are the ones actually paying the tax already, yet not getting the benefits. I can't believe universal childcare would amount to much, given it's already given to ~95% of people. What's the other 5% going to cost?

In my (our really, as a couple) case - I am staying at work, as the high earner. My wife however is taking 3 or 4 years out of working as if she kept working full-time, earning a decent salary (around £50k) we'd be a whole £500 a month better off. There is no point.

Is that what you want? I suspect not. Doesn't exactly do much for her career, or more generally, equality in the workforce. But the tax policy makes us make those kinds of decisions.

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There’s no point in being £500 a month better off? 😲

DodoTired · 15/08/2025 14:03

JoshLymanSwagger · 15/08/2025 13:52

Why can't you?

Do you think those earning minimum wage and on UC as a top up are actually fucking proud of that?
Do they boast about being poor?
Going to a food bank?
Second hand clothes and toys?

The system isn't perfect, but if I earned that salary I wouldn't whinge about paying for private childcare I'd have a f/t nanny

Somebody can't manage their finances - and it isn't me.

Why are you bashing high earners though, how is it their fault that you are on minimum wage and UC?
do you knot see that your UC top up actually is possible because someone else is earning much more money and pays a lot in tax?

northernballer · 15/08/2025 14:03

The whole system is fucked tbh, between DH and I we paid overr 60k in tax last year and still can't get a fucking drs appt for the kids, god knows where the money goes

Not sure what the answer is.

DodoTired · 15/08/2025 14:03

BIossomtoes · 15/08/2025 14:02

There’s no point in being £500 a month better off? 😲

No point if it requires much longer working hours for example and not seeing you child at all

Finteq · 15/08/2025 14:04

anotherside · 15/08/2025 13:57

I agree it should be universal.

Agree.

YANBU

There are some benefits that should just be universal and this is one of them.

niadainud · 15/08/2025 14:04

KarmaKameelion · 15/08/2025 14:01

this is obviously tongue and cheek. I used to earn a 6 figure salary until childcare costs fucked my career and now I earn min wage. I know hard work doesn’t equate to salary but I would never begrudge anyone their success.

Tongue and cheek?

AlexisP90 · 15/08/2025 14:04

niadainud · 15/08/2025 13:58

I'm just going to fetch a microscope to enable me to find the world's tiniest violin.

Good luck. I looked after reading this post and didn't quite manage to find one small enough

Gall10 · 15/08/2025 14:05

Snorlaxo · 15/08/2025 10:44

Most savvy people who need the funding and earn around the cut off will pay more into their pension so their gross salary is 99,000 rather than 100,000

And expect low paid workers to contribute to their child care costs….maybe the most mumsnet thing I’ve seen this century.

Gall10 · 15/08/2025 14:06

Finteq · 15/08/2025 14:04

Agree.

YANBU

There are some benefits that should just be universal and this is one of them.

Which benefit is universal?

JoshLymanSwagger · 15/08/2025 14:06

BIossomtoes · 15/08/2025 14:02

There’s no point in being £500 a month better off? 😲

I know - that's a couple of new "fancy" sofas.
although my cats would shred them within 24hrs
😹

or

The annual running cost of CT, gas, elec, water, internet, house insurance and 2 (modest and not v new) cars.

Superstorefan123 · 15/08/2025 14:06

I think it is completely fair to say someone on £100k shouldn’t be getting free childcare. However it is ridiculous that 2 people on £99k each could claim it - surely it’s about subsidising where there is greatest need? It should be based on a combined family income of say £150k

Gall10 · 15/08/2025 14:07

northernballer · 15/08/2025 14:03

The whole system is fucked tbh, between DH and I we paid overr 60k in tax last year and still can't get a fucking drs appt for the kids, god knows where the money goes

Not sure what the answer is.

If you pay 60k in tax maybe you and others like you need to be taxed a bit more…

Nanny0gg · 15/08/2025 14:07

ChildcareCost · 15/08/2025 11:04

I just think I should be eligible for the childcare scheme that 95% of other parents can access, yes.

The loss of childcare being worth £37,000 of pre-tax earnings is very significant and is likely to change people’s behaviour around work - pensions, hours worked, promotions gone for etc.

Say I earn £165,000, including the loss of childcare hours my effective tax + loss of benefits rate would be 80% on every penny above £100k. Thats quite significant.

How many holidays will this cost you?

I've been paying tax for more than 50 years. I don't see why I should subsidise you.

And obviously, never had funded childcare

NaughtyTortieOwner00 · 15/08/2025 14:08

I think childcare should be a universal benefit. I pay plenty of tax, participating in the support that funds for everyone else would be nice.

It's not thought of like that - and frankly getting any government help with childcare hard enough with more of the electorate being beyond needing it or never wanting kids.

People near the threshold with put more in their pensions, or cut hours.

People well over the thresehold - pay or drastcially reduce your pay either by hours or work done.

I think if we want people at all social economic levels to have more kids going forward then we need to offer more support. However many are unaware of how low our birth rate is or don't see an issue with it which includes the current government.

Inyournewdress · 15/08/2025 14:08

There are quite a few benefits I have been eligible for over the years and could have claimed. 95% of the time I didn’t because I could get by without so I left it in the state coffers so to speak. I guess its in part perspective.

Enjoy Dubai all of you fleeing, sounds absolutely exceptional from what I have heard 😆

Chillyjam · 15/08/2025 14:08

People have a tendency to think what am I missing out on, what am I not getting that others are.
This scheme is trying to level the playing field. Help those that need it.

Loss of 30 free hours will cost me £37,000 of pre-tax income
cheesycheesy · 15/08/2025 14:08

Pay your own childcare you greedy sod

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