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Loss of 30 free hours will cost me £37,000 of pre-tax income

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ChildcareCost · 15/08/2025 09:59

9 month olds are eligible for 30 free hours from September. If you earn over the threshold, you do not get this 30 free hours plus the £2,000 of tax-free childcare.

My nursery typically charges £2,150 a month for an under-3. This works out at c. £10 an hour assuming a 50 hour week (open 8-6).

They have circulated the free hours schedule this week, and the monthly cost with 30 free hours is £1,100 hours for an under-3 (noting funded hours only cover 38 weeks).

This means the loss of the 30 free hours will cost me £12,600 a year. Plus of course the loss of tax-free childcare at £2,000.

So, I need to earn an extra £14,600 net just to cover the cost of not being eligible for this scheme.

To earn that £14,600 over £100,000 – I need to earn a gross figure of £137,000.

Surely this is not fair on the parents excluded from the scheme? It doesn't seem proportional that I need to earn an extra £37,000 just to recoup the loss as a result of not being eligible!

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20thcenturygirlwithherhandsonthewheel · 15/08/2025 11:59

She’s not “scabbing off the state” she’s probably paying more in tax and ni every year than other people earn at all.

by higher earners paying tax, that’s why others can recieve various benefits

Imperativvv · 15/08/2025 12:00

StatisticallyChallenged · 15/08/2025 11:57

A well designed tax and benefits system should mean that earning more always makes you better off, even if it is by a reducing amount. Otherwise you create disincentives which end up reducing tax income and increasing costs.

At the 100k threshold you have both the loss of personal allowance and the loss of funded childcare. That creates a cliff edge situation where you earn £1 more and have significantly less money. So people salary sacrifice or cut hours to avoid it.

If it was at least tapered, then people wouldn't do this. Meaning they would continue to earn and pay tax over £100k, and would contribute towards the childcare costs. Instead they cut pay to 99k, don't pay that extra tax, and the govt pays the childcare.

Its a stupid approach, regardless of whether you think high earners deserve the help or not.

This.

Which is why I think OP would've done better to frame the issue in these undeniable terms, rather than making it about people's subjective notions of fairness.

Although it would probably have turned into that anyway, if previous threads on the issue are anything to go by.

FlowerUser · 15/08/2025 12:00

So let’s make it universal free childcare for everyone, including millionaires.

Tax rates for those earning over £150k might have to go up. Tax for those on more than £100k, £40k may have to go up. A wealth tax may have to be introduced. A land value tax might replace council tax, so the £2000 a year bill might be £6000 for some people with expensive properties.

Or you can pay for your own childcare. Because you can afford it.

I bet you plan to pay your kids’ university fees and probably give them some money to live on. Maybe you plan to educate them privately. All this costs money that you probably are more than happy to pay.

It’s about priorities and choices.

Personally I am a higher rate tax payer and I don’t have any children, so I’m never going to benefit from free childcare or universal education. And that’s fine, because I think it’s important to support people who need support. You don’t need support.

ChildcareCost · 15/08/2025 12:01

anytipswelcome · 15/08/2025 11:57

I agree it’s obscene that a household earning £198k is eligible, I’m unsure as to why you seem to keep making out everyone taking issue with your stance on this thinks that that element (it being by individual not household) of the current system is fair or morally right? I certainly don’t.

Can you really not understand why your take on this has caused such a strong reaction, when you step back and look at it more objectively?

I think people are reacting emotionally rather than rationally - and perhaps unable to think objectively about how they might behave if they found themselves in the same scenario.

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BlueOceanFish · 15/08/2025 12:01

Yep you lost me at £160000

EasternStandard · 15/08/2025 12:01

20thcenturygirlwithherhandsonthewheel · 15/08/2025 11:59

She’s not “scabbing off the state” she’s probably paying more in tax and ni every year than other people earn at all.

by higher earners paying tax, that’s why others can recieve various benefits

Exactly she’s paying more than most into the system.

Goldbar · 15/08/2025 12:02

Franpie · 15/08/2025 11:58

I’m not being sexist. But I have never met a high earning man who has considered reducing his hours in order to look after his child and reduce childcare costs. I’m sure there may be some out there but I’d say they are pretty rare.

My point is that if this benefit was made universal then it would benefit all those men (and there are more men earning significant sums than there are women) who don’t need or even want that benefit but would most likely take advantage of it anyway. Thus a huge waste of tax payers money.

The problem is more insidious and more sexist.

In families where one partner earns over £100k and therefore the family lose their entitlement to childcare help, a huge incentive is created for the (usually female) lower-earning partner to exit the workforce and become a SAHP for a few years. And often they struggle to get back into the workforce when their kids are older.

OxfordQuestion · 15/08/2025 12:02

doglover90 · 15/08/2025 10:55

I can't believe you earn over £160k a year and are complaining about having to pay for childcare.

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Locutus2000 · 15/08/2025 12:02

ChildcareCost · 15/08/2025 10:49

I earn over £160,000 so can’t salary sacrifice to get under the threshold. I could go part time and salary sacrifice to get there - but as a woman in a male dominated industry where I want to progress, that’s not optimal.

But - even if I were able to, if I salary sacrificed from £137,000 to £99,000 - the government would lose over £20,000 in tax revenue.

Plus have to pay the extra £14,600 towards my childcare.

So they are vastly worse off than if I am able to claim it surely?

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This has to be a wind-up.

PetiteBlondeDuBoulevardBrune · 15/08/2025 12:02

ChildcareCost · 15/08/2025 11:20

Why at £99k can you claim £14,600 in childcare help because it’s deemed unaffordable.

But at £100k it’s perfectly affordable and you get nothing?

Fully agree.
But people don’t care about fairness, they just see a 100k+ salary and will tie themselves into knots trying to explain that you should not expect anything in return for being one of the few net contributors. They pay tax as well, they will say, conveniently ignoring the fact that they pay way less than they receive.

danglingcarrots · 15/08/2025 12:02

ProudCat · 15/08/2025 10:53

I think anyone earning over £160k and then bitching about someone, like a nurse, getting funded childcare is the winner of the 'anti-social champion' award 2025.

This!

I get it’s annoying but OP can suck it up for the limited time she will need to pay it.

KarmaKameelion · 15/08/2025 12:02

SantanaBinLorry · 15/08/2025 11:55

This!
Give over OP.
I am constantly shocked and annoyed by people earning this much feeling hard done by.

Also, what kind of job pays that much that you don't have to be that smart to do?
Breaking News!!! Parents have to Pay for Childcare Shocker 😅

So if you believe parents need to pay for their children would you support scrapping all child benefit? And make all non working parents on UC get jobs?

Goldbar · 15/08/2025 12:03

BlueOceanFish · 15/08/2025 12:01

Yep you lost me at £160000

Maybe if you'd read a bit further on, you'd comprehend the issue.

But then again, maybe not.

OxfordQuestion · 15/08/2025 12:04

FlowerUser · 15/08/2025 12:00

So let’s make it universal free childcare for everyone, including millionaires.

Tax rates for those earning over £150k might have to go up. Tax for those on more than £100k, £40k may have to go up. A wealth tax may have to be introduced. A land value tax might replace council tax, so the £2000 a year bill might be £6000 for some people with expensive properties.

Or you can pay for your own childcare. Because you can afford it.

I bet you plan to pay your kids’ university fees and probably give them some money to live on. Maybe you plan to educate them privately. All this costs money that you probably are more than happy to pay.

It’s about priorities and choices.

Personally I am a higher rate tax payer and I don’t have any children, so I’m never going to benefit from free childcare or universal education. And that’s fine, because I think it’s important to support people who need support. You don’t need support.

💯

BlueOceanFish · 15/08/2025 12:04

@ChildcareCost Have you considered stopping all your tv subscriptions and shopping at Aldi?

BIossomtoes · 15/08/2025 12:04

KarmaKameelion · 15/08/2025 11:56

But what about 2 earners in one house hold who earn 99k and therefore total income of 198k and they are eligible. Is that fair?

No. And multiply the unfairness by several magnitudes for single parents. Life isn’t fair.

converseandjeans · 15/08/2025 12:04

I don’t know when this free nursery hours came in but when mine were babies around 18 years ago we had joint income of just over £30k and had to pay for all our childcare. So I went part time & we were lucky to have mother in law a day a week. But it was around £700/month.

I assume you have a partner which means your household income must be huge! You’re living in a different world to most people.

BlueOceanFish · 15/08/2025 12:05

Goldbar · 15/08/2025 12:03

Maybe if you'd read a bit further on, you'd comprehend the issue.

But then again, maybe not.

Well you’re a peach

Ohmygodthepain · 15/08/2025 12:05

Your take-home is nearly £8k a month and you're quibbling over £1k a month childcare.

Imagine how much of a RELIEF that drop is going to be to families who earn less than a quarter of yours, and who have been paying almost their whole salary towards childcare up to now?

A friend of mine was working for LESS than she earned when factoring childcare and travel to work

Read the room.

You're not entitled to Child Benefit either op, how much does THAT 'cost' you a year?

Locutus2000 · 15/08/2025 12:05

ChildcareCost · 15/08/2025 12:01

I think people are reacting emotionally rather than rationally - and perhaps unable to think objectively about how they might behave if they found themselves in the same scenario.

Irony.

Tillow4ever · 15/08/2025 12:05

OP where is the child’s father in all of this? Whether you are together or separated (and I apologise if you are a widow so there isn’t a father to be paying), he should also be shouldering some of the childcare costs. How much does he earn? You’ve mentioned a few times about it being unfair for a couple to be earning £198k combined and getting full support, whereas you on £160k get nothing - to fully compare we need to know the second income. If he’s not working at all, why isn’t he doing all the childcare?

I do think you are tone deaf. I get why you feel it’s unfair, I really do (and the cliff edge does sound wrong). But you alone earn more than double my husband and is combined income. We have 3 children that we fully paid for childcare for as all the free hours didn’t exist until 3 years old when I think it was 15 free. You factor in childcare costs when making a decision about having children. I would LOVE to be on £160k a year and paying full childcare costs because then I wouldn’t constantly be worried about what we can and can’t afford. We could have proper holidays again. We could go out as a family for a nice meal and not consider Macdonald’s as a family treat. Check your privilege.

ExpressCheckout · 15/08/2025 12:05

ChildcareCost · 15/08/2025 11:39

No, the objective of the welfare state is not to take money from higher earners and give to lower earners while excluding them from those services themselves.

What next, excluding higher earners from schools and the NHS? By your logic that is the correct thing to do, as helping higher earners through accessing these services isn’t the purpose of the welfare state.

You can’t expect higher earners to keep having to pay higher and higher rates of tax - but then start excluding them from the (almost!) universal benefits that tax is funding.

The purpose of the welfare state is to support equality of opportunity, equitable distribution of wealth and create accountability for looking after those less fortunate. Unless you have a magic money tree, this can only work if wealth is distributed from those with the most to those with the least. I can understand your confusion because the last two decades we've seen, for largely political reasons, the welfare state being extended into areas it previously did not touch.

You do seem to be missing the point here, though, which is that raising people who are far less fortunate than you will ultimately benefit you. The person working in the supermarket, the person cleaning your house, the person cutting your hair, and perhaps even the person who will need to wipe your backside when you are old or infirm. This is what the welfare state is for.

I have an income of around £20K/year, I'm also a carer, I also have cancer, and even I receive no benefits, so why should you?

ByQuaintAzureWasp · 15/08/2025 12:05

YourSnugGreyPanda · 15/08/2025 10:47

YABVU. If you earn over £100000 you do not require the tax payers’ support for childcare. To suggest so shows you are out of touch with the average working person and extremely greedy. The funded childcare hours are there to support those who couldn’t afford to work otherwise.

Perhaps those that put in should be able to take out. Too many folk putting in nothing or very little bit taking lots out ... a strain on society.

Venturini · 15/08/2025 12:06

Ah its that time again! Nice clickbait OP. Enjoy.

Franpie · 15/08/2025 12:06

Goldbar · 15/08/2025 12:02

The problem is more insidious and more sexist.

In families where one partner earns over £100k and therefore the family lose their entitlement to childcare help, a huge incentive is created for the (usually female) lower-earning partner to exit the workforce and become a SAHP for a few years. And often they struggle to get back into the workforce when their kids are older.

I don’t disagree. I just don’t think that universal free childcare for all is the answer.

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