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To not want the electricity company in my face upon leaving the supermarket?

43 replies

PassingStranger · 14/08/2025 13:01

Coming out of a well.known supermarket yesterday, an electricity company was in my face asking who I have my electricity with/do I want to save money etc?

I just object to this intrusion. There's often charities outside/set up in the foyer, I think businesses is taking it to far though.
It's like running the gauntlet when you've done the shopping?

Yes you can ignore I know but it's the fact they are there and questioning you that annoys me .you have got to start thinking how to act?
How does this work? I'm assuming they apply to the supermarket and then they pay to be there?

Do the supermarkets not consider their customers might not want to be accosted?
I don't really get it. I've gone into a private shop to do some shopping, then outside I've another business wanting my attention and asking me questions?

Am I the only one it annoys?

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PassingStranger · 14/08/2025 15:00

MumOfTwoLittleOnes24 · 14/08/2025 13:23

Know how you feel, PassingStranger. I avoid eye contact and have a purposeful look on my face that gives off an “I’m busy” vibe whenever I see salespeople by the supermarket exit/entrance in the hope that they’ll ignore me.
However, this does not always work, last Christmas I was literally weighed down holding a massive box of stuff in both hands accompanied by two squabbling kids and a very persistent sales rep for a charity pretty much barred our way out of the store. I gave a sharp “No, thank you!” and he moved. Seriously, read the room mate!!
I try to demonstrate good manners and curtesy to my children but it’s not always easy.

Agree, this one was particularly hard to ignore too, perhaps lll have to practice more.

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ByPeachPeer · 14/08/2025 15:05

Was it asda? As they also do it online with "you've qualified for £20 voucher/free case of beer" and all sorts of other things that are actually paid monthly subscriptions when you look properly and I always think i bet people sign up not realising and it's really not on from Asda to allow it. I assume they are paid by these companies, surely they make enough money!

TheAutumnCrow · 14/08/2025 15:33

I’ve been rather terse to energy company supermarket sellers when they’ve blocked my way and I’ve been very visibly on crutches.

It seems like such a strange thing for them to do.

opencecilgee · 14/08/2025 15:35

Supermarket probably charges for the space. So no, they dont care if you’re annoyed

just say a firm no

BloodandGlitter · 14/08/2025 15:35

We had this in ASDA today! Was one of the electric companies.

Darragon · 14/08/2025 15:37

TBH with the way charities are these days, with those silly monthly subscriptions and taking all your details, I don't care if it's a charity or a regular company, anyone stopping me getting my ice lollies into a freezer can feck off.

InterestedDad37 · 14/08/2025 15:40

Breeze past them, saying something obtuse like "I don't believe in electricity" or "I'm more of a gas person" 😀

AdoraBell · 14/08/2025 15:44

YANBU just say a firm -No thanks, and keep walking.

It really annoys me. A few years ago a charity, can’t remember which one, were outside a supermarket. Asked me to sign up for regular donations. I said I can’t afford to and said “just a pound” So I stopped and said I’m overdrawn. They didn’t have a response.

Milliejacksonhouseforsale · 14/08/2025 15:46

No thank you.. with a smile.
Any persistence..fuck off.

Zov · 14/08/2025 15:51

YANBU. I just pretend I'm on my phone, OR don't make eye contact and just ignore them. #SorryNotSorry I don't owe them a conversation.

ThejoyofNC · 14/08/2025 15:55

PassingStranger · 14/08/2025 13:12

In supermarkets though? I don't remember it?
Lidl and Aldi never have anyone there?

Aldi had people outside trying to get you to play some sort of lotto a few months back. Didn't pay them enough attention to see what it was for.

KrisAkabusi · 14/08/2025 16:07

Yes you can ignore I know but it's the fact they are there and questioning you that annoys me .you have got to start thinking how to act?

Really? Seems like making a mountain out of a molehill if you have to think about how to ignore someone!

EarlyBird1234567 · 14/08/2025 16:23

Some of them shout after you when you say no thank you. For instance “Don’t you care about saving money?” Or whatever disease/demographic/animal etc. Then people turn to stare and it’s embarrassing.

ComeTheMoment · 14/08/2025 16:55

hannonle · 14/08/2025 13:18

I had this with the air ambulance as I went in to pay for petrol. I would happily put a few quid in a collection box, but they wanted you to sign up and do a regular donation. Other people were saying no once they realised but it was really uncomfortable. In fact they would've got a fair few donations if they had a collection box instead. It did feel very pressured, especially if you got caught in the trap of them starting to fill out the form. The guy was calling out to customers and being pushy too.

I am very happy to donate to them in general but also thought this was out of line.

We also had this with Air Ambulance. We too would have been happy to make an immediate cash donation but they wanted us to sign up to making monthly payments, I think to a raffle or lottery. And one of their guys was calling out comments to store customers who were looking the other way. It didn’t help their cause, which at the end of the day was a worthy one.

Tink3rbell30 · 14/08/2025 17:13

Just say "Happy with who I'm with thank you" and keep walking. No need for ignorance or a rude comment.

DiscoBob · 14/08/2025 17:17

They're just trying to earn money and clearly can't get more lucrative or appealing work. Just decline, but don't be rude or treat them like beggars. I often make polite convo with these direct sales people. They're just normal human beings. You don't have to engage with them at all.

AddictedToBooks · 14/08/2025 17:24

I walk very slowly and obviously struggling and with obvious pain on my face (can't help it, even though it must look like I'm an ugly, grouchy harridan, when I'm actually usually very tolerant and friendly) and they seem to ALWAYS jump infront of me literally forcing me to jerk to a stop and ignoring the fact that I'm always (deliberately) in deep conversation with the person I'm with and looking away.
They actually block my stick and then get really surly when I politely say "No thankyou" - to be honest, it's usually the women who are the worst for jumping infront of me and getting into my personal space and then giving me the look of death when I say no thankyou.

AddictedToBooks · 14/08/2025 17:27

TheAutumnCrow · 14/08/2025 15:33

I’ve been rather terse to energy company supermarket sellers when they’ve blocked my way and I’ve been very visibly on crutches.

It seems like such a strange thing for them to do.

I wrote my comment before reading yours and yes, they do this to me too, when I'm obviously in a lot of pain and struggling and it's obvious I need to get out of the store.
They always block my way too.

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