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Uk is in big trouble - what do you think will happen?

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hippysun · 13/08/2025 10:03

Thames water on brink of collapse. All those CEOs getting fat bonuses. Water shortages and rising bills.

the cost of living is off the chart. Every bill has gone up. Pop in to Tesco for toothpaste, butter and chicken and it costs an insane amount for just a few items.

the government are crap and taxing the hell out of us.

my salary is stuck. I feel constantly poor now. 10 years ago when I earned significantly less, I felt ok money wise. Chatted today to a colleague about science graduate son who is stuck doing a minimum wage job as there are no jobs here. I’ve noticed this myself in my town. The council have a few, other companies outsourced to India years ago, the pharma company moved out years ago and the land will soon be a new housing estate.

the nhs is a total mess.

housing costs make me want to weep! No chance of moving. Feel bad for my kids. They just keep building expensive houses here all packed into poorly designed estates. Tiny gardens. But no infrastructure. The promised schools get cancelled and drs surgeries and hospitals are rammed with patients. My mortgage of course is up.

in my industry… everyone is obsessed with AI and I’m sad to say it has taken some jobs already. There is a huge push towards AI.

there seems to be underlying tension here re migrants. People getting increasingly annoyed.

this country feels like a right mess. Making rich people richer and poor people even poorer. The middle earners are getting squeezed. I hate it.

i don’t remember it being this bad ever before.

why is it so terrible? And what do you think will happen?

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GasPanic · 13/08/2025 12:14

AnonymousBleep · 13/08/2025 12:05

Did you honestly think that Labour would have anything other than an insanely difficult job with the economy in the state it was in after Brexit/Covid/years of austerity? Even before they got in, people were predicting they'd be massively unpopular because you can't make an omelette without breaking eggs, and they can't fix the economy without pissing off a load of people.

Not saying they're perfect. They're definitely the least-worst option at the moment though.

Anyone who seriously think Reform are a good idea needs a long lie-down in a darkened room and all sharp objects kept away from them.

If we want to change things in the UK we need radical policy change. Otherwise we just end up stumbling on the way we are.

I would prefer that radical policy change to come from the Tories or Labour. But they are both completely paralysed by indecision.

Truss wanted to enact radical policy change, fucked up the process and now everyone is running scared of trying anything different.

So we can either stay as we are boiling frogs going onwards to a long slow death. Or take a roll of the dice and get a 6 or maybe a 1.

Depends on your outlook I guess. But many people are edging towards Reform because neither Tories or Labour are actually a) doing anything different or b) living up to their promises. They both seem to think they can lie continuously and then just spin away the promises.

If Reform win it's because Labour and the Tories are failing. Not because Reform offer any coherent or credible solution.

twistyizzy · 13/08/2025 12:14

AnonymousBleep · 13/08/2025 12:11

Are they? Worse than when we were experiencing 12% inflation, half the country were furloughed at tax payers' expense, billions of tax payers' money were being funnelled to Tory donors who were apparently suddenly PPE providers, and Sunak's solution was 'eat out to help out'?

Most of the problems they're dealing with, they inherited from the previous administration and there are no easy, quick fixes.

Well by the metrics upon which the economy is measured then yeh, pretty much.

The whataboutery is just a distraction. Will you still be blaming Tories in 4 years when Labour have failed to deliver? At what point will you accept they are fucking up?

FYI they have now cancelled the 1000 new careers advisors for schools which were promised in manifesto and they have relealised their "free" breakfast clubs are hugely underfunded (even though they claimed they were "fully costed") so they are begging for sponsors in return for promotion. So turning children's breakfasts into a marketing opportunity for private companies!

AnonymousBleep · 13/08/2025 12:15

Bushmillsbabe · 13/08/2025 12:05

I really hope so. But we are in a worse position a year in to their term than we were at the start of their term, so it doesn't feel hopeful. This lot feel like they dont have a clue - with people with no idea being given high levels of responsibility - look at the Emna Reynolds LBC interview as an example of incompetence.

Of course they will keep blaming the Tories as a cop out, but things are worse now directly due to labour changes.

Working for nhs and as a governor of a state primary, the damage they are doing is terrible to witness. Our governing board had such high hopes, a year in we are all struggling to maintain any positivity in the face of huge real term funding cuts.

I know Emma and although that interview was a carcrash, it was so out of character for her as to be bizarre. She's an excellent constituency MP.

CandidLurker · 13/08/2025 12:15

GasPanic · 13/08/2025 10:43

I think eveyone looks back at the 70s with rose tinted spectacles but hasn't really got a clue how bad they were.

Hospital treatment was much worse. MRI wasn't even invented until about 1970.

Restuaurants were awful. Burt steak and chips were considered haute cuisine. Eating out was a luxury and there were far fewer takeaways.

Cars were absolutely rubbish and rusted to pieces because zinc galvanisation was not used. Cars like the Morris Ital were not only rust buckets but hideously unreliable.

It was common for houses to be without central heating and double glazing.

+about 1000 other things.

The 70s really were shit.

Whenever we went on holiday in the 70’s (never abroad as that was what the few people “with money” did) I hated the journey as we almost always broke down at least once in our crappy car, rusty car

DenizenOfAisleOfShame · 13/08/2025 12:15

flyingbuttress43 · 13/08/2025 12:14

I was born in World War 2 so my experience is probably longer than the majority of posters here. I am too old even to be one of the notorious boomer generation. 😁All I'll say is that every decade had its joys and its horrors. I could fill this thread with memories of each of them, good and bad. But what would be the point? They're history - learn from them and move on. The real problem is we don't seem to learn.

However, we are here, this is our time and we just have to take a deep breath and fucking get on with it.

👏👏👏

And extra 👏 for being a sweary OAP.

party4you · 13/08/2025 12:16

CAJIE · 13/08/2025 11:23

I agree but I also resent the constant attacks on boomers/ gen x that occurs on a daily basis.So many gen x and boomers are not well off.It's the older boomers that did well on the whole.So division and nastiness is always around which also makes the UK a crap place to beNot saying other places are perfect either.I constantly see on mumsnet judgemental comments on all manner of situations and people.Marx said that when the machines come the populace will turn on ieach other.
If one has not followed the life script or couldnt for whatever reason nasty comments abound and the get a job brigade when jobs are becoming very very difficult to get in a fast changing world.There are unpleasant right wing comments from people but also a refusal from the left to acknowledge that the white working class are often s...t on and that the pressures of increased immigration do obviously affect them more.Gaza is appalling but I also hate the anti-semitism.,
Then the attitude of younger women towards older women and men is appalling and ageism is a big thing with older people expected to defer to the young even if their lives have been hard.The young seem unable to cope with certain life events because in the tech age they expect instant solutiuons and goods and also their true needs are not being met.

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In order for things to change if its not too late, bringing up children needs to truly be a village effort and the family structure loosened at least a bit.It should be important that ones kids are happy not that they are successful in today's terms.Its impossible for everyone to prosper in society as it is even if they have a so called work ethic.People need to share, to get their cars off the road even electric ones, to fight for public transport, make many services free and promote a basic income.It meansa complete change of mindset away from destination weddings, gender reveals and family bickering about what happened when my best friend ghosted me etc.Mumsnet needs to get political in addition to all the other advice, it needs to promote community for all.But sadly we have to have our holidays, our xmas excesses and the hideousness of modern ife, constant apparent connection but less real connection
We are heading twoards disaster if we just want the world to carry on as it did.It can't. And being kind and getting therapy isnt going to help unless the world changes.well i can dream.I wont be back on again as i feel very much excluded from the sort of women on this.take carebut dont think tech and Ai will necessarily save the day.Of course they can be very very useful but there has to be human input.If I hear one more person say'oh i'm a luddite' Ill hit the roof.Read about the luddites.

The irony of your post. You’ve been ageist yourself here - but it’s okay when it’s against the younger generation, right?

Elbowpatch · 13/08/2025 12:16

Gonners · 13/08/2025 12:03

ETA bombs in the UK???

Edited To Add.

Admittedly, the lack of a capital B at the start of bomb doesn’t help.

MiloMinderbinder925 · 13/08/2025 12:16

twistyizzy · 13/08/2025 12:10

You're buffering at this point. Unless you want to fill a thread with just repeating the same thing.
Just because you don't think it will happen, doesn't mean it won't.
Labour have lost most of the Red Wall where traditionally they would dominate.

I'm stating an indisputable fact and I'm tired of Reform supporters repeating the same bs. Reform have less than a handful of MPs and their councillors are a joke. Farage hasn't done anything for his constituency so it's doubtful he'd retain his seat. You seem to believe it's a certainty that Reform will get over 300 seats at the next election in four years.

AnonymousBleep · 13/08/2025 12:17

twistyizzy · 13/08/2025 12:14

Well by the metrics upon which the economy is measured then yeh, pretty much.

The whataboutery is just a distraction. Will you still be blaming Tories in 4 years when Labour have failed to deliver? At what point will you accept they are fucking up?

FYI they have now cancelled the 1000 new careers advisors for schools which were promised in manifesto and they have relealised their "free" breakfast clubs are hugely underfunded (even though they claimed they were "fully costed") so they are begging for sponsors in return for promotion. So turning children's breakfasts into a marketing opportunity for private companies!

Labour have been in power for one year. It's not 'whataboutery' to point out that it's impossible to fix 14 years of Tory incompetence, exacerbated by global events, in that time.

Can you give some concrete evidences of how the economy is 'demonstrably worse' than it was under the last (Sunak) government?

ElectronicRenaissance · 13/08/2025 12:17

BIossomtoes · 13/08/2025 11:14

Yes, they really were. That’s exactly what life was like for millions of us then. The difference is expectations were lower.

I think @Blossomtoes has hit the nail on the head re. expectations.

Charlthg · 13/08/2025 12:18

PandoraSocks · 13/08/2025 11:27

Well, I have saved your post to revisit in 2029 🙂

Whatever makes you get through the next few years. And keeps you a fan of this train crash of a government.

twistyizzy · 13/08/2025 12:19

MiloMinderbinder925 · 13/08/2025 12:16

I'm stating an indisputable fact and I'm tired of Reform supporters repeating the same bs. Reform have less than a handful of MPs and their councillors are a joke. Farage hasn't done anything for his constituency so it's doubtful he'd retain his seat. You seem to believe it's a certainty that Reform will get over 300 seats at the next election in four years.

But it isn't an "indisputable fact" is it? It's your opinion. Your opinion doesn't = fact.
Yes they've only got a tiny number of MPs now but you are missing the whole protest vote thing. Like I said, Labour have lost most of the Red Wall.

Never mind, neither of us will change our opinions at this stage, we just have to try and survive next 4 years and then see what happens.

DenizenOfAisleOfShame · 13/08/2025 12:19

AnonymousBleep · 13/08/2025 12:17

Labour have been in power for one year. It's not 'whataboutery' to point out that it's impossible to fix 14 years of Tory incompetence, exacerbated by global events, in that time.

Can you give some concrete evidences of how the economy is 'demonstrably worse' than it was under the last (Sunak) government?

We’d be in a much better position if the Tories hadn’t had to deal with the shit show left by Blair and Brown.

Sasssquatch · 13/08/2025 12:19

May I suggest that a lot of the pessimism is solely a result of the media.

actually if you look for positive stories, policies, advancements and developments there is an awful lot of good stuff happening. You’re just sucking up the gloom fed to you by the daily mail. That’s not actually an accurate reflection of where we are now.

ilovesooty · 13/08/2025 12:21

hippysun · 13/08/2025 11:12

Also I earn over £50k a year and I feel poor. I have three kids. And food bills have doubled. I receive no payrise or bonus in recent years. I got made redundant a few years back too. My kids have never been on a plane (one is nearly a teen), we don’t go on holiday as we can’t afford. They don’t even have passports and never have. I can only dream of moving to next house above. I don’t do DIY and we can’t afford big purchases like carpet, new sofa do we make do. I sell my old used stuff on vinted and do surveys to make a bit of extra cash so I can pay for Christmas and birthdays etc.

were people really behaving like this in the 70s?

In the 70s most teenagers had never been on a plane. I certainly hadn't and didn't know many in my age group who'd been abroad at all.

GasPanic · 13/08/2025 12:22

CandidLurker · 13/08/2025 12:15

Whenever we went on holiday in the 70’s (never abroad as that was what the few people “with money” did) I hated the journey as we almost always broke down at least once in our crappy car, rusty car

My dad used to buy a car a couple of weeks before we went on holiday.

It would always be a crappy rustbucket, and he would spend all the nights in the garage before the holiday fixing it. Normally swearing a lot in the process and only managing to complete the work a couple of hours before we were due to go.

The cars would last maybe a year or so and then basically the engine would explode and have to get towed away.

I don't ever recall breaking down anywhere though (at least on the holiday trips) so +++points for dad on that one.

AntikytheraMech · 13/08/2025 12:22

MissMarplesNiece · 13/08/2025 11:41

Tax rises for middle income earners coming meaning this country’s position is now firmly a socialist one,

Income tax bands have never been more generous than they are today. When I started work in the 1980s there were proper bands - tax rate started at 30% and rose through 40%, 45% etc up to 60%. In 1983, for example, a teacher on an average salary for a teacher would be paying 45% on part of their earnings. These days someone on a salary the same as that of a middle band teacher is paying 20% on all of their income.

It's this obsession with cutting taxes over the last 20 years that has helped us on our way to being a broken country.

I run the figures through and your numbers don't add up.
To determine the tax-free allowance and tax bands applicable to an average teacher's salary of £9,700 in England for the 1983-84 tax year, we can use the available data on income tax allowances and rates from that period.
Tax-Free Allowance (Personal Allowance)
For the 1983-84 tax year:
Single Person's Allowance: £1,785
Married Man's Allowance: £2,795 (if the teacher was married and claiming this allowance)
This means that a single teacher could earn £1,785 tax-free, while a married teacher (with no working spouse or claiming the married allowance) could earn £2,795 tax-free.
Tax Bands and Rates
Income tax was applied to taxable income (income above the personal allowance) at the following rates for 1983-84:
Basic Rate: 30% on taxable income up to £12,800
Higher Rate Bands:
40% on taxable income from £12,801 to £15,100
45% on taxable income from £15,101 to £19,100
50% on taxable income from £19,101 to £25,300
55% on taxable income from £25,301 to £31,500
60% on taxable income above £31,500
Investment Income Surcharge: An additional 15% was applied to investment income exceeding £6,250, but this is unlikely to apply to a teacher's salary.
Applying to an Average Teacher's Salary (£9,700)
Let’s calculate the taxable income and tax liability for a teacher earning £9,700, assuming two scenarios: single and married (claiming the married man's allowance).
Scenario 1: Single Teacher
Personal Allowance: £1,785
Taxable Income: £9,700 - £1,785 = £7,915
Tax Calculation:
The entire taxable income (£7,915) falls within the basic rate band (£0 to £12,800).
Tax = £7,915 × 30% = £2,374.50
Net Income After Tax: £9,700 - £2,374.50 = £7,325.50
Scenario 2: Married Teacher (claiming Married Man's Allowance)
Personal Allowance: £2,795
Taxable Income: £9,700 - £2,795 = £6,905
Tax Calculation:
The entire taxable income (£6,905) falls within the basic rate band (£0 to £12,800).
Tax = £6,905 × 30% = £2,071.50
Net Income After Tax: £9,700 - £2,071.50 = £7,628.50
Summary
Tax-Free Allowance: £1,785 (single) or £2,795 (married).
Tax Bands Applied: For a £9,700 salary, only the basic rate of 30% applies to taxable income up to £12,800.
Tax Paid:
Single: £2,374.50 (net income: £7,325.50)
Married: £2,071.50 (net income: £7,628.50)
These calculations assume no additional allowances (e.g., for age or other reliefs) or deductions like National Insurance, which would further reduce net income but are not detailed here due to limited specific data for 1983.

AnotherGreyMorning · 13/08/2025 12:22

Just because it was shit in the 1970s doesn’t mean it should be shit now. I loathe that attitude. “I had it shit so you should too.” Get lost.

Expectations regarding standard of living should be higher.

I don’t live in the U.K. anymore. I think the standard of living is very poor. I also think the British people are being taken for a ride by water, energy and food retailers. High costs are certainly not unique to the U.K. but you’ve got shitty rivers and beaches fgs.

My mother arrived in the 1960s from a European country (to marry my English father) and she was shocked and appalled at the standard of living then in the U.K.

Quality of housing is poor. Huge profits are made by construction companies whilst people struggle and struggle and struggle.

It really doesn’t have to be this way.

EasternStandard · 13/08/2025 12:23

MiloMinderbinder925 · 13/08/2025 12:16

I'm stating an indisputable fact and I'm tired of Reform supporters repeating the same bs. Reform have less than a handful of MPs and their councillors are a joke. Farage hasn't done anything for his constituency so it's doubtful he'd retain his seat. You seem to believe it's a certainty that Reform will get over 300 seats at the next election in four years.

It’s not certain but it’s also possible. It will be unprecedented for a party to go from one to the other in seats but they’ve shown they can poll it in a year so it’s not a timing problem. Ie they have enough time.

BUMCHEESE · 13/08/2025 12:23

HPFA · 13/08/2025 11:41

Remember some basic facts:

Labour has been in power for just over one year.

The Conservatives were in power for fourteen years, mostly adopting the policies now advocated by Reform - cutting spending, Brexit, obsessing over immigration.

Thinking that Farage ( the architect of Brexit) will improve the country has no logic behind it at all.

It is important to remember this.

Labour have been a bit ham fisted and made some mistakes but their policies need more time.

We definitely have a collective productivity issue in this country.

AnonymousBleep · 13/08/2025 12:23

DenizenOfAisleOfShame · 13/08/2025 12:19

We’d be in a much better position if the Tories hadn’t had to deal with the shit show left by Blair and Brown.

Edited

And if Blair and Brown hadn't had to deal with the way Thatcher destroyed the fabric of UK society by smashing the economy in the North and creating generations of jobless people, as well as selling off all the council houses and creating today's horrific housing bubble. And the fallout from Major's disastrous Black Wednesday.

ComtesseDeSpair · 13/08/2025 12:23

CandidLurker · 13/08/2025 12:15

Whenever we went on holiday in the 70’s (never abroad as that was what the few people “with money” did) I hated the journey as we almost always broke down at least once in our crappy car, rusty car

Modern cars have made this such a relative rarity that it’s become something of an entertainment piece for the young upstarts. I took my goddaughter away for a weekend a couple of years ago in my beloved but temperamental 30-year-old campervan, and by far one of the highlights etched into her memory is being broken down on a Norfolk side road at dusk, sitting in a field watching the bats coming out of roost waiting for the RAC to arrive, and then being towed by a big truck to a local pub car park, where I bought her a banana split 😂

MiloMinderbinder925 · 13/08/2025 12:23

twistyizzy · 13/08/2025 12:19

But it isn't an "indisputable fact" is it? It's your opinion. Your opinion doesn't = fact.
Yes they've only got a tiny number of MPs now but you are missing the whole protest vote thing. Like I said, Labour have lost most of the Red Wall.

Never mind, neither of us will change our opinions at this stage, we just have to try and survive next 4 years and then see what happens.

Of course it's an indisputable fact. It's not certain that the next government will be Reform and I have already explained why. I doubt Farage will even be an MP in 2029 never mind get over 300 seats. You're living in cloud cuckoo land.

ilovesooty · 13/08/2025 12:24

Charlthg · 13/08/2025 11:17

Tax rises for middle income earners coming meaning this country’s position is now firmly a socialist one, while the top rate taxpayers are leaving the country in their hundreds of thousands.

A recession is imminent. We are already in a GDP per capita recession now so people in this country are already decidedly poorer.

Government spending is out of control and will get worse as the benefits train is already derailed and hurtling towards disaster.

Illegal migration numbers already at record highs and will get worse causing civil unrest. While legal migration will put even more strain on infrastructure.

Borrowing costs will continue to go higher under this shitshow of a government.

IMF will step in to complete the story of road to ruin. Then the freebies will need to stop. Government largesse will need to stop, benefits will need to be pulled back. Unfortunately growth will not return because this government, like the last one, would struggle to even spell the word growth, let alone deliver it.

But after all, if you voted for this bunch of idiots into power, you asked for this. Good luck.

The fiscal time bomb has been ticking for a lot longer than the duration of the current government.

Milliejacksonhouseforsale · 13/08/2025 12:24

Council housing should never have been sold off ,there would be more affordable housing and the UC bill would be a lot less because working people wouldn't need a top for rent.
If someone is on UC and in private rental the bulk of their claim goes to a private landlord and the claimant isn't recieving thousands of pounds.

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