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Uk is in big trouble - what do you think will happen?

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hippysun · 13/08/2025 10:03

Thames water on brink of collapse. All those CEOs getting fat bonuses. Water shortages and rising bills.

the cost of living is off the chart. Every bill has gone up. Pop in to Tesco for toothpaste, butter and chicken and it costs an insane amount for just a few items.

the government are crap and taxing the hell out of us.

my salary is stuck. I feel constantly poor now. 10 years ago when I earned significantly less, I felt ok money wise. Chatted today to a colleague about science graduate son who is stuck doing a minimum wage job as there are no jobs here. I’ve noticed this myself in my town. The council have a few, other companies outsourced to India years ago, the pharma company moved out years ago and the land will soon be a new housing estate.

the nhs is a total mess.

housing costs make me want to weep! No chance of moving. Feel bad for my kids. They just keep building expensive houses here all packed into poorly designed estates. Tiny gardens. But no infrastructure. The promised schools get cancelled and drs surgeries and hospitals are rammed with patients. My mortgage of course is up.

in my industry… everyone is obsessed with AI and I’m sad to say it has taken some jobs already. There is a huge push towards AI.

there seems to be underlying tension here re migrants. People getting increasingly annoyed.

this country feels like a right mess. Making rich people richer and poor people even poorer. The middle earners are getting squeezed. I hate it.

i don’t remember it being this bad ever before.

why is it so terrible? And what do you think will happen?

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Sskka · 13/08/2025 11:11

CaptainMyCaptain · 13/08/2025 11:05

What do you mean? ETA = Edited To Add. It's a common usage. Or did you mean something else.

Wow, you learn something new everyday. Never seen ETA mean anything other than Euskadi Ta Askatasuna before (except estimated time of arrival I suppose). Like the IRA, but you’d never ever get the two mixed up, hence my confusion.

FreezeDriedStrawberries · 13/08/2025 11:11

My brain automatically read that title with a "dun, dun, DUNNN" after it.
Think EastEnders theme tune style 😁

CaptainMyCaptain · 13/08/2025 11:11

MelliC · 13/08/2025 11:10

Yes i agree. Too many old, miserable, defeatist people. Happy to moan but somehow unable vote for the difficult steps that need to be taken to solve problems. And always taking ridiculously simplistic positions on hugely complex issues. All our problems are completely solvable if basic rate of income tax was 25% like it was in the 80s and 90s.

Why are you blaming the old?

AnotherGreyMorning · 13/08/2025 11:11

BIossomtoes · 13/08/2025 10:12

i don’t remember it being this bad ever before.

You would if you were old enough to remember the 1970s. It’s cyclical, we’ve had four decades of prosperity, now we’re in the downturn part of the cycle again.

This is very different.

AI will bring all sorts of huge social changes.

GasPanic · 13/08/2025 11:11

Livelovebehappy · 13/08/2025 10:59

But these things were something where progression would alter the problems, medical science and manufacturing inventions. The issue now is that many problems won't be reversed. For example AI is here to stay and is going to alter society for the worse. Prices aren't going to drop. They never do. They either just plateau for a while, or they go up. Immigrant unrest won't change. We can't ask people already granted permission to remain, to now leave. So our country is pretty much going.to stay over populated, and Labour aren't going to do anything to stem further immigration. So we're all pretty screwed.

I am not sure why you would say AI will alter society for the worst.

It's hard to tell what it will do.

It will have huge impacts, and somehow society will have to adjust to those impacts. But it will adjust, especially as it is likely to be a gradual impact rather than a step change.

But my guess is that the society that comes out of that will be the society that the majority want, or are willing to fight for.

I think a more fundamental problem is that our society at the moment depends on constant growth. It's easy to get that at the beginning, but as time goes on it gets so much harder, especially out of highly developed countries. At the moment there are opportunities for growth in less developed countries, but these will run out eventually. Then it is either space or bust.

ProudCat · 13/08/2025 11:11

hippysun · 13/08/2025 11:04

i don’t understand how my parents (one worked in a shop part time, one was in building industry, both low earning) could afford a beautiful large house in south east.

my gran and grandad (SAHM, and hairdresser) afforded a house in Surrey that in todays money is worth over 600k

today, people in those jobs could not go to a bank and request enough cash to buy a 4 bed house in Surrey.

things are really tough. It feels different this time

Yeah, I was born in the late 60s but my sister is 20 years older than me.

In the early 70s she got married, bought a house, and drove a mini. She was a secretary and her husband was a painter and decorator. They could afford two kids. Fast forward to the 80s and they could afford two cars. Fast forward to the 90s and they could afford really nice clothes, golf club fees, loads of fancy stuff like trips to America, a big diamond ring, etc. Retired and moved abroad.

Thing is, she was always a secretary (an extremely good one) and he was always a painter and decorator (again, a very good one).

CaptainMyCaptain · 13/08/2025 11:12

Sskka · 13/08/2025 11:11

Wow, you learn something new everyday. Never seen ETA mean anything other than Euskadi Ta Askatasuna before (except estimated time of arrival I suppose). Like the IRA, but you’d never ever get the two mixed up, hence my confusion.

OK then.

I've never heard of what you said (can't see it in an edit). Estimated Time of Arrival would have been somewhat out of context.

AnotherGreyMorning · 13/08/2025 11:12

Eric1964 · 13/08/2025 11:05

I certainly understand your worries, and I share some of them from time to time. For me, the best antidote is to go into my nearest city, a typical northern multi-cultural English Settlement. In the course of my wanderings, I usually talk to a few people, some native Brits, some immigrants and, almost without fail, I feel better. All of the things you have said are true but, somehow, the good bits of life persist. I accept I'm what's considered ridiculously fortunate - early retirement and mortgage free - but, like everyone else, I've had my ups and downs over the last thirty-odd years and I worry about my grown-up children.

As a dinnerlady said to me once when I was about 8, seemingly apropos of nothing, "Life's hard. Funny how we still seem to enjoy it."

Love the quote.

hippysun · 13/08/2025 11:12

Also I earn over £50k a year and I feel poor. I have three kids. And food bills have doubled. I receive no payrise or bonus in recent years. I got made redundant a few years back too. My kids have never been on a plane (one is nearly a teen), we don’t go on holiday as we can’t afford. They don’t even have passports and never have. I can only dream of moving to next house above. I don’t do DIY and we can’t afford big purchases like carpet, new sofa do we make do. I sell my old used stuff on vinted and do surveys to make a bit of extra cash so I can pay for Christmas and birthdays etc.

were people really behaving like this in the 70s?

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BIossomtoes · 13/08/2025 11:13

AnotherGreyMorning · 13/08/2025 11:11

This is very different.

AI will bring all sorts of huge social changes.

Like deindustrialisation did. The difference is that those who lose out to AI will be white collar workers.

StrandedInJune · 13/08/2025 11:13

Just in case you think moving countries will help, think again. It’s like this or much worse everywhere. Studying the Stoics helps a bit though. They had a shit time of it in Ancient Rome too. The problem is that a lot of us grew up believing life to be a box of chocolates - fuck you Gump. And that we could change any shit ones out anytime we felt slightly disappointed. It’s really not and never was.

The best most of us can hope for is a few moments of hope and pleasure now and then to savour, interspersed with mostly grind, shit going wrong and assholes being assholes all around us. It’s all about acceptance and only putting energy into things you can genuinely change. Forget the rest. History is going to do its thing - you are such a little blip in it.

Holluschickie · 13/08/2025 11:14

I have friends and family across the world, in the US, Europe, Asia and the ME.
It's hard here, but it's pretty hard everywhere.

Some Asian economies are booming, but they have no social nets and development is very unequal. I agree many people fleeing are fleeing to unequal societies like the ME.

BIossomtoes · 13/08/2025 11:14

hippysun · 13/08/2025 11:12

Also I earn over £50k a year and I feel poor. I have three kids. And food bills have doubled. I receive no payrise or bonus in recent years. I got made redundant a few years back too. My kids have never been on a plane (one is nearly a teen), we don’t go on holiday as we can’t afford. They don’t even have passports and never have. I can only dream of moving to next house above. I don’t do DIY and we can’t afford big purchases like carpet, new sofa do we make do. I sell my old used stuff on vinted and do surveys to make a bit of extra cash so I can pay for Christmas and birthdays etc.

were people really behaving like this in the 70s?

Yes, they really were. That’s exactly what life was like for millions of us then. The difference is expectations were lower.

MissMarplesNiece · 13/08/2025 11:14

PaddlingSwan · 13/08/2025 10:18

Having spent a fair amount of time "playing" with AI yesterday and this morning - different bots as well - there are some things that it just cannot do.
There will always be a need for an experienced human to check the results.
It is a bit like using a calculator to do maths, you need to have a rough idea of the answers.
This morning I asked Meta (which is akin to Chat GPT's younger, slightly more dense sibling) to recommend me somewhere to go for lunch today.
I gave it an exact location and a budget. The answers it came up with were ludicrous, including:

  1. Places not open at lunchtime.
  2. Places than no longer exist.
  3. Places well outside the budget.
  4. Places located 100s of km away.

If you challenge it or point out the errors, it goes all smarmy - which is annoying in itself.
I also asked it to suggest some coastal locations on an island I know and stipulated that the accommodation must have a sea view. One of its suggestions was about as inland as you can get.
I rest my case.

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But AI is only going to get "better and better". Its not going to be stuck at the current level for long.

LostInClothes · 13/08/2025 11:15

I am not sure why you would say AI will alter society for the worst.
It's hard to tell what it will do.
It will have huge impacts, and somehow society will have to adjust to those impacts.

Likely said by someone old enough to have bought a house at a reasonable price and has now retired, so has no need to speculate about AI or future issues.

I am 51 years old and can say wholeheartedly that we have thrown the young in the trash.

askmenow · 13/08/2025 11:15

minsmum · 13/08/2025 10:42

The UK had to have an IMF bailout in 1976

And it will again in 2-3 years time given 2/3rd of the money Reeves is borrowing is going just to pay the interest on the UK debt mountain. Shameful!!

ComtesseDeSpair · 13/08/2025 11:15

hippysun · 13/08/2025 11:04

i don’t understand how my parents (one worked in a shop part time, one was in building industry, both low earning) could afford a beautiful large house in south east.

my gran and grandad (SAHM, and hairdresser) afforded a house in Surrey that in todays money is worth over 600k

today, people in those jobs could not go to a bank and request enough cash to buy a 4 bed house in Surrey.

things are really tough. It feels different this time

Because house building hasn’t kept up with population growth and demographic change, which has driven up demand and therefore prices. It’s the case all across the developed world, it isn’t unique to the U.K. Quite apart from widespread immigration over the past few decades, we just don’t live as we used to in the 1970s. Young people tend to move out of their parents’ home before marriage in a way which was far less common then, more single adults want to live alone, higher divorce rates have led to two homes being required where previously it would have only been one, young people at university require accommodation, our increasingly elderly population is living longer and largely wants to remain in its own home. All this places demand on available housing.

Charlthg · 13/08/2025 11:17

Tax rises for middle income earners coming meaning this country’s position is now firmly a socialist one, while the top rate taxpayers are leaving the country in their hundreds of thousands.

A recession is imminent. We are already in a GDP per capita recession now so people in this country are already decidedly poorer.

Government spending is out of control and will get worse as the benefits train is already derailed and hurtling towards disaster.

Illegal migration numbers already at record highs and will get worse causing civil unrest. While legal migration will put even more strain on infrastructure.

Borrowing costs will continue to go higher under this shitshow of a government.

IMF will step in to complete the story of road to ruin. Then the freebies will need to stop. Government largesse will need to stop, benefits will need to be pulled back. Unfortunately growth will not return because this government, like the last one, would struggle to even spell the word growth, let alone deliver it.

But after all, if you voted for this bunch of idiots into power, you asked for this. Good luck.

FlowerUser · 13/08/2025 11:18

Another goady thread.

This is what 14 unnecessary years of Tory austerity and Brexit has resulted in.

When people feel their money goes further and they can see improvement they will feel better.

It takes a moment to destroy everything and a lifetime to build back.

Labour have only had a year. By the end of 2026, renters won’t be able to be kicked out because the landlord wants to increase the rent, workers will have greater rights from day one, and public services will work better. But it feels shit right now and will still feel shit for some time.

ComtesseDeSpair · 13/08/2025 11:18

hippysun · 13/08/2025 11:12

Also I earn over £50k a year and I feel poor. I have three kids. And food bills have doubled. I receive no payrise or bonus in recent years. I got made redundant a few years back too. My kids have never been on a plane (one is nearly a teen), we don’t go on holiday as we can’t afford. They don’t even have passports and never have. I can only dream of moving to next house above. I don’t do DIY and we can’t afford big purchases like carpet, new sofa do we make do. I sell my old used stuff on vinted and do surveys to make a bit of extra cash so I can pay for Christmas and birthdays etc.

were people really behaving like this in the 70s?

Yes. If I look back at childhood photos in relatives’ and friends’ homes, the sort of household decor I see in them which nowadays would be considered dated and shabby was just the norm. We weren’t poor, but we didn’t have a lot of new stuff, or expect it. Likewise, cars. I grew up in a fairly affluent city in a mixed area, but when I think back to the cars driven by my parents and relatives and friends’ parents, most of them were getting on for 20 years old. A brand new car made you a cut above. For all the MNers who claim to drive an old banger, how often do you glance around the car park and see a 20-year-old or older car as anything but an exception nowadays, in a sea of shiny cars barely a few years old?

DenizenOfAisleOfShame · 13/08/2025 11:18

GasPanic · 13/08/2025 10:43

I think eveyone looks back at the 70s with rose tinted spectacles but hasn't really got a clue how bad they were.

Hospital treatment was much worse. MRI wasn't even invented until about 1970.

Restuaurants were awful. Burt steak and chips were considered haute cuisine. Eating out was a luxury and there were far fewer takeaways.

Cars were absolutely rubbish and rusted to pieces because zinc galvanisation was not used. Cars like the Morris Ital were not only rust buckets but hideously unreliable.

It was common for houses to be without central heating and double glazing.

+about 1000 other things.

The 70s really were shit.

It wasn’t all bad. We had Spangles, David Cassidy, The Wombles, and clackers.

But generally, yes, the 1970s were fucking dire.

I well remember TV drama being relentlessly bleak about Britain. In those days of course it was all in the aid of left-wingery: Play for Today and the like. I’m glad we have the choice to watch Below Deck and Love Island nowadays.

What was sclerotic about Britain then was that it had become ungovernable. I fear we’re heading back to that.

Charlthg · 13/08/2025 11:19

Holluschickie · 13/08/2025 11:14

I have friends and family across the world, in the US, Europe, Asia and the ME.
It's hard here, but it's pretty hard everywhere.

Some Asian economies are booming, but they have no social nets and development is very unequal. I agree many people fleeing are fleeing to unequal societies like the ME.

Yeah and taking their cash with them.

What socialists say? ‘The rich can fuck off’.

Well guess what, they are doing exactly that. Which means the socialists now have to leech off each other. We all know how that ends.

AnonymousBleep · 13/08/2025 11:19

Florencesndzebedee · 13/08/2025 10:15

Unfortunately the Tories pillaged the country, sticking their noses in the trough. Brexit was the final straw. No government will be able to save broken Britain plc. Get out if you can.

This. The economy is too broken for Labour to be able to fix it, without huge tax hikes - which isn't a solution either, as the Tories also destroyed the job market but keeping salaries (other than executive pay) flatlined for over a decade. We haven't had the salary growth that other EU companies (and the USA) have experienced, and the job market itself is flat at the moment with an increase in layoffs and redundancies. A massive retired population supported by a shrinking working population, the ticking pensions' time bomb, AI taking jobs, the Brexit fallout, local councils going bankrupt, not enough homes or infrastructure to cope with the needs of the population, influx of immigrants due to the current global instability - it's a perfect storm of shit.

I think Reform will get in at the next GE and completely fuck everything up , but maybe that could be the reset we need as the government after that would be able to rebuild on the scorched earth Reform leave in their wake. And the rest of the UK would realise how grim a hard-right government that only cares about making life more shit for people whose lives are already shit and giving money to rich people actually is. If you think Labour - and even the Tories - are incompetent, you ain't seen nothing yet.

Holluschickie · 13/08/2025 11:20

Charlthg · 13/08/2025 11:19

Yeah and taking their cash with them.

What socialists say? ‘The rich can fuck off’.

Well guess what, they are doing exactly that. Which means the socialists now have to leech off each other. We all know how that ends.

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Taxpayers and employers leaving is deeply worrying.

Eric1964 · 13/08/2025 11:20

hippysun · 13/08/2025 11:12

Also I earn over £50k a year and I feel poor. I have three kids. And food bills have doubled. I receive no payrise or bonus in recent years. I got made redundant a few years back too. My kids have never been on a plane (one is nearly a teen), we don’t go on holiday as we can’t afford. They don’t even have passports and never have. I can only dream of moving to next house above. I don’t do DIY and we can’t afford big purchases like carpet, new sofa do we make do. I sell my old used stuff on vinted and do surveys to make a bit of extra cash so I can pay for Christmas and birthdays etc.

were people really behaving like this in the 70s?

I feel very sorry that you can't have a holiday at all - that's totally unfair and depressing - but the amount of foreign travel now is crazy and we devalue it. I didn't have foreign holidays for most of my childhood. It just wasn't really affordable for most ordinary people. We had great times in Scotland. Now, folks go to fucking Mexico then don't even leave the hotel.

The main difference, however, is that people now are crippled by housing costs, whether they rent or are fortunate enough to be able to manage a mortgage. Insecurity in housing is a national crisis and can only cause genuine mental despair. So I can certainly understand you feeling poor with a 50k salary.

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