DD aged 11.5yrs is 4'11" tall and very developed. she attends a small primary school where the class is made up of yrs 4,5,6. The pool is an unheated outdoor pool and is 3' deep. It measures approx 3x4m (10' x 13') MAX! She finds it almost immpossible to swim in (as mothers in learner pools will understand).
On top of this there are no showers for before or after swimming (health & hygeine issue?). But her main concern is that they have to change in the classroom. The boys are allowed in the toilet area but can come out when they are ready EVEN if the girls are not dressed. DD is adamant that she does not want to swim but it is part of the NC. However she cannot possibly swim 25m (as stated in NC) in this pool.
Am i unreasonable and would i be within my/her rights to refuse to allow her to do this.
The HT is always telling parents & staff they should be grateful the school has a swimming pool but frankly I feel it should be regraded to a paddling pool !!!