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OF… do any mums do it? AIBU for even considering it?

58 replies

Mumontheedge1249 · 12/08/2025 08:49

Just like the title says. only fans, do any of u mums do it? What’s ur family set up? What does ur husbands/partners think?

im considering it, but only like sexy pics on the side of my current part time job. No videos. Wanting to leave husband but need to earn more. But considering keeping it a secret from everyone. Does this make enough money? Lend me experience/feelings?

OP posts:
StarDolphins · 12/08/2025 18:07

Could you not do something anonymous like selling worn underwear or socks?

Or a phone line conversation? You could be getting on with ironing while telling 78 year old John that you’d love nothing more than sucking his toes in a bathtub of beans! Or is this sort of thing not even a thing?!

Emptyandsad · 12/08/2025 18:16

I don't understand OnlyFans. Internet porn is free. Why does anybody pay?

Dippythedino · 12/08/2025 18:22

Painrelief · 12/08/2025 12:33

My friend sold used knickers for a while and she made thousands . She used to meet up with some men and they would take her for a drink and buy her expensive lingerie . If you’re willing to do it and got the balls you can make loads of money from weird men . I remember seeing a site years ago and some of the things she used to sell🤮🤮🤮🤮 knickers that she wore for a week and used sanitary towels and 🤮🤮 made you feel sick that men must buy these things if people are offering them !
even a chuppa chump lolly that had been 🫣

I don’t understand why men want to sniff a strangers knickers … 🤔

Imagine the amount of DNA from selling used underwear that could be used to implicate innocent women in crime scenes. You don't know who has got your DNA and what they're going to do with it & daft women think it's a fab idea.

meganorks · 12/08/2025 18:30

I think only fans has done a brilliant job of marketing itself as a 'get rich quick' easy option. There are always headlines about people earning thousands per month. But I think the reality is you are very unlikely to earn any decent money. And certainly not from just a few pictures. I think it is much more likely to end up being a disappointing soul crusher. Or you will quickly get sucked into doing things you swore you wouldn't to try and make some real money.

cramptramp · 12/08/2025 18:45

Simonjt · 12/08/2025 08:51

The average OFer earns is about £130 a month, for people earning £500,000 a year, great they’re okay, for those not earning that they are potentially destroying their future earning potential as some employers may think their OF, or past OF makes them unsuitable for their company.

Those who say they are earning vasts sums from it never look like they are. I’d expect them to be better dressed and be living somewhere nicer. I don’t believe them.

HerecomesMargo · 12/08/2025 18:52

Could you look your kids in the eye and tell them you do this? Or your parents? That will tell you.

Visun · 12/08/2025 19:02

A teacher in my city got caught being on Only fans. She thought the platform was too big/saturated for anyone to recognise her, especially when she wore a wig etc.

Well, her pics/videos circulated round the school, she lost her job and ended up in the papers.

There is a big risk people you know, family, friends and colleagues will find it and that could be very embarrassing for you. Maybe if you found a way to hide your face? Or tried some of the other suggestions mentioned uptrend.

EveryOtherNameTaken · 12/08/2025 19:12

The market's pretty flooded and a lot of people are established. If you're not, it's not easy to get in.

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