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To be so happy (and relieved) to live in town with good transport links

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Megaclean · 09/08/2025 15:05

I mean I was very happy to live in town (about 40 mins to London) pre teens but now I have teenagers… it’s bliss! They are in an out every weekend and holidays… take themselves off to rugby training on Sunday mornings, the other one tennis on a Saturday morning, and constantly in and out meeting friends or when they need something from the shops…. Off they go. Walking or hop on the train.

Love their freedom and independence, and enables them and their friends to be so much more sociable than relied on parents.

What sparked the thread was my daughter mentioned one of the group’s friends wouldn’t be meeting them tonight at cinema. Why? I asked. “Because she lives in the ass end of no where and needs a ride even to get to the bus stop but both her parents are working today”.

And no, I didn’t offer to pick her up. Why? Because my car in for it’s MOT, not that I miss it in the slightest!

Shout out for the urbanites!

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cramptramp · 09/08/2025 15:08

I feel sorry for teenagers who live very rurally. Having to rely on parents to get to and from anywhere must be so constricting.

ReignOfError · 09/08/2025 15:24

I brought my kids up in a small city with great transport links within and beyond it, and then decamped to the country when they left home.

Now they both live rurally, despite having kids, and I am baffled by that choice.

I am now looking to move to an urban area again, post-retirement, for walkability, amenities and transport, and won’t be at all surprised to find grandkids at my place rather a lot.

Megaclean · 09/08/2025 15:53

I grew up rurally and knew I would never ever ever subject my teens to it

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