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34 replies

Kitten678 · 07/08/2025 12:06

I am 35 and make around 28k a year including overtime.

I owe £1200 on a low-interest supermarket loan.
£750 on another loan.
£800 on a credit card.
£250 overdraft.

I earn £13.85 an hour for a 37-hour week and I do overtime as much as possible, the problem is it's capped so some weeks I won't get it. In September I'll restart tutoring to earn an extra £70 a week.

I'm not bothered about having £0 debt, but looking to just get it to under 30% utilisation if possible.

I live alone and pay £850 for mortgage and bills, the other expenses are braces £55 a month, yes they weren't essential but my teeth were horrific and braces have significantly improved my self esteem.

Otherwise I pay student loan repayments, no car, I have the cheap Netflix £5.99 subscription and honestly can't think of much else, my credit card debt was higher so I took the loan out as it was low interest.

I want to have the balance reduced in a year, I only have £100 in savings. Sensible suggestions only please I'm not selling my TV! I think buying my flat and being in low paid work has set me back financially but I have a couple of interviews lined up with better pay.

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Manthide · 09/08/2025 15:41

I am paid weekly on a zero hours contract so work is variable eg one day last week, 3 the week before. We are a 'family' of 3, oh doesn't work and we have one at school so get UC. The relief when we paid off the last credit card(£100) - OH's!

I still have a credit card which I use for essentials eg glasses and I pay back ASAP but without leaving us short. I pay the minimum monthly plus £10 for each day I have worked weekly. It soon goes down. I also pay the interest if any each month as I don't want to pay interest on interest!
Also I have a Chase account with saving pots and put £10 for each day I've worked into my rainy day pot. I also have pots for the car, christmas presents and my dd. I have a target and once I reach it I leave it. I also have a Help to Save account and save £50 a month which I plan on giving dd when she goes to university as it matures then.

CoralOP · 09/08/2025 15:41

Have you checked if you are entitled to UC to top your wages up?

SmudgeButt · 09/08/2025 15:43

iamnotalemon · 07/08/2025 13:17

Head to Moneysavingexpert - a great website and the forums are good too.

How much are you left with after all of your bills are paid? It’s tough living alone and managing all the bills that’s for sure.

I second this. What you need to look for in the DebtFree Wannabee forum. You'll find there a template for a "statement of accounts" (SOA). Fill that out based on what's on your bank statements for the last 2 - 3 months. Average out your income.

You need to get a realistic picture of what exactly you spend each month and that will tell you how much, if anything, you have to chuck at your debts. The aim should be to get it down so you are paying no, or at least minimal, interest as that's just a waste of your hard earned ££.

If you post a copy back on the MSE forum helpful debt advice types will give you ideas on how to tighten up your budget or highlight where your blind spots are.

fatgirlswims · 09/08/2025 18:48

EuclidianGeometryFan · 09/08/2025 14:49

If you have access to credit, i.e. a higher limit on a credit card or overdraft facility than the balance owed, then I suggest you don't save up an 'emergency' fund first before paying debt - the credit card or overdraft will do for emergencies.
Instead, pay the card(s)/overdraft down ASAP. The more unused credit limit you have, the safer you will be in case of emergency.

I shop in charity shops/Ebay
No eyebrows/eyelashes/nails treatments
I do get my hair cut every few months, but I colour my own hair
No luxury holidays or expensive hobbies
Shop at lower cost supermarkets
Don't really go to expensive restaurants
Don't drink alcohol or smoke

You are already living quite cheaply. The answer is to increase your income.

Meanwhile, watch the pennies and don't go 'shopping' for leisure, and always got into a supermarket with a list and a meal plan - every single thing you buy should be pre-planned, never on impulse.
If you see something you want, wait three days then if you still want it go back and get it. If it is gone, never mind, just tell yourself you won't miss what you never had.

If you don’t save an emergency fund you end up spending on a credit card in an emergency.

having an emergency fund is operative IMHO

Beammeupscotty2025 · 09/08/2025 18:53

How much interest are you paying a month?

EuclidianGeometryFan · 10/08/2025 09:44

fatgirlswims · 09/08/2025 18:48

If you don’t save an emergency fund you end up spending on a credit card in an emergency.

having an emergency fund is operative IMHO

But if you already have debt, it makes sense to pay that off before saving.

Manthide · 10/08/2025 12:53

EuclidianGeometryFan · 10/08/2025 09:44

But if you already have debt, it makes sense to pay that off before saving.

You need to do both - to get into good habits so you don't get into debt again. I currently owe about £500 on my credit card (just bought something, it was 0 before) and I have £1200 in my rainy day pot. I could have paid outright but made the decision to put it on the credit card.
My income is not steady and I feel I need that security. I can afford to make payments on the cc and will be overpaying so I pay it off ASAP.

PloddingAlong21 · 10/08/2025 14:10

I sound like a loon….

put all your figures on outgoings and incoming into ChatGPT and ask where efficiencies and improvements can be made. Also state what policies you have with what utility providers and ask for more affordable alternatives. It will run a deep search - take 10/15 mins.

I know people will be horrified but it’s maths - you’re spending more than you’re earning. There will be better policies than the ones you will likely have. It’s pretty clever. Lose nothing - give it a shot. Taking advice from strangers is no different, for all you know everyone on here is horrific with money and have terrible debt.

fatgirlswims · 10/08/2025 20:53

EuclidianGeometryFan · 10/08/2025 09:44

But if you already have debt, it makes sense to pay that off before saving.

No because you end up a never ending cycle of debt.

for me this is what worked and now I don’t have any debt I cannot pay in full each month or is a planned spending.

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