Are my standards on the floor?

[Worriz]

Left the house at 5.30am to go to work. Back at 9.30pm. Husband is on long leave and at home with our young kids. He was on a lads weekend this weekend. Come home this evening to both kids still awake. One of them in backwards inside out PJs. And the kitchen is disgusting. We are talking milk out all day. Pasta stuck at bottom of pans, noodle packets everywhere, nuggets on the floor. Piss all pver the floor. Husband is sleeping and im tidying.

He doesnt usually act like this and lads weekends are rare. But I do have to organise stuff for them and book things. But he does usually tidy up.

He says "help me out love. Ive had the kids all day and im struggling" and has gone to sleep.

Do I have no standards?

@MrsSkylerWhite 😂

Id love to know how regularly he has to actually parent alone for a whole day. I bet a million pounds the OP does it more and he doesn't come home to a disgusting, filthy mess.

Inside out backwards pajamas is kind of funny. The rest of it is gross. Is he on leave for medical reasons?

I'm assuming something could have happened to them because from the state of the house and the children not dressed properly and allowing the child to piss on the floor he wasn't supervising them or looking after them properly.

You are assuming he didn't put them at risk, I'm.assuming he probably did. Neither of us know the truth.

Whatever the truth allowing his wife to come home to find what she did after a really long working day is absolutely not on.

He had the children for 16 hours after you'd had them for FOUR DAYS STRAIGHT, but he thinks you need to help him?!

He had four days away followed by one day of (minimal effort) childcare, whereas you did four days childcare followed by 16 hours at work, but it's him who's asleep?

Find your anger!

@Worriz the state of what you've described makes me wonder if he is still off his face from something he took at the weekend.