My DD is 19 (almost 20) and lives with me. However my husband left me in January, so myself and my eldest live in a new house together and my youngest two children spilt there time between their dad and I 50/50. My eldest has recently finished college, so now I am having to pay the full amount of council tax without the single person's discount and I'm struggling financially. My child benefit for her will also stop any day now. I'm only on a part time wage and I've tried to get more hours from work since my husband broke up with me, but I've not had much luck. I've asked my adult DD to contribute £20 per week, which she did begrudgingly. She's worked two nights per week in a pub for the past year. I've asked her to get a job with more hours, or an additional job but she doesn't want to. Which I kind of understand, as I'm very reluctant to leave my part time job which I absolutely love, due to the fact I've only recently lost my dream home, my husband, my financial stability and my children 50% of the time. I don't want to lose my job too. But she can afford to give me £20 which helps a little. However if I ask her to grab me a bottle of milk on the way home, she says she's overdrawn and wants me to send her the money for yet... Yet she is out every night. Which is my other issue....Most nights when she is working, she finishes work at the pub at 11ish and then stays out with her friends until 1am. She also stays out late when she's not working. She then sleeps until 2pm, showers and goes straight out again. It wakes me up every night and I also feel quite lonely. I asked her to spend one night per week with me and we went to a pub quiz on Wednesday night, but then her friend was outside our house waiting to pick her up when we got home. So then she went out again until 1am and I sat alone. What parts, if any, am I being unreasonable on?