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Why hasn't Ashton Kuchter been cancelled yet?

56 replies

Firstholiday · 04/08/2025 06:42

Great friends with Diddy
Wrote letter supporting the rapist Danny Masterson
Discovered his gf dead and didnt report it, leading to the killer killing again
How he treated his exes

Yet it gets my goat that he's still popular

www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-14965825/Ashton-Kutcher-Mila-Kunis-rare-public-outing-kids-marriage-rift-rumors.html

OP posts:
WonderfulWoman · 04/08/2025 08:27

How do you cancel a person?

Dearg · 04/08/2025 08:27

I am not sure that he is still popular Op.

A quick google suggests he spends his time behind the cameras as a producer, which is probably a good thing as his acting style definitely had a shelf life.

Either way, he has enough $$$ to not worry about it.

handsdownthebest · 04/08/2025 08:30

Oh It's a daily fail article...now let me think. My finger refuses to click on it.

KenAdams · 04/08/2025 08:37

He's not been in anything since The Ranch with Danny Masterson.

FrostiesAreCornflakesForPeopleWhoCantFaceReality · 04/08/2025 08:40

MarieAndTwinette · 04/08/2025 08:12

Rumours? Okay…

I think so? Unless it was proven he did that. Was it proven? I happen to believe he did exactly what I said above btw. He found the poor woman dead and freaked out about how it would effect him and his career. So he left her body there and went out that night and behaved like nothing happened.

Isxmasoveryet · 04/08/2025 08:47

This is abog problem with social media facts and rumors become bloated to many believe it on social media so it gospel truth what your saying sounds a lot like speculation powered by social media and no one really knows the truth we can't cancel everyone because social media says so

Mastercom · 04/08/2025 08:48

ColinOfficeTrolley · 04/08/2025 06:45

I've not seen him in anything in years. Maybe if you stopped reading trashy news websites, you won't hear of him either.

Oh the judgement from someone on Mumsnet reading a thread with a celebrities name 😆

MustardGlass · 04/08/2025 08:50

I thought he was canceled after writing the letter of support for Danny Masterson.

Duckyfondant · 04/08/2025 08:57

He was a contentious character way back in his Punked days. Very easy to dislike. It seems to be his romantic partners that people find redeeming, for some reason.

I'm not sure there would be much point to a cancellation.

HelenaWaiting · 04/08/2025 09:09

FrostiesAreCornflakesForPeopleWhoCantFaceReality · 04/08/2025 08:40

I think so? Unless it was proven he did that. Was it proven? I happen to believe he did exactly what I said above btw. He found the poor woman dead and freaked out about how it would effect him and his career. So he left her body there and went out that night and behaved like nothing happened.

Please stop repeating this. It's a blatant lie and what you "believe" doesn't actually trump the truth.

BlueandPinkSwan · 04/08/2025 09:11

SouthernNights59 · 04/08/2025 07:41

YABU to think you can "cancel" anyone. It's a load of modern nonsense, and you sound ridiculous.

That expression can fuck right off.

SteakBakesAndHotTakes · 04/08/2025 09:13

He hasn't acted in years, has he? What would 'cancelling' him entail..?

BlueandPinkSwan · 04/08/2025 09:15

FrostiesAreCornflakesForPeopleWhoCantFaceReality · 04/08/2025 08:40

I think so? Unless it was proven he did that. Was it proven? I happen to believe he did exactly what I said above btw. He found the poor woman dead and freaked out about how it would effect him and his career. So he left her body there and went out that night and behaved like nothing happened.

If you weren't there YOU DON'T KNOW WHAT HAPPENED. Believe what you want but it doesn't make it true.

Cam1981 · 04/08/2025 09:15

If you want to “cancel “ him for being friends with Diddy then don’t we have to cancel :
Beyonce
Jay Z
J- lo
And all the other celebrities that have failed to denounce him and his behaviour

MayaPinion · 04/08/2025 09:18

What a weird post. He hasn’t been in anything for years and I can’t imagine anyone caring much on what is mostly a UK chat forum. Do you have skin in the game, OP?

EastGrinstead · 04/08/2025 09:18

Only those like @Firstholiday with their heads in the gutter heard of him in years.

OriginalSkang · 04/08/2025 09:42

I thought he was "cancelled" after the letter too

FrostiesAreCornflakesForPeopleWhoCantFaceReality · 04/08/2025 09:46

BlueandPinkSwan · 04/08/2025 09:15

If you weren't there YOU DON'T KNOW WHAT HAPPENED. Believe what you want but it doesn't make it true.

True. That’s why I said I could easily believe that’s what happened. Maybe if he didn’t have such a long history of being a cunt I wouldn’t believe that’s what happened. It’s a bias against him maybe? I never liked Diddy so despite him only being found guilty of some of the charges against him I have no problem believing he’s guilty of all of it.

Bruisername · 04/08/2025 10:00

Demi Moore has mixed things to say about him tbf

I’ve never understood how he became famous tbh!!

HopingForTheBest25 · 04/08/2025 10:45

I haven't seen him in anything since The Ranch - I think his close friendship with Danny Masterson, the resurfacing of an old interview regarding a young Mila Kunis, plus association with Diddy, has probably affected his career already, without the 'need' to officially cancel. I doubt he's anyone's first choice of cast member rn.
If the public get the 'ick' for a celebrity, then it's game over.

'Cancel' as a concept, pisses me off. These are peoples lives and careers we are talking about - if you aren't a proven criminal, then you have a right to earn a living without other people calling for you to be cut off. Even if you are unlikeable or have opinions that other people disagree with!

I don't actually condemn famous people for not wanting to hash out their personal experiences with exes in the public domain. Someone like JLo shouldn't 'have' to talk about a relationship that ended probably 25 years ago or be condemned by association, esp an historic one. We cannot assume that every celebrity knows every aspect of another person's behaviour. We cannot assume they knew and didn't care.
I think the real problem is if they support known rapists etc.
I still think about the people who publicly supported Roman Polanski in full knowledge of what he did. Why would AK get cancelled but the celebs who gave RP a standing ovation, not be?
One of the issues with cancellation is that the 'rules' of who gets it and why are seemingly arbitrary.

MarieAndTwinette · 04/08/2025 11:15

FrostiesAreCornflakesForPeopleWhoCantFaceReality · 04/08/2025 08:40

I think so? Unless it was proven he did that. Was it proven? I happen to believe he did exactly what I said above btw. He found the poor woman dead and freaked out about how it would effect him and his career. So he left her body there and went out that night and behaved like nothing happened.

Why do you believe it if it isn’t proven? What is your evidence?

PangolinsareCool · 04/08/2025 11:16

MarieAndTwinette · 04/08/2025 08:22

I think this is different given that most of “cancel culture” focuses on harms done to women and our recognition that the law is not equipped to protect us or give us justice. The fact is that most of these men do not get cancelled. Their careers continue. If anything, women in effect end up cancelled. I reckon that recent cancellation trials (Diddy) will result in women not reporting abuses against them.

Edited

If you remember in The Crucible, it was actually women condemning women.

In the Depp/Heard trial it was mostly female fans of Depp who pushed the social media backlash against Heard which has resulted in her being cancelled. Love her or loathe her, its largely women who are invested in trying to cancel Meghan Markle.

I don't think it's limited to women seeking retribution against men.

MarieAndTwinette · 04/08/2025 11:17

Bruisername · 04/08/2025 10:00

Demi Moore has mixed things to say about him tbf

I’ve never understood how he became famous tbh!!

Of course she has mixed feelings. He treated her appallingly but being a (very) bad boyfriend is not grounds for cancellation. Nor should it be.

HotTiredDog · 04/08/2025 11:17

SouthernNights59 · 04/08/2025 07:41

YABU to think you can "cancel" anyone. It's a load of modern nonsense, and you sound ridiculous.

Fully agree.

AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta · 04/08/2025 11:53

I thought the Masterson letters did for him and Mila as I've certainly not seen either of them in anything for years and she in particular seemed to have a very promising career.

I can't remember exactly but didn't they initially defend writing them or something? Until the volume of public backlash got so loud and they both had a sudden epiphany and apologised.

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