For context my partner and I have separated. He has been a menace ever since. It’s my birthday soon and he keeps making comments about I won’t get no present from him and being very immature in general. He acts very mean behind closed doors as he comes to mine to watch the kids. It’s gotten to the point where we have blocked each other and have to communicate through email ans phone calls only. I am getting a CAO as he only sees our 2 and 1 year old on the weekend and does not contact them during the week anymore as he is focusing on himself and going to the gym and seeing friends. He claims when they are older ( after I have done the hard work) he will want to have more involvement but he misses gp appointments, left early on our daughter’s birthday and makes minimal effort saying he does not have to contact the kids unless it’s his days. I do the hard work during the week by myself. He has the audacity to feed them McDonald’s all weekend even though I specifically ask him to feed them nutritious meals and stock the house full of fruits, vegetables and healthy food which does not get touched during his visits. Our son is also mixed and has lovely curly hair which he insists on his next weekend with him he is going to get it cut by his barber as he looks too much like a girl. Our son is 1. He is lazy and selfish and I fear eating junk food all the time will have a negative effect on the kids health. I told him off and had to get my parents to mediate as when I asked him to stop feeding our babies junk he flipped it on me and asked them to stop giving them Ella’s kitchen snacks as it’s also highly processed. I can not co parent with someone so petty and irresponsible. They are toddlers and I understand McDonald’s can be had as a treat but they should not be having it breakfast lunch and dinner 2 days in a row every weekend.