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To completely hate the new work ick

42 replies

Goldengirl123 · 01/08/2025 20:54

I won’t even read the posts when people use this ridiculous word in the title

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Goldengirl123 · 03/08/2025 10:34

Haha I like her heebie jeebies though

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AuntyDepressant · 03/08/2025 10:39

It’s the sort of word you’d expect from six year old child, not from grown adult women who are supposed to be mature. It’s childish and people who use it need to grow up.

tilypu · 03/08/2025 10:43

Very disappointed. Thought this was going to be about a new activity going on in the workplace.

FieldInWhichFucksAreGrownIsBarren · 03/08/2025 10:46

I opened this thread purely because I thought wtf is a work ick?

sanityisamyth · 03/08/2025 10:46

What’s a work ick?

Goldengirl123 · 03/08/2025 10:47

Sorry all, I should have checked before posting. It shouldn’t have said work, I meant word!

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VimesandhisCardboardBoots · 03/08/2025 11:06

So you're saying that "ick" gives you the ick?

Goldengirl123 · 03/08/2025 11:12

VimesandhisCardboardBoots · 03/08/2025 11:06

So you're saying that "ick" gives you the ick?

Exactly

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Toober · 03/08/2025 11:16

I disagree OP, I think it does its job as a word! It is a bit childish/silly, because that's what an ick is. It isn't finding your boyfriend in bed with another woman, it's the way he holds his spoon when eating soup...

I completely get what you mean though, I think we all have words that for whatever reason, we just don't like!

Snorlaxo · 03/08/2025 11:17

What do you say? Expressions like “repulsed by” are too wordy.

I think that the concept is very reasonable. Many women aren’t encouraged to trust their instincts like men are and are encouraged to be people pleasers and follow #bekind sort of nonsense. They believe that the feeling can be fixed when they should let that situation go because there’s no coming back.

Sally690 · 03/08/2025 11:40

Why don't you like it OP? Is it because it gives you the ick?

gannett · 03/08/2025 11:42

nomas · 01/08/2025 21:16

It’s great, I wish it had been around when I was in my 20s so I could articulate why I didn’t like a man.

Do you hate it because it’s mostly used by women about men?

It's a stretch to call the word "ick" articulating anything meaningful at all, especially given the mission creep a PP referred to.

It had a very specific original meaning - a behaviour that irrationally turned you off someone you'd previously been attracted to, often signifying that the emotional connection was dead or dying.

It's useless as a catch-all though, and actually seems to be a shorthand that prevents the person using it from actually thinking about why they feel that way. And it very often veers into mean-girl territory when it's just trotted out about the physical characteristics of people you only know in passing.

And it becomes even more meaningless when applied outside a romantic context.

Like a lot of neologisms, something that encapsulated a feeling perfectly inevitably gets wrecked by overuse. Happens to all slang words.

60andcounting · 03/08/2025 11:45

I don't like it and wouldn't say it.
And I hate 'gifted' instead of given, hack' instead of tip and 'side hustle' instead of sideline.

GarlicLitre · 03/08/2025 11:50

AuntyDepressant · 03/08/2025 10:39

It’s the sort of word you’d expect from six year old child, not from grown adult women who are supposed to be mature. It’s childish and people who use it need to grow up.

Oh, come off it. "On noticing his cartoon socks, I found my libido had suddenly evaporated" may be semantically acceptable, but nowhere near as pithy.

Didimum · 03/08/2025 11:50

It’s not new at all. It’s been around since late 90s (Ally McBeal coined the phrase for its current dating/relationship use). It exploded in
more popular language with Love Island. Language evolves, OP. Bit silly to get so wound up about these things.

ohyesido · 03/08/2025 12:33

I remember using the word when I was at school in the mid 90s it just meant to find something a bit gross. It’s actually related to a problem fish get with their scales

pictoosh · 03/08/2025 12:35

Suit yourself. As a term it has been around a long time...way before the internet.

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