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AIBU?

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I think my DH has a crush AIBU to say something?

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Crushircrushhim · 31/07/2025 17:23

I think my DH has himself a little crush.

I introduced him to a fitness class I do. Lots of different instructors, all women, mostly 30’s with amazing figures in skimpy outfits.

My DH mentioned one of them that he’d asked her some questions over email. I asked him how he got her email and he said over instagram.

Not sure it’s classed as snooping but all I had to do was look at his profile (I’m following him and he me) to see them both following each other. She’s hot and 30’s, he’s mid 50’s.

AIBU to ask him if he’s got a crush on the go and to act his age, not shoe size? Or is this nothing?

I don’t really want to be one of these cliches where my DH runs off with the yoga teacher. TBH she’s hot and I’d stand no chance.

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islaw3048unfln · 06/08/2025 18:43

@ginasevern yes, and even if they don’t intend on acting on said crush, some men still like the ego massage and attention from the woman (even if she doesn’t actually like him back!).

I also think that men generally fancy younger women a bit more often than the reverse.

ginasevern · 07/08/2025 10:18

islaw3048unfln · 06/08/2025 18:43

@ginasevern yes, and even if they don’t intend on acting on said crush, some men still like the ego massage and attention from the woman (even if she doesn’t actually like him back!).

I also think that men generally fancy younger women a bit more often than the reverse.

Abolutely agree with all of that.

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