Meet the Other Phone. Only the apps you allow.

Meet the Other Phone.
Only the apps you allow.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

Air Bnb has ruined my life

336 replies

itsafan · 31/07/2025 16:57

There is literally no way out of this situation 😢 other than for us to give up our jobs and relocate in the hope that we can find new jobs and a place to live. There are literally no other rentals available in the area even if we could afford the rents. A mortgage is out of the question as we would need at least a hundred grand deposit.
There are at least 1000 properties listed on Airbnb within a 5 mile radius, many of them would be ideal but the rents on them are extortionate and aimed at tourists we are talking at least a grand a week.
We have lived here for years in a residential complex (well before Airbnb and booking even got popular) we have jobs here and friends here and a life here. It is on the whole fine for 9 months of the year mainly local people living around us who all respect that we are living and just trying to survive.
Then the Airbnb people turn up and every week it’s new people above us below us next to us. The noise is horrendous and probably the worst problem. Being woken at all hours with people rolling suitcases along floors, lifts going up and down, shouting in the corridors and doors banging. It just goes on and on like this for months.
My anxiety with it all is now so bad that I’m having to take medication. The noise just feels constant.
Do people even realise when they are booking Airbnb that these are people’s homes that they are disrupting? Why don’t people go to hotels anymore ?
So yeah there is a huge housing crisis due to the airbnb situation and I’m just a small person in a situation that I can’t change other than to leave somewhere I call home. I suppose my AIBU is am I being unreasonable to feel like a company has ruined my life ?

OP posts:
itsafan · 04/08/2025 07:34

@FairKoala they won’t be allowed to turn them into 52 week a year holiday lets. They will have to either live in them or rent them out for a fair price to local residents full time so that they are occupied.

OP posts:
itsafan · 04/08/2025 08:07

@FairKoala And if they don’t want to rent them then they will sell them and then supply will outstrip demand and the prices to buy will come down for locals too.
As for the businesses some of them have been here from the 70’s they aren’t relying on tourism to stay open they are supported by local people. They did very well in covid when tourists could not come. Some of the big chain places that have opened in light of the boom will unfortunately probably shut because locals can’t afford their prices.
Lots of the local people simply do not visit businesses during the summer months anyway because of the lack of parking, crowds and a lot of the time drunken behaviour. I think the multi billionaire companies will probably see a gap in the market and build more hotels to be honest.

OP posts:
itsafan · 04/08/2025 08:09

@FairKoalayour compassion for the homeless honestly astounds me.

OP posts:
EdisinBurgh · 04/08/2025 08:29

FairKoala · 04/08/2025 01:13

And to the poster who doesn’t fancy camping there are people right now living in tents on the beach in my town. They have nowhere to live because everything is a holiday home and they can’t afford €1000 a week in rent

If camping is so great then why do you talk about it in such a negative light?

Do you really believe that if people were to stop putting their house on Airbnb for €1000 per week they would rent the place out at a price that those people who live in tents on the beach could afford.

I would say that like BTL which has been reduced hugely and because demand now outstrips supply and the consequence is rents that have risen to an almost unaffordable level.

Getting rid of holiday lets in tourist destinations will have consequences too.

What happens when the shops that were kept open because of the tourists begin to close or they have to cut back on the local people who work in these businesses

What happens if the holiday let owner decides to keep the property and turn it into a 52 week per year holiday let to cover the huge council tax penalties

Those people living on the beach, they might like the idea of living in a certain area but if they can’t afford it then they have to find an area that they can afford
The concept is not new. Like everything in life, it is a compromise until you can afford to have choices

@FairKoala ”Those people living on the beach” are the people who live work in and run the holiday destinations you are pricing them out of.

Are you really comfortable renting AirBnB apartments for your holiday which consequently forces the priced-out locals to live in tents on the hot beach - just to serve you on your hols, while their town becomes an empty shell of holiday lets or at best an ageing greying population.

It seems that’s what you’re advocating for - and it’s the locals’ own fault for choosing to stay in their home town in the first place.

No compassion at all, let alone recognition that you’re part of the problem.

itsafan · 04/08/2025 08:37

@EdisinBurgh Thank you 🥰 you are explaining this far better than I am.

OP posts:
FairKoala · 04/08/2025 08:55

itsafan · 04/08/2025 07:34

@FairKoala they won’t be allowed to turn them into 52 week a year holiday lets. They will have to either live in them or rent them out for a fair price to local residents full time so that they are occupied.

If the local council are already charging an inflated council tax to people who choose to let out their houses for holiday lets.
This could back fire spectacularly on the council if they start bringing in different restrictions
The owner could decide to register the property as a business then they become liable for business rates and not the inflated council tax and depending on the type and size of property this could be reduced by 50% or even to £0
In order to qualify as a business then the place would more than likely be rented out for holiday lets more days per year not less.

I think the decision making in councils and in governments is based on what they “think”people want, what they think will get them re elected. They impose penalties thinking that those the people these penalties are directed at will just pay and do as they are told because that is what the council/government wants.

Councils and governments don’t take account of tax or mortgage implications. They don’t put themselves in the shoes of someone who is facing these penalties and look to see if there are solutions and what those solutions could mean for the council/government budget or the long term implications for the general public

I would question if councils have the power to demand who an owner of a property can rent to, would these beach dwellers be considered locals given they haven’t an address in the town, don’t pay council tax and aren’t on the electoral role

Even if the property is rented to a local family, the mortgage restrictions would mean they would need to have well paying jobs to be able to pass the owners btl mortgage restrictions

itsafan · 04/08/2025 09:14

@FairKoalaare you talking about the U.K. here ? Spain already have high business taxes and administrative costs so registering as a business wouldn’t be more financially viable to them.
Not only that if the people who run the committee in the complex vote to ban short term lets there is nothing the owners can do it’s what they signed up for. If they don’t agree they can sell it or they can long term let it. To quote yourself, like everything in life, it is a compromise until you can afford to have choices. Aka until they can afford to buy the entire nearly 200 apartments it’s not their choice to make.

OP posts:
AngelRoja · 04/08/2025 10:47

DH001 · 03/08/2025 20:03

what a drama queen... just move girl

I think you get an award for the dumbest comment on this thread. If you have a job, you dont just move to another place and become unemployed.

AngelRoja · 04/08/2025 11:03

Nichebitch · 31/07/2025 18:09

I’m Spanish and in my city is virtually impossible to get an Airbnb license - specially in flats. This is the rule now, I’m pretty sure it’s going to get to your city sooner rather than later

I'm afraid you are being overly optimistic. Although renters and residents are complaining bitterly, most town halls are ignoring the issue, including the hugh amount of non registered illegal rentals. I live in a costal village and our town hall just couldn't care less. If they wanted to they could clamp down, but they have a very short term outlook and worship at the altar of tourism. By the time they wake up and realise that noone can get staff because of the lack of housing, it will be too late.

AngelRoja · 04/08/2025 11:08

Mirabai · 31/07/2025 18:12

I do understand the Airbnb problem. But there’s a lot of regulation now in Europe.

And tourist noise & behaviour and sky high rents in summer, & buildings dominated by holiday lets was always an issue in holiday areas long before Airbnb.That’s the price to be paid for living in a tourist zone. Just ask people in Cornwall or Cote D’Azure etc.

Edited

When you work in a tourist area, you dont have the choice to live in any old place where rents are cheaper. Then people wonder why they cant get staff. Our teachers cant find places to live, nor our doctors. And forget low paid staff for the hospitality industry.

AngelRoja · 04/08/2025 11:22

DrPrunesqualer · 31/07/2025 18:27

We hate hotels. We prefer cooking facilities etc and for families it’s more affordable

Never stayed in an Airbnb though

Really it seems your issue is tourists. Tourism brings a lot of money into the economy
People moved into investing in rentals etc because private pensions are unpredictable and if there’s a crash you lost it completely
If pensions were backed up by the tax payer like Govn pensions are perhaps we’d all feel more secure in our future

I agree having empty properties for most of the year is creating a lot of problems and shouldn’t be allowed though
I don’t agree that tourists are the problem

If you dont think tourism is a problem, you clearly dont live anywhere where there is a lot of it. Tourism, Airbnb style, does not bring in vast amounts of revenue. Firstly because half those rentals (or more in some areas) are tourist lets and sadly attract "cheap" tourism which doesnt spend much in the area. They dont eat out much and only use the big multinacional supermarkets. Secondly a large number are notlicensed and so no tax revenue comes in. Thirdly local people can no longer afford to live in the place they come from and work in, so we have serious staff shortages, including teaching and medical staff. Quite apart from that, tourism brings brings noise and insecurity in the buildings they use.

Thankfully the new laws allow Communities to ban new tourist flats if 3/5ths dont want them. Hopefully our own building will vote to forbid them.
If there were designated areas where they were permitted, it would help, but there is little political desire at local and national level to implement restrictions.
It's a mess.

AngelRoja · 04/08/2025 11:44

Athreedoorwardrobe · 31/07/2025 18:57

You see i don't agree at all. Airbnb started out as a small enterprise to let people make some extra cash by renting out spare rooms to holiday makers..
The issues with people trying to run whole businesses via that platform are caused by local government not regulating the use of buildings well enough.
As I said before airbnb is one of many ways this issue occurs. If it wasn't airbnb it would be something else. It's slum landlording but just via a modern platform. The government needs to crack down on it but it's not a popular move amongst the upper classes is it? Let's be honest this is how a lot of money is made
You can point the finger at airbnb but it's just a smokescreen
The real issue is that it's legal to buy up multiple properties that you have no intention of living in.. no one individual or company should own entire streets of housing. Yet in some places they do!!
Rent control is also important. Zoning.
We need to put more pressure on government to implement these things.

Airbnb has changed since it's inception. It is now big business owned by a multinacional which only cares about the bottom line. Companies buy up whole blocks and Chuck out the tenants to turn them into Airbnbs. Private individuals are now buying up properties to rent out to tourists instead of residents as it is profitable and that includes people from outside the country who are speculating with local properties. Airbnb does have responsibility to ensurecthat only legal tourist rental are included on their platform, but have ignored it for years. They also make money from it, so yes they have to take responsibility.

The good news is that Airbnb have just had to remove 65,000 listings as they are not licensed. The other good news is that all tourist and temporary rentals will have to be registered on a national register so that should stop some abuses. The bad news is that noone wants the money spent to increase the number of inspectors to enforce the law, so it's going to be slow.

AngelRoja · 04/08/2025 11:47

Tatty247 · 31/07/2025 19:21

We love staying in Airbnb's, there are so many great options and we always get somewhere with a kitchen. We are always very respectful. At the same time I 100% think they should be banned/much more strictly controlled in many cities and islands as they take housing away from locals. I wouldn't blame governments at all for doing that despite the fact that I love using them.

I do think though that living in a flat is often difficult whether the neighbours are Airbnbers or people there full time. I have had many bad experiences of flats without airbnbers, including people up at 5:30 being noisy getting ready for work, bottle bins being emptied vey early and smoking in the bathroom and all the smoke coming into our bathroom through the vent.

Edited

Whatever happened to aparthotels where you rent in a dedicated building with kitchen and living facilities? They are the solution in many areas

ICareNothingForYourCameras · 04/08/2025 12:02

Aparthotels exist but they are usually smaller and cost more than a normal flat on Airbnb etc so families looking for self catering would generally go for the cheaper option with more space (eg 2 bedrooms on Airbnb rather than 1bedroom and a sofabed in an aparthotel)

DrPrunesqualer · 04/08/2025 13:07

AngelRoja · 04/08/2025 11:22

If you dont think tourism is a problem, you clearly dont live anywhere where there is a lot of it. Tourism, Airbnb style, does not bring in vast amounts of revenue. Firstly because half those rentals (or more in some areas) are tourist lets and sadly attract "cheap" tourism which doesnt spend much in the area. They dont eat out much and only use the big multinacional supermarkets. Secondly a large number are notlicensed and so no tax revenue comes in. Thirdly local people can no longer afford to live in the place they come from and work in, so we have serious staff shortages, including teaching and medical staff. Quite apart from that, tourism brings brings noise and insecurity in the buildings they use.

Thankfully the new laws allow Communities to ban new tourist flats if 3/5ths dont want them. Hopefully our own building will vote to forbid them.
If there were designated areas where they were permitted, it would help, but there is little political desire at local and national level to implement restrictions.
It's a mess.

Tourists are using a facility provided to them.
It’s the lack of Government clamp downs on numbers that’s the issue. If it was more regulated there would be less
So. No. I don’t blame the tourists

AngelRoja · 04/08/2025 15:14

DrPrunesqualer · 04/08/2025 13:07

Tourists are using a facility provided to them.
It’s the lack of Government clamp downs on numbers that’s the issue. If it was more regulated there would be less
So. No. I don’t blame the tourists

What is a problem is that everyone has the expectation that they have a right to cheap holidays in Spain. Spain used to be a very poor country and stuff for tourists was cheap compared to their own countries. Times have changed. Spain is now a modern democracy (with its faults). People need decent wages. Their food and lodging is no longer "given away" . It's no longer a third world country. Of course its more expensive. So is France and Italy, to name but two. Allowing every mother and their son, not to mention businesses, rent out private dwellings for tourist profit (often not declared) is not the answer.

Goldenbear · 04/08/2025 15:52

FairKoala · 04/08/2025 08:55

If the local council are already charging an inflated council tax to people who choose to let out their houses for holiday lets.
This could back fire spectacularly on the council if they start bringing in different restrictions
The owner could decide to register the property as a business then they become liable for business rates and not the inflated council tax and depending on the type and size of property this could be reduced by 50% or even to £0
In order to qualify as a business then the place would more than likely be rented out for holiday lets more days per year not less.

I think the decision making in councils and in governments is based on what they “think”people want, what they think will get them re elected. They impose penalties thinking that those the people these penalties are directed at will just pay and do as they are told because that is what the council/government wants.

Councils and governments don’t take account of tax or mortgage implications. They don’t put themselves in the shoes of someone who is facing these penalties and look to see if there are solutions and what those solutions could mean for the council/government budget or the long term implications for the general public

I would question if councils have the power to demand who an owner of a property can rent to, would these beach dwellers be considered locals given they haven’t an address in the town, don’t pay council tax and aren’t on the electoral role

Even if the property is rented to a local family, the mortgage restrictions would mean they would need to have well paying jobs to be able to pass the owners btl mortgage restrictions

Edited

You may question whether councils have the power but in this country, MPs can lobby the government on behalf of the concerns raised by their constituents and the councils and call for the law to be changed. In fact, that has been done where I live and it seems elsewhere in the country as a bill is being debated in parliament to address this problem; if the bill becomes law, it would license and regulate the sector as the current free-for-all leaves a £6 billion tax shortfall. These are the issues that the government needs to address if they want to see wealth inequality reduced.

DrPrunesqualer · 04/08/2025 16:11

AngelRoja · 04/08/2025 15:14

What is a problem is that everyone has the expectation that they have a right to cheap holidays in Spain. Spain used to be a very poor country and stuff for tourists was cheap compared to their own countries. Times have changed. Spain is now a modern democracy (with its faults). People need decent wages. Their food and lodging is no longer "given away" . It's no longer a third world country. Of course its more expensive. So is France and Italy, to name but two. Allowing every mother and their son, not to mention businesses, rent out private dwellings for tourist profit (often not declared) is not the answer.

Again this is a Government issue. As I said. It is up to each country to control their housing stock and how it is used.

AngelRoja · 04/08/2025 18:33

DrPrunesqualer · 04/08/2025 16:11

Again this is a Government issue. As I said. It is up to each country to control their housing stock and how it is used.

Since everyone complains about the cost of hotels, which has gone up to european levels, I dont see how. The government does need to bring in stricter controls , but most autonomous regions (the majority of which are controlled by the opposition) who have the legal responsibility to operate and finance them refuse to cooperate as they are idealogically opposed to "controls" and dont give a damn about working people if it is going to hurt their pockets.

DrPrunesqualer · 04/08/2025 19:57

AngelRoja · 04/08/2025 18:33

Since everyone complains about the cost of hotels, which has gone up to european levels, I dont see how. The government does need to bring in stricter controls , but most autonomous regions (the majority of which are controlled by the opposition) who have the legal responsibility to operate and finance them refuse to cooperate as they are idealogically opposed to "controls" and dont give a damn about working people if it is going to hurt their pockets.

That’s the governments problem. central and Regional
As I said.

Although it’s not their fault the cost of hotels is high. That’s a supply and demand issue essentially

AngelRoja · 04/08/2025 20:16

DrPrunesqualer · 04/08/2025 19:57

That’s the governments problem. central and Regional
As I said.

Although it’s not their fault the cost of hotels is high. That’s a supply and demand issue essentially

Correct, but that says nothing about tourists expectations to pay the prices that were around 20 years. They complain about it daily on most social media and off it.

DH001 · 04/08/2025 22:42

Bolton

DH001 · 04/08/2025 22:47

yes you do... good places go bad and bad places go bust. If the OP now doesn't like where she lives, she can move. And get another job. The woman clearly has a sense of entitlement that exceeds her budget.

DrPrunesqualer · 04/08/2025 23:14

AngelRoja · 04/08/2025 20:16

Correct, but that says nothing about tourists expectations to pay the prices that were around 20 years. They complain about it daily on most social media and off it.

I’m really at a loss as to understand the point of these posts
Who cares that tourists are complaining about the cost. They can complain all they like, we are a democracy.
You’re complaining and blaming tourists. You have that right, we are a democracy.
Meanwhile the world moves on run by Governments

itsafan · 05/08/2025 08:26

@DH001 Like the tourists who can’t afford a hotel ?

OP posts: