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WFH / office days in new employment agreement

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catspyjamas1 · 30/07/2025 18:39

Hi all. Posting on AIBU for traffic as time sensitive.

I have verbally accepted a job offer. The policy is 3 days in the office (fine - its central London and my commute is an hour door-to-door from the shire).

They have sent me the employment agreement and not stipulated the 3 days, nor any provision for communicating changes to the policy in advance.

For context:

  1. I used to work indirectly for this company until three years ago. As a result of Covid & return to work era in offices, they mandated 3 days in the office a couple of months before they sold the subsidiary I worked for. It was deeply unpopular and handled very badly from a comms. perspective.
  2. I was recommended for the role by a very senior member of their leadership team. I went through several rounds of interviews and my experience is quite niche for the role.
  3. Since 2020, I have primarily been WFH. Before that, I was full time commuting 5 days a week for nearly 15 years. I do not want to go back to full time commuting and have no issue with 3 days a week. I have no interest in increasing beyond that and want to protect myself from any increase in the next couple of years at least.

So: I have requested a few amendments to the agreement. One is stipulating the 3 days and that any changes will be communicated in advance (I suggested 30 days).

They have replied it is a standard clause they will not edit.

I am deeply uncomfortable signing this agreement. I am also in a position that I can decline to move forward and find a different position, even if it takes a bit longer out of work.

YABU: accept the agreement and take the risk the company will increase office days.
YANBU: try push back, and decline the role if they refuse to add the current mandated 3 days with provisions to communicate any changes in advance.

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DarkForces · 30/07/2025 21:54

You don't sound like you think the role is a good fit. It feels like you've got quite serious misgivings about the company and set up. I'd try and unpick it a bit and see where you are. I find sleeping on a decision often helps.

catspyjamas1 · 30/07/2025 22:12

@DarkForces Thank you, yes. I've had misgivings, leading up to the company selling the the one I was at at the time. When I got the verbal, a few people were very surprised I'd accepted.

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Wellee · 30/07/2025 22:16

do not feel pressured into signing any agreement you have not verbally discussed, if they are making major changes its still a form of constructive dismissal- they made changes that they knew wasn’t compatible with you staying in employment. Are there any particular reasons for you working from home due to carer responsibilities or limitations to travel?

JassyRadlett · 30/07/2025 22:20

catspyjamas1 · 30/07/2025 21:30

@JassyRadlett Are you in the public sector?

No.

catspyjamas1 · 31/07/2025 08:12

Thanks for everyone's input and comments, appreciate it. Will mull over and make a decision.

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