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To ask anyone in the NHS how day surgery lists are determined?

516 replies

ScuderiaSedici · 30/07/2025 14:43

As above

OP posts:
SomethingDifferentBloomed · 31/07/2025 18:19

Glad it all went well in the end, wishing you a speedy recovery!

usernamealreadytaken · 31/07/2025 18:22

ScuderiaSedici · 30/07/2025 17:43

Because I’ll have been fasting for near on 24 hours at that point and if it’s got to 2pm and I’ve not been operated on, it’s quite clear u won’t be operated on that day!

I've been taken in to surgery at 5pm before, after waiting all day.

PorridgeEater · 31/07/2025 18:40

When a family member of mine had a serious operation they were put in first as the surgeon/s knew it would be difficult and wanted to get that done.
On that basis, if you're near the end at least you have the consolation that it's probably less serious / a bit more routine.
(The op went ok and the surgeon told me afterwards that he was relieved).

AlleycatMarie · 31/07/2025 18:45

ScuderiaSedici · 30/07/2025 15:39

My mum believes I’ll be high up as I’m a simple case, I think that’s why I’ll be put at the bottom!

I was listed first as a simple case but also likely to have needed a longer recovery time for pain management than say a wisdom tooth removal.

AlleycatMarie · 31/07/2025 18:47

ScuderiaSedici · 30/07/2025 17:43

Because I’ll have been fasting for near on 24 hours at that point and if it’s got to 2pm and I’ve not been operated on, it’s quite clear u won’t be operated on that day!

Actually that’s not true. I’ve also had a day surgery where I was taken down past 2pm! (Discharged at 6pm)

independentfriend · 31/07/2025 18:48

Have you got contact details for the pre-op nurses? They probably know how lists in your hospital are put together and can explain that, even if that ends up being confirmation you're likely to be at the end of the list.

They / your GP might be able to prescribe anti anxiety medication for you to take on the day of the surgery. If you're especially anxious they might be able to let a friend/relative stay with you in the waiting area.

It's better for your recovery to only fast for the minimum time required - your body will be working hard after surgery to heal the bits the surgeons were working on and it needs fuel and a good supply of protein for that. So a late night snack is the choice I'd make - for better healing and for more comfortable waiting.

Guidance for children now talks about waking them to give them a snack before the fasting cut off times.

It's also better to not be dehydrated so again stick to the minimum time for not drinking. This will help them with finding a vein for a cannula and help you by not feeling too rubbish. Look up 'sip to send' - you'll probably be able to carry on drinking still water whilst you're waiting. Lip salve will probably be ok and there are dry mouth gels which are worth asking about.

There's usually internet access in hospitals so you can plan the day with activities to do whilst you wait - if it's too hard to concentrate on a book you might have some games to play or shorter things to read online. You might also find interesting spontaneous conversations with the other people in the waiting room.

And yes, a lot of the challenge in managing healthcare is in managing uncertainty - you can't control the list or your operation potentially being cancelled on the day. So control the stuff you can control. Have a snack of your choosing with you. Have a fun evening back up plan if surgery doesn't happen.

Do you know what you're scared about? Pain? Anaesthesia? Losing control? It's possibly worth poking at that a bit and talking to someone about it.

It may help you to remember that it's your choice to have this operation. Nobody will make you. You can ask about other treatments or decide it's not worth the risk of surgery.

NapoleonsToe · 31/07/2025 18:53

She's already had the surgery.

ScuderiaSedici · 31/07/2025 19:04

SomethingDifferentBloomed · 31/07/2025 18:19

Glad it all went well in the end, wishing you a speedy recovery!

Touch wood im feeling okay so far. It can peak in a day or two, but im cautiously optimistic

OP posts:
purityjonesrockedmyworld · 31/07/2025 19:17

Not quite surgery but my DC needed an anaesthetic for an MRI and was on the day ward with loads of other children requiring the same. We were told the anaesthetist would decide order that morning after speaking to everyone. My DC was second to go and I’m convinced it is because she felt sorry for me as I was by myself and when she was explaining the procedure I asked questions which led her to think I was a medical professional but I explained was actually due to my husband currently being an inpatient in the same hospital and had had lots of scans over the previous few weeks.

BooneyBeautiful · 31/07/2025 19:28

DryDays · 30/07/2025 16:20

It depends on many factors as pp have stated, for example orthopedics they would generally do a hip replacement on a younger fitter patient to get them out the wirhin a day or 2. An older , more complex patient would be later as would likely need at least a 3 night stay. Hope all goes well OP

But a hip replacement isn't a day surgery case.

Greybeardy · 31/07/2025 19:29

BooneyBeautiful · 31/07/2025 19:28

But a hip replacement isn't a day surgery case.

hip replacements increasingly are day case procedures these days

justasking111 · 31/07/2025 19:57

Greybeardy · 31/07/2025 19:29

hip replacements increasingly are day case procedures these days

My friend was expected to be in for three days, pleased to be discharged after two.

justasking111 · 31/07/2025 20:00

My husband was last in theatre for foot surgery. 5pm They said it was because feet are more likely to spread infection than hips, knees.

Slidingthrulife · 31/07/2025 21:15

Exactly this - as someone who organises theatre lists it is all on clinical decisions rather than anything else. Also depends on if beds are available etc etc

it’s one big jigsaw and relies on porters; patients being ready; patients turning up; the correct kit being in theatre; recovery time needed as if a say case then everyone needs to go home

As an aside always follow op instructions - the amount of people who arrive at theatre with a costa in their hand … a waste of money …

Slidingthrulife · 31/07/2025 21:20

ScuderiaSedici · 30/07/2025 17:54

I pay enough in tax and I’ve waited long enough to not be left fasting until 5 or 6pm the next day.

Have you any idea how many people would give anything to have your slot just because you can’t be bothered to wait? Wow - entitlement right there. You clearly don’t need to surgery if you are in a position that you want to leave and not have your surgery. To say you have paid enough tax is a dreadful thing to say. Shame on you and this is why the NHS wastes so much money. I am half thinking that you are joking just to get a response !

ScuderiaSedici · 31/07/2025 21:26

Greybeardy · 31/07/2025 19:29

hip replacements increasingly are day case procedures these days

I’m genuinely staggered by the fact that they not only do joint replacements as a day case (I remember my granddad was in for a few days when he had his, or at least overnight - I was about 6!), but also that they do them under a spinal block rather than a GA 😬

OP posts:
Blushingm · 31/07/2025 21:28

BooneyBeautiful · 31/07/2025 19:28

But a hip replacement isn't a day surgery case.

It can be. Same with knees or any other joint really

Rosscameasdoody · 31/07/2025 21:29

BooneyBeautiful · 31/07/2025 19:28

But a hip replacement isn't a day surgery case.

In many cases joint replacements actually are day cases if they’re straighforward.

Blushingm · 31/07/2025 21:32

ScuderiaSedici · 31/07/2025 13:59

I’ve been awake for two hours now and it doesn’t look like im going anywhere. Nobody has come to check on me at all, I had to take myself to the toilet

Because you’re an adult? Adults can take themselves to the toilet?

KiwiFall · 31/07/2025 21:34

ScuderiaSedici · 30/07/2025 20:47

Yes part of the issue is I’ve had very little information about the surgery. It’s just the generic name. He’s not explained anything about what he’ll actually be doing. The pre-op call was just me saying no to everything, and no real discussion of anything. I feel like they just aren’t really interested in telling me anything

When I had surgery. I had to go to hospital at 7am. The day of surgery (not before) I was told a rough time for surgery (it did end up being a bit later). Again that day of surgery (not before) I saw the anaesthetist who went through his bits and the surgeon came to see me and told me exactly what he was going to do. Unfortunately when people and procures are involved things can change and not go to plan. I know that doesn’t help you but the staff are not trying to make this difficult.

Barnbrack · 31/07/2025 21:36

Bushmillsbabe · 30/07/2025 15:43

In paediatrics we were told that youngest and those with additional needs went first. Which whilst understandable, was really hard on our 9 year old whose anxiety was through the roof and was vomiting due to the stress of waiting, after being told we had to be there at 6am, she didnt go down until 4ish, 2nd to last.

We had a similar experience when my undiagnosed but volatile then 5 yr old waited all day for an MRI. He tried his best but hunger, thirst and boredom led to a meltdown about 5 pm where I had to take him in a side room... Oddly he was taken next. We went in to the same hospital for tonsillectomy 4 weeks later again expecting a long wait... Moved to first on list, play therapist on hand, referral to neuropsychology.... ADHD and likely ASD we realise now he's 7

woolflower · 31/07/2025 21:58

Avantiagain · 30/07/2025 15:45

Special needs of patients will be given consideration although clinical reasons come first. They would attempt to give ds an early slot because of his learning disability and they tried to fit my day op in with my caring responsibility.

I think it really depends on the day and the needs of others. Our experience was that special needs patients can be given priority over clinical need.

We were told our type 1 diabetic daughter would be first on the list, however on the day a child with autism was deemed to have higher need.

Helpmybrainsmelted · 31/07/2025 23:25

CountryMumof4 · 30/07/2025 18:35

How utterly despicable of you to be so dismissive of a child's experiences.

When I had my c-section I was the first in because everyone else was more complex. I think surgury lists will very much depend on the specialism and what they are dealing with that day.

MrsEverest · 01/08/2025 04:03

This has been such a depressing read. I wish you had listened a little more to people who know what they’re talking about when it comes to how complex surgical timing can be, rather than thinking surgeons/anaesthetists are ‘letting people down’ etc.

Just a vast sense of entitlement.

Billybea · 01/08/2025 08:46

ScuderiaSedici · 30/07/2025 14:43

As above

I worked for the NHS in General Surgery for 15 years and the list was always being moved around & cancelled and I was even slightly confused sometimes, if you get time then watch tv's Critical List which explains it all down to a tee.