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To think the RNLI are 100% in the right

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SanFranBear · 29/07/2025 09:44

I've just seen this story on the BBC news homepage where the RNLI are being accused of acting as a taxi service for migrants trying to enter the UK on small boats from Europe.

www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c8dejyg4l37o

The organisation and volunteers quite rightly have responded to say they make no apologies for saving lives at sea and that their work has no political motivation.

Damn straight - one of the volunteers further down the article explains the profound impact he feels of encountering people struggling in our waters.

It makes me wonder what critics of the service expect them to do - just sail away, leaving the people to die? Pick them up and cross the channel to dump them back 'where they came from'?

What is wrong with them? Where is their compassion? Regardless of your thoughts on immigration, this is so cold and inhuman....

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SardinesOnGingerbread · 30/07/2025 07:55

FurryHappyKittens · 29/07/2025 09:47

I like when stories like this hit the news. It means the RNLI get an influx of donations.

Good idea. Off to donate.

suburburban · 30/07/2025 07:56

cardibach · 29/07/2025 21:25

Break international law you mean? Not my country. I’d like my country back please. The compassionate, inclusive, law abiding one.

Trouble is some of the people arriving aren’t law abiding and it is a tinder box

2dogsandabudgie · 30/07/2025 08:08

Internaut · 30/07/2025 01:01

That word "solution" is doing a lot of heavy lifting. How can you know that what you vote for will be a solution? Farage et al find it easy to spout a load of rhetoric when they'e not in power, actually doing anything effective if they ever reach power is a wholly different matter.

That could be said for all parties though. In their manifesto Labour said they would "smash the gangs" and "Take back control of our borders". That hasn't happened. Small boat crossings are up by over 40% since Labour came to power.

We're paying the French even more millions, we've now got a Border Force Director or whatever his title is on a salary of over £100,000 a year, plus all the extra border staff that Starmer has employed and still Labour can't get a grip on the problem.

But apparently it's not Labour's fault it's the weather that's to blame!

EasternStandard · 30/07/2025 08:26

2dogsandabudgie · 30/07/2025 08:08

That could be said for all parties though. In their manifesto Labour said they would "smash the gangs" and "Take back control of our borders". That hasn't happened. Small boat crossings are up by over 40% since Labour came to power.

We're paying the French even more millions, we've now got a Border Force Director or whatever his title is on a salary of over £100,000 a year, plus all the extra border staff that Starmer has employed and still Labour can't get a grip on the problem.

But apparently it's not Labour's fault it's the weather that's to blame!

Maybe they should have run on check the weather rather than smash the gangs.

A few weeks ago Labour hailed the 300m law change in France a ‘game changer’. It’s not. Crossings are still going up. The one in one out seems to have gone quiet but if we’re still on the weather as reasoning in three years then I’d say Labour will struggle.

Satisfiedwithanapple · 30/07/2025 08:46

2dogsandabudgie · 30/07/2025 08:08

That could be said for all parties though. In their manifesto Labour said they would "smash the gangs" and "Take back control of our borders". That hasn't happened. Small boat crossings are up by over 40% since Labour came to power.

We're paying the French even more millions, we've now got a Border Force Director or whatever his title is on a salary of over £100,000 a year, plus all the extra border staff that Starmer has employed and still Labour can't get a grip on the problem.

But apparently it's not Labour's fault it's the weather that's to blame!

Smashing the gangs is just words. You can smash one gang but another will immediately replace them.

WhereIsMyJumper · 30/07/2025 08:52

dottiehens · 29/07/2025 10:36

Well yeah but this is why this will never stop. Come clean and say you want open borders without consequences. I believe the people coming pay thousands to smugglers to cross. Do they know the risks? I personally do not care but find ridiculous people complain about lack of services and housing and crime while at the same time support open borders.

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Where did the OP say they want open borders?? Can you not understand nuance?!

I don’t support open borders and I believe immigration needs to be controlled more than it is and we should let thousands of undocumented migrants enter the country but I sure as hell don’t think they should be left to drown!! That’s inhumane!

SanFranBear · 30/07/2025 09:14

Sorry for going quiet - real life has an annoying habit of getting in the way.

Some 'interesting' opinions here. I didn't realise the 'taxi' comment was from some years ago as only saw it yesterday but from people's comments about how fundraisers are routinely still being shouted at, its still relevant.

I agree with those pp's saying this country is in trouble but it's not from this unstoppable wave of undocumented criminals and hotel-wreckers - it's from a complete and utterly lack of compassion and care. Anyone who can start a sentence with 'I don't want them to drown but...' is really lacking something fundamental.

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PensionUpliftAdd · 30/07/2025 09:16

RNLI are not just a UK organisation

They do work internationally too

https://rnli.org/what-we-do/international

usernamealreadytaken · 30/07/2025 09:24

cardibach · 29/07/2025 20:38

So something else Labour are doing to deal with the crisis then? It’s been the 80%s for a long time.

Not really anything to do with Labour, it's the measures introduced under the last administration that have affected the most recent figures.

ByNeatPinkHare · 30/07/2025 09:31

SanFranBear · 30/07/2025 09:14

Sorry for going quiet - real life has an annoying habit of getting in the way.

Some 'interesting' opinions here. I didn't realise the 'taxi' comment was from some years ago as only saw it yesterday but from people's comments about how fundraisers are routinely still being shouted at, its still relevant.

I agree with those pp's saying this country is in trouble but it's not from this unstoppable wave of undocumented criminals and hotel-wreckers - it's from a complete and utterly lack of compassion and care. Anyone who can start a sentence with 'I don't want them to drown but...' is really lacking something fundamental.

Love it. Very Marie Antoinette.

When the UK's totally unsustainable fiscal situation comes to a head (greatly exacerbated but an unrelenting stream of liabilities and net receivers - up to 1000 per day arriving on our shores) we'll just tell the bond markets that we'll "pay you in compassion and care, OK hun?☺️".

As our society increasingly fragments and law and order continues to break down, just tell the more and more angry and disenfranchised electorate that we're still winning in "compassion and care".

Who wants a functioning society when you can have sanctimony, anyway?

Phobiaphobic · 30/07/2025 09:36

Internaut · 30/07/2025 00:55

Britain has been taking immigrants for centuries without all these dire consequences. In fact, it's one of the factors which has led to us having an influence in the world that is wholly disproportionate to our size. If anything we are becoming a more cohesive society than we ever were - look at, for instance, the fact that it is the norm to see people of all races on TV all the time.

Anecdotally, I was watching a programme the other day following the consequences of a very nasty fairground accident which left four people being taken to two hospitals. It was noticeable that, in both hospitals, the teams involved were predominantly people of ethnic minorities, and both teams were led by people of Asian heritage. The care they have their patients was extraordinary, and all survived. The NHS would be in a very bad way if it wasn't for immigration.

Your evidence that we live in a cohesive society comes from the brains of TV executives. Smh.

ByNeatPinkHare · 30/07/2025 09:41

TooBigForMyBoots · 29/07/2025 23:01

The problem is not a lack of bin bags.🤯🙈

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A PP claimed that it was "🤯🙈"

DuncinToffee · 30/07/2025 09:41

https://rnli.org/support-us/give-money/donate

Rattytouille · 30/07/2025 09:42

I don’t understand why there can’t be a law which states “if you arrive here illegally by boat, you automatically lose your right to apply for asylum”.

You can’t argue that you are fleeing for your life when you’ve crossed through many safe countries to get here. They come here because of the language, may have contacts here, and they get more benefits here than other countries. It’s a planned action, with money changing hands.

I think it’s really that simple. If you come here on an illegal boat, through the Chunnel or in a lorry, you lose your right to stay and you’ll be deported within 30 days.

Why are other countries not explaining themselves or tying themselves up in knots over this?

ErrolTheDragon · 30/07/2025 09:47

I’ve not read every post on this thread, but many of them seem to be completely irrelevant to the OPs question about the RNLI.

What do people actually expect the RNLI to do when they receive a callout from the Coastguard, other than what they currently do?

And beyond that, I don’t think I’ve seen any practical solutions for how to stop migrants getting into boats to try to cross the Channel. Afaik everyone in the U.K. would like to do that, whether simply because it’s unsafe or any combination of the other reasons.

ByNeatPinkHare · 30/07/2025 09:55

Phobiaphobic · 30/07/2025 09:36

Your evidence that we live in a cohesive society comes from the brains of TV executives. Smh.

That's apparently how the Government operates now too. Netflix dramas are treated as documentaries and drive policy. Maybe if we want action on the boats, we should be writing to their producers rather than MPs.

SanFranBear · 30/07/2025 09:58

ByNeatPinkHare · 30/07/2025 09:31

Love it. Very Marie Antoinette.

When the UK's totally unsustainable fiscal situation comes to a head (greatly exacerbated but an unrelenting stream of liabilities and net receivers - up to 1000 per day arriving on our shores) we'll just tell the bond markets that we'll "pay you in compassion and care, OK hun?☺️".

As our society increasingly fragments and law and order continues to break down, just tell the more and more angry and disenfranchised electorate that we're still winning in "compassion and care".

Who wants a functioning society when you can have sanctimony, anyway?

Wow.. I restrained from calling people racists and xenophobes given this thread was about the RNLI's approach to rescuing people in the sea as opposed to our immigration policy BUT hey, if the cap fits, hun...

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Satisfiedwithanapple · 30/07/2025 10:28

SanFranBear · 30/07/2025 09:58

Wow.. I restrained from calling people racists and xenophobes given this thread was about the RNLI's approach to rescuing people in the sea as opposed to our immigration policy BUT hey, if the cap fits, hun...

Wow showing your true colours now aren’t you hun?

mumda · 30/07/2025 10:31

Internaut · 30/07/2025 00:47

There's a risk of drowning for anyone who gets into a ship or boat. So should we just give up the use of boats, ships, ferries etc completely, give up eating fish, stop people swimming or even paddling?

We give advice on UK beaches and generally people don't try to get from Wales to Ireland by dingy, or even from Southport to Blackpool by dingy. If people did then the sensible thing to do is stop them.

Boats should have appropriate risk assessments and survival equipment for handling emergencies.

Don't equate people going about lawful boat trips with those people being put on small boats by people smugglers.

If you want to save lives in the channel from people coming from France, stop the boats at the shore. That's the easy way.

Does France have the equivalent of RNLI to bring people back to their shores from their water? Is that criminal of the French if they don't?

ErrolTheDragon · 30/07/2025 10:37

mumda · 30/07/2025 10:31

We give advice on UK beaches and generally people don't try to get from Wales to Ireland by dingy, or even from Southport to Blackpool by dingy. If people did then the sensible thing to do is stop them.

Boats should have appropriate risk assessments and survival equipment for handling emergencies.

Don't equate people going about lawful boat trips with those people being put on small boats by people smugglers.

If you want to save lives in the channel from people coming from France, stop the boats at the shore. That's the easy way.

Does France have the equivalent of RNLI to bring people back to their shores from their water? Is that criminal of the French if they don't?

Well yes obviously the best solution would be for those boats never to enter the water on the French side.

There’s precious little British politicians of any hue can do to make that happen. There might have been more we could have done had we still been in the EU but that boat too, regrettably, has sailed.

MrsSkylerWhite · 30/07/2025 10:41

Zebedee999 · 29/07/2025 10:41

Rubbish. Try talking to some legal immigrants, they are non too keen on illegals too.
Personally I do not like criminals of any hue. And yes illegals are criminals for not following the laws of the land by enteriung illegally. I am sick of the cess pit of crime the UK has descended into.

They are not entering illegally.

Satisfiedwithanapple · 30/07/2025 10:50

It’s interesting that I think one thing we are all in total agreement over is that the French should be doing more to prevent this, on safety/ humanitarian grounds if nothing else. But there is no real direct criticism of them for this. They aren’t accused of racism, failing in their duty of care, of not being ‘compassionate’. That they are letting thousands of people sail in this way is disgusting. But mumsnet don’t like to criticise the EU only the U.K.

The ‘problem’ with the RLNI isn’t that they are taxi’ing people or that they should let people drown (of course they shouldn’t). But they make the crossing ‘safer’ as people will know that they are likely to get rescued, meaning people are more likely to get on boats in the first place. This then creates more danger for people not less. So potentially the RNLI inadvertently cause people to take risks and put themselves in danger and more rescues. Economists call it ‘moral hazard’.

And this circus is stopping the U.K. being able to offer asylum to those who need it most.

ByNeatPinkHare · 30/07/2025 10:55

ErrolTheDragon · 30/07/2025 10:37

Well yes obviously the best solution would be for those boats never to enter the water on the French side.

There’s precious little British politicians of any hue can do to make that happen. There might have been more we could have done had we still been in the EU but that boat too, regrettably, has sailed.

I don't believe this. Remainers citing the EU as the bulwark against illegal immigration (which they largely condone) remind me of atheists citing the Bible when it's convenient.

All the southern European countries have this problem too, France has this problem, Ireland has this problem now. Look how well Vox is now doing in Spain. Look at recent events in Greece.

In fact, the only countries that seem to be able to effectively deal with it, are doing so in direct defiance of EU law.

Satisfiedwithanapple · 30/07/2025 10:57

MrsSkylerWhite · 30/07/2025 10:41

They are not entering illegally.

Yes they are

EasternStandard · 30/07/2025 10:58

ByNeatPinkHare · 30/07/2025 10:55

I don't believe this. Remainers citing the EU as the bulwark against illegal immigration (which they largely condone) remind me of atheists citing the Bible when it's convenient.

All the southern European countries have this problem too, France has this problem, Ireland has this problem now. Look how well Vox is now doing in Spain. Look at recent events in Greece.

In fact, the only countries that seem to be able to effectively deal with it, are doing so in direct defiance of EU law.

Of course. I’m not sure how people are missing what is happening in the EU. How?