I've been with my boyfriend 5 years, and we don't live together. We both have children from a previous relationship.
I see him 3 times a week, I go over to his twice, then the third times I see him when all his family get together. He doesn't come round mine, he's never slept around mine, and he knows he's always welcome to.
2 weeks ago I was bitten by an insect, and I started having issues Friday. Went to the doctors, got antibiotics, but last night my foot started turning black.
I rang 111 and they sent me to a&e.
I didn't tell my boyfriend because I knew he'd be sleeping, and I know he doesn't sleep well on a Sunday because he's at work the next day.
I messaged him this morning and told him what had happened, and he rang and said "I told you yesterday to rest your foot and instead you was f around sorting your bedroom out" (I was tidying it because it was a complete mess).
I told him that it's easier said than done resting when you have no help off anyone (I have fibromyalgia too, so I struggle to keep on top of things).
I feel really irritated by that remark, am I being unreasonable for feeling this way?
I'm winding myself up. There's nothing stopping him from coming round to see me, it seems like its always me making the effort. We don't even have sex, he reckons his legs go weird, but is fine after oral 🤷🏼♀️
It feels like I'm making all the effort, although he is a.good, kind bloke.
That comment has thrown me though, not just what he said, but how he said it.