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Should there snoring and non-snoring wards in hospitals?

46 replies

SAbs86 · 28/07/2025 11:35

Lighthearted (kind of) but was admitted to maternity ward last night. Exhausted but couldn't sleep due to extremely loud snorers on either side of me. Can't sleep during the day as she is STILL snoring now.

I find snorers fall asleep quickly so why not lump them together in one ward?

Arghhh I'm at the end of my tether and ready to throw something.

OP posts:
HeartandSeoul · 28/07/2025 14:32

As a snorer, being admitted for an overnight hospital stay (or longer) is one of my fears!

I recently had oral surgery, and the consultant said I would likely be kept in overnight. I went home and purchased 20 pairs of earplugs for my fellow patients 😁!

As it happened, I was discharged on the same day, so I managed to avoid annoying anyone. However, I have the earplugs here if needed in the future.

needNC · 28/07/2025 14:34

CatchHimDerry · 28/07/2025 11:48

Our hospital is single rooms once admitted for everything eg. Children’s, maternity

So much better, we must be very fortunate

Am guessing TW!

CatchHimDerry · 28/07/2025 14:53

needNC · 28/07/2025 14:34

Am guessing TW!

South wales! Both our urgent care and A&E hospitals are like this, but they are quite new hospitals not sure what the situation is with the older ones in the surrounding areas

whitewinespritzerandastraw · 28/07/2025 14:56

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 28/07/2025 11:36

Really there ought to be single person rooms and not wards.

That can actually lead to quite bad problems with loneliness, isolation and delirium in hospitals.

Nametobechanged · 28/07/2025 14:58

I’m currently on a children’s ward. I don’t think a single person here slept well last night. Two mothers were snoring, one was sending voice notes rather than texting. My child was awake for several hours crying in pain whilst they tried to sort out her medication, she finally settled and another little one woke up…..

Ponderingwindow · 28/07/2025 15:00

Your theory that snorers fall asleep quickly is fundamentally flawed.

the solution is single rooms. Better for rest, infection control, and patient privacy. Wards are ridiculously antiquated.

GreenTurtles3 · 28/07/2025 15:02

Pricelessadvice · 28/07/2025 11:37

I had the most horrendous night in HDU once due to the two snoring buffalo’s in there with me.
I finally got to sleep at 4am and slept til just before 6. That was the night after major surgery too. Horrid!

I’s have snorers put in a soundproof room!

Try being married to one. It's awful! Love him but wow!

CremeEggThief · 28/07/2025 15:02

YABU. Nobody ever gets proper rest in hospital.

Andthatrightsoon · 28/07/2025 15:05

I took a pillow and a blanket and bedded down for the night in the day room once, the snoring was so bad on my ward. The nurses didn't blame me!

Theunamedcat · 28/07/2025 20:02

Katemax82 · 28/07/2025 14:07

Same here

I honestly think ive started to snore but as I'm the last one asleep the kids cant tell me but my cat certainly does he nudges me and shoves my head around if it falls forward again he does it again 😂 i must be annoying him

ScrambledEggs12 · 28/07/2025 20:18

Worst night ever after giving birth and the woman next to be snoring.

At least when it's your partner you can nudge/hit them.

taxidriver · 28/07/2025 20:18

they often provide ear plugs

Covidwoes · 28/07/2025 20:23

When I had my second DD, I didn’t sleep AT ALL that night due to constant noise. It was horrendous. Coming home with a newborn and being woken every 2 hours honestly felt luxurious in comparison. 😂

phoenixrosehere · 28/07/2025 20:30

CremeEggThief · 28/07/2025 15:02

YABU. Nobody ever gets proper rest in hospital.

I have. Mind I paid for a separate room with its own bathroom after having my second having struggled to sleep with my first and struggled to walk to get to the public loo.

With my third I asked about it and the nurse looked at me funny and didn’t tell me if they had private rooms with loos. I looked online beforehand and they said they had them and all you had to do was ask about them. I was lucky that it had been just me despite being in a very busy hospital, regretted not staying longer because definitely didn’t get rest when I got home.

DollopOfFun · 28/07/2025 20:37

First night on an antenatal ward, and the (very nice) woman in the bed opposite snored like a hippo all night. The next day her husband arrived to visit, and she told him she'd 'not slept a wink all night.'

I got out of bed and beat her around her stupid snorey head with a cardboard bed pan until she had no working sinuses left. In my imagination obviously 😬

Soonenough · 28/07/2025 20:39

I had my second child at home rather than go to hospital. First child I discharged myself rather than stay in an overcrowded ward with snoring mums , mums in distress and crying babies including mine .
Any other admissions I used my insurance to get a seperate room if possible.

fivetriangulartrees · 28/07/2025 20:46

Not just hospitals. They should segregate snorers and non-snorers on dating apps so you only meet your own kind.

Diversion · 28/07/2025 20:50

I was and still am a snorer but during my admission to maternity for pre-eclampsia with my first baby it reached horrific levels. The first morning I could hear the other women in the bay complaining. There was an empty side room, I was not allowed to use it during the day, but each night my bed was wheeled in so that everyone could get some sleep. Apparently the nurses could still hear me on the corridor.

newrubylane · 28/07/2025 20:59

MeganM3 · 28/07/2025 11:40

There should not be any communal wards in hospitals. Just small single rooms so patients can get half a chance of recovering with some sleep.
I’ve never had worse nights sleep than in hospital, especially on maternity and children’s wards. Completely counter productive. As are the 2 / 4 hourly checks during the night, there needs to be a better system - can’t they find a technology that makes the checks without someone fumbling in with the big machine and disturbing rest, unless absolutely necessary. With all the technology that we now have.

Absolutely agree. When I had my twins and had pre-eclampsia the checks weren't at all coordinated so they were in checking on of us almosy every hour, and then I was feeding two babies on a three-hour schedule as well. And then the nurses kept telling me to 'get some sleep' completely unironically. Like, I would, but someone interrupts me every twenty minutes. By day five I was bordering on collapse. It was the worst experience of my life.

Hiddenbump · 28/07/2025 21:00

OP I really sympathise. The night my baby was born I was in a two person ward and the woman snored all night. She also slept so deeply that she didn't wake when her baby was crying and I had to call the nurse. This happened several times over the night. I don't know what happened when she went home, hopefully she had a partner who would wake up when the baby cried. Even though I know it wasn't deliberate on her part and she couldn't help it the next morning when she said good morning to me I told her it wasn't a good morning I hadn't slept a wink all night and I hoped either me or her got discharged that day because I couldn't share with her for another night. This type of directness is not like me but I was irrational with exhaustion. The nurses took pity on me and found me a beautiful private room that morning. I really hope you get some sleep tonight!

Mynewnameis · 28/07/2025 21:04

fivetriangulartrees · 28/07/2025 20:46

Not just hospitals. They should segregate snorers and non-snorers on dating apps so you only meet your own kind.

And youth hostel dormitories

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