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AIBU or is this just Vinted?

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Dreamyblooms · 26/07/2025 10:13

Lots of clothes to get rid of - all in very good condition. Barely worn or new with and without tags. I uploaded a few Vero Moda tops. Priced them at £3. Lots of people favourited. One person messaged to ask if I’d sell one for £2.

Seems a bit ridiculous! So I needed to iron the top, take nice photos, upload them and write the description, making sure size is correct etc, buy packaging to send it to buyer in and take the time to go to post office/ drop off point and then buyers aren’t even happy with £3 but I’m expected to waste my time messaging people who want to negotiate down by a measly £!

Then the other items no-one is interested in buying them, just favouriting. Am I supposed to be doing something to attract attention? I’ve switched on bundles too with reductions for buying more items together.

is this just what Vinted is like? Tempted to chuck them all as is into a bin bag and drop off at charity shop. It seems like a lot of work for minimal return. I’m time poor at the minute with a newborn and toddler but thought this could be a way to get a bit more money while on mat leave. Is it worth persevering with?

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WhatICallMyUsername · 26/07/2025 12:10

Someone had a dress on I liked for £5 and when I looked it was uploaded 16 months ago so I offered £3 and she’s counter offered at £4. If someone wanted to buy something of mine I’d been stuck with for that long I would bite their arm off 🤣

Catwoman8 · 26/07/2025 12:11

jensondolally · 26/07/2025 11:48

I do it the other way around. I message before I buy to ask, very nicely, if they can post quickly. Of not, then I won’t buy. I obviously only do this if I need the item quickly. So, for example, last week I did it for some swim gear that I’d like for an upcoming holiday. Both sellers said yes they could. So I bought and they sent the following day. Everyone was happy!

I dont mind if someone asks before, it is those who buy it without checking. Sometimes when I have rushed out to send something at the buyers request, some of them leave it to be collected for days ! You need a lot of patience for vinted haha.

VanCleefArpels · 26/07/2025 12:16

Def price higher than you want so offers are acceptable

Having done that when someone favourites an item I make them an offer if £1 less than listed. This makes them feel they are getting a bargain and often translates to a sale.

If things have not gone within a month I go in and amend the listings to drop the price. Anyone who has the item in the favourites will be notified of that.

Then after a couple more weeks it goes to charity. But I’m selling stuff to prevent it going to landfill not to raise money- I always spend the money on buying stuff on Vinted!

Rewis · 26/07/2025 12:37

My stuff has been favourited but nobody who has done it has ever bought anything.

Also, people negotiate there. I just asnwer "full price" if someone tries sometimes ridiculous. I don't iron anything and if it is less than £5 im gonna donate. Otherwise not worth the hassle.

Youcancallmeirrelevant · 26/07/2025 12:39

You'll find it will go in waves, I get 10-15 sales over a couple of days then nothing for a week or so until I upload something else. I put most things on for £1 or £2, then a few higher priced stuff and my money builds up quite quickly. I don't do it to make money just to get something for some old kids clothes to use to buy the next age of clothes basically

R0ckandHardPlace · 26/07/2025 12:51

AtomicBlondeRose · 26/07/2025 10:27

Also sellers sometimes feel like they’re doing buyers a favour by graciously allowing them to buy their top quality items for a low price - nah! The buyers are doing you a favour taking stuff off your hands and paying for the privilege! Just scroll through the app; the supply of clothes far outstrips the amount of people wanting to buy it all.

That’s a strange attitude. If sellers merely want stuff taking off their hands, they’d just take it to a charity shop without all the hassle of ironing, listing and posting.

It has to be in the sellers’ interest to sell it. I wouldn’t be arsed to take a £2 top all the way to the post office just to get it off my hands.

nutbrownhare15 · 26/07/2025 13:04

If it's really nice stuff selling through a second hand dress agency shop might be a better shout. I buy vinted stuff but after doing a bit of selling during lockdown decided it wasn't worth the hassle.

Goldengirl123 · 26/07/2025 13:06

I’ve just sol my first item in there and cannot believe the offers!! Do we need to put them on for?

DidieRi · 26/07/2025 13:10

It’s a bit ridiculous.. I just favourited a few bits and pieces that were newly listed today. Immediately seller messaged me offering them at a lower price. It’s daft.

EatMoreChocolate44 · 26/07/2025 13:11

Another tip is thinking about what you are selling and when. If it's a kids Christmas top from Boden for example. It won't sell or for a good price in march. Put it up at the start of November and it will sell easily for a good price. Same for t-shirts, jumpers. Most people don't want to buy woolly jumpers in June. I sell and buy. I've made over £1000 on vinted and I've spent it all on vinted 🙈

UsingAMansNameInAWomensWorld · 26/07/2025 13:23

I don't spend time ironing and I don't buy envelopes... I get enough bags and boxes of deliveries of my own, I just reuse those as well. It's better for the environment

The offer function is there so people can make an offer. Don't like it? Ignore.

Liking/favouriting has different uses - watching an item for when you have the money, following an item to see if it sells, following an item to see if they reduce it later, hoping they offer a discount as some sellers do....

cremedelacraps · 26/07/2025 13:33

List the stuff for higher because people do like to make offers.

WaltzingWaters · 26/07/2025 13:42

I have a minimum of £8 that I sell things for - nicer brand names or new with tags stuff. Anything not worth that I’ll just pop in a charity bag as, like you said, just not worth the effort. Bundles are another way to do it.

But also from a buyers point of view - some things end up quite pricey still, so even a £2 top will add on a buyer protection fee and postage and work out around £5. And if it doesn’t fit you can’t then return for a refund. Sometimes you can buy it new with the protection of being able to return it for about the same price. So likewise now, I only buy something that would originally be pricey, so I actually make a saving.

WobblyBoots · 26/07/2025 13:44

Tbh I think it's just vinted, you might need to lower your expectations a bit. You don't get more than a few quid for most high street stuff. Even higher end stuff goes very cheap (which is why it's good to buy on there!).

I offer bundle discount which helps to get rid of a few items at once. I'll put a load of stuff on at £2 and most of it will go as people will grab a few other bits to make the postage worth it. Recycling packaging from other online purchases is absolutely the norm and a better for the environment.

I look at it as a way to clear my wardrobe and buy myself or the kids something with the bits of money I get from that. I don't expect it to make much though.

Sep88 · 26/07/2025 14:21

Vinted has been amazing for maternity/ nursing and baby clothes. I don’t haggle, but I wouldn’t buy one item for <£5 as it’s not worth the postage, but love a bundle!

DriveMeCrazy1974 · 26/07/2025 15:37

It's not just Vinted, it happens on eBay too. I sell a specific type of item (music related). I take my time checking the item, checking it plays through, writing an entire track listing, packaging everything up really well etc. My feedback is excellent - 100% on over 4,000 sales and still you'll get some idiot trying to knock £2 off a £4 item. I know my stuff is worth what I originally ask, I go way over and beyond what most sellers of the type of thing I sell do.
Some people think you should give your stuff away. Weirdly, I find, the higher I put an item on for, the less likely somebody is to try to get money off. I don't know why - maybe they perceive an item to be better if you ask more for it.
Some people are just cheeky and think it's all part of the 'game' of buying online.

I always come back with a counter offer that is probably only 50p less and explain that I won't take less - normally they'll buy it anyway. It's very tedious though.

MagneticSquirrel · 26/07/2025 15:59

I always list a bit higher so I can accept offers! I like to make offers and see if I can get better deal when buying. If someone buys without making an offer I feel like I must have underpriced!

MagneticSquirrel · 26/07/2025 16:00

So yes I will see if I can get £3 down to £2.50 or £2, so that it’s less than £5 after postage and protection fees!

Wannaberunners · 26/07/2025 16:10

People definitely just like to feel they’ve had a bargain. Even if you had it on for £1 they’d want it for 50p.

FullOfMomsense · 26/07/2025 16:38

I wouldn't iron them, and sell them in a bundle. Just because you think £3 is cheap enough, don't judge others for trying to get it cheaper.

Elektra1 · 26/07/2025 17:01

You put stuff on Vinted at a price higher than you’d accept, so that when you get offers you can agree a discount. I don’t bother listing anything less than £20 though - like you say, the process isn’t worth it for the time and money involved.

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