I bought a nice house last week, nothing flashy, just a lovely home I worked hard to afford. A friend of mine (and her dad) came over to drop something off, and since then, all she’s done is point out things that "need doing" around the place.
No "congrats," no smile, no "well done", just comments like "you'll need to fix that" or
"that'll cost you." I'm not losing sleep over it but it felt off. My mum said it sounds like jealousy.
For context: we're both 32. She still lives at home and isn't in a position to buy. I've known her for over 10 years, which makes it feel a bit sad. I wanted to share the win with her, not feel like I had to defend it.
AIBU to think some people just can't be happy for you, even close friends, when they're stuck in comparison?