Long post: So DH and I separated last month- reference to my last post as he wanted to have 5 days away from our young kids who are 2 and 1 and only see them for the weekend. He also wanted to start a travel YouTube channel where he went on trips and used “his” hard earnt money to travel the world with his friends, making sure he returned for the weekend. I of course said no but recently his been going to the gym and working on himself.
He claims he is getting better. He has been going out all week seeing friends and taking time for himself as he claimed he was depressed and then on the weekend would stay with us. On the weekend, we are fine and we’re still intimate. Have gone on family days and talked about getting back together. We sleep in the same bed and he has called me his soulmate and said he wants to try again even going as far to call a psychic to ask if we are meant to be together!
This is how I know I married an absolute narcissist. 2 days before my daughters birthday he came back accusing me of talking to other guys. He seen my phone and I clearly wasn’t. He then said I’m so beautiful why do I have to speak and think so much or else we would be together forever. We fall asleep together and I see Airbnb on his phone. I check and I see many messages arranging to meet girls, presumably he has done while still being with me and putting me at risk, and a couple of them were exes.
After I expressed I was completely done with him, he has since turned nasty. He agreed to weekends but now says he wants Thursdays and Fridays with them or else he won’t show. And he has stopped seeing them in the week. My daughter often calls out for her daddy and he doesn’t see any of the kids at all not even to FT.
Am I being unreasonable to think his behaviour is absolutely awful?