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to think I can get by without childcare in August because work is quiet?

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isitPeri1 · 24/07/2025 15:44

Every August, work slows down massively. It has always been this way. There is barely anything coming in, hardly any meetings or deadlines, and most of my team is off. My manager and her manager are both away for the whole of August, so it is very unlikely anything urgent will come up.

I have primary school-aged kids and I am thinking I might skip childcare this year. I usually only have about one to two hours of work a day in August, and some days there is literally nothing to do at all. Anything that does come up, I can usually fit around the kids early in the morning or after they have gone to bed. I have proper annual leave booked for September when they are back at school, so I will get a proper break then.

Has anyone else done this? Just managed without childcare when work was super quiet?

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LameBorzoi · 26/07/2025 23:00

angela1952 · 26/07/2025 13:31

I have read all the updates, including the fact that you've told your manager which doesn't change my point.

If there are redundancies they may prefer to keep the person who doesn't have their children at home all day in the holidays. And the person who takes their annual leave at slacker times of the year.

Many people don't know that redundancies are in the pipeline, this is normal in most companies and organisations. It may or may not be your manager that would make the redundancy decisions, more likely to be a professional HR person who specialises in this field. Just because your organisation is doing well it doesn't mean that re-structuring won't happen, indeed the most successful organisations keep a watching brief on their structures and don't rest on their laurels. Neither do the best employees.

You just aren't understanding seasonal work.

I've been in a job that's flat out for 10 months of the year and super quiet for 2. There's only so much work you can invent in the quiet periods. Inventing too much quickly becomes counter - productive.

Cutting staff because they aren't busy in the quiet period is terrible management. You need them when thecwork ramps up a few weeks later!

isitPeri1 · 27/07/2025 08:58

Pickingmyselfup · 26/07/2025 21:03

I have the same age children and if I had a job which only required me to answer emails or take the odd phone call I could definitely work from home/a day out. I wouldn't want to do it for the whole of the month, I would mix it up where some days they were in a club, some days I would take off and some days I would stay at home or go out somewhere like a soft play or a park where I could keep half an eye on them whilst I worked.

Pretty much what I do now but instead of taking the time off to stay at home because I can't work from home I would save my holiday days and use them for more exciting things.

That also includes having some time just for me too, I'm off all week but I've booked the kids into holiday club for 2 days so I can have some time to myself.

I don't think a work from home job where you have constant meetings and phone calls is suitable even with an 8 and 10 year old but for a job you can pick up and put down when it suits then go for it.

That also includes having some time just for me too, I'm off all week but I've booked the kids into holiday club for 2 days so I can have some time to myself.

That sounds like a great idea. People on this thread have said why have children if you book time off for yourself?

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isitPeri1 · 27/07/2025 09:00

LameBorzoi · 26/07/2025 23:00

You just aren't understanding seasonal work.

I've been in a job that's flat out for 10 months of the year and super quiet for 2. There's only so much work you can invent in the quiet periods. Inventing too much quickly becomes counter - productive.

Cutting staff because they aren't busy in the quiet period is terrible management. You need them when thecwork ramps up a few weeks later!

Exactly, thank you.

Some people just don’t get that not all jobs are flat-out all year round. Loads of roles have natural quiet periods and there’s only so much useful work you can make up during that time. Trying to stay “busy” just for the sake of it ends up being pointless or even counterproductive.

Cutting staff because things are quiet for a few weeks is just bad management. You need those people when everything kicks off again. That’s how it works in my industry.

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vickylou78 · 27/07/2025 10:05

I'm having trouble imagining a job where there is no work to do!!! What are these jobs? I WFH but I could literally fill every minute with work and work through lunch and still wouldn't get all the work done...and even if I got the work done there's always training and development to do etc

Bellyblueboy · 27/07/2025 11:25

vickylou78 · 27/07/2025 10:05

I'm having trouble imagining a job where there is no work to do!!! What are these jobs? I WFH but I could literally fill every minute with work and work through lunch and still wouldn't get all the work done...and even if I got the work done there's always training and development to do etc

Me too - but is my role there is lots of continuous development required.

clearly this role and industry is different.

isitPeri1 · 27/07/2025 12:35

vickylou78 · 27/07/2025 10:05

I'm having trouble imagining a job where there is no work to do!!! What are these jobs? I WFH but I could literally fill every minute with work and work through lunch and still wouldn't get all the work done...and even if I got the work done there's always training and development to do etc

I do not have a job where there is nothing to do. It is quiet in January and August and very busy the rest of the time.

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PropertyD · 27/07/2025 15:56

So OP it’s very busy in Sept when you are planning to take your ‘real’ annual leave. How nice for everyone who will have to cover for you.

Words just fail me regarding your sense of entitlement.

isitPeri1 · 27/07/2025 16:06

PropertyD · 27/07/2025 15:56

So OP it’s very busy in Sept when you are planning to take your ‘real’ annual leave. How nice for everyone who will have to cover for you.

Words just fail me regarding your sense of entitlement.

Why is it entitled if my manager allows it? I asked and it was approved.

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tumblingdowntherabbithole · 27/07/2025 16:20

isitPeri1 · 27/07/2025 16:06

Why is it entitled if my manager allows it? I asked and it was approved.

I'd give up if I were you @isitPeri1 - some posters on here will never be happy until you flagellate yourself to death Wink

isitPeri1 · 27/07/2025 16:43

tumblingdowntherabbithole · 27/07/2025 16:20

I'd give up if I were you @isitPeri1 - some posters on here will never be happy until you flagellate yourself to death Wink

So true. Some of the replies on here say way more about how unhappy people are in their own lives than anything I’ve posted.

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Katherine9 · 29/07/2025 10:51

isitPeri1 · 27/07/2025 16:43

So true. Some of the replies on here say way more about how unhappy people are in their own lives than anything I’ve posted.

You asked:

Am I being unreasonable to think I can get by without childcare in August because work is quiet?

And didn't like the answers or the doubts that you've been entirely truthful in your responses. It's not about how happy others are in their own lives but a reflection of different perspectives on honesty, decency and fairness in the workplace, along with appropriate parenting.

Unwelcoming · 29/07/2025 13:15

isitPeri1 · 24/07/2025 18:22

It’s completely understood in my team and wider department that August is an extremely quiet period. There are genuinely days where there is no work coming in at all, and that’s been the case for years.

When there is work to do, I do it. I’m not planning to ignore my responsibilities, just to manage them around the kids for a few weeks during a lull, I’m not taking the piss. Work is not neglected.

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It's absolutely fine you know what your doing your getting the work done thers no issue you've explained there's very minimal work so make the most of it! Take your kids out locally toys doesn't happen much so you'll kick yourself. If both managers are off for the whole month then already speaks volumes of the work load and protocols so calm down to those who are kicking up a fuss. I think they're just envy of you trust be told. Go and take the kids out for abit of a walk in your local park or a day trip....what I didn't like is your annual leave is without the kids (when they're back at school) but I don't know your home life circumstances so reserving judgment

Unwelcoming · 29/07/2025 13:33

Flamingos89 · 24/07/2025 18:21

I could never get away with looking after my kid secretly for the entirety of August. If i needed a day or two I would disclose that Information and inform my employer off my working plan. Mostly to protect myself tbh, and if it’s reasonable I’m pretty sure it would be fine!

Totally appreciate every role is different - your role sounds very stress free and ideal tbh. (Appreciate this may just be August and I don’t know what you do). However, so many people are getting made redundant or let go at the moment because companies across the board are having to look at where costs can be cut. If I could get away with doing so little work for an ENTIRE month, I’d be expecting an awkward call at some point! Also if I was your manager and found out you had been ‘enjoying the summer’ when you were left in charge of the team - I’d absolutely be making cuts!

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She's not doing so little work though is she she said she's getting it all done, so what more can she do if there is no work I don't think you'd just sit infront of your laptop twiddling thumbs for hours on end, if both her managers are off at the same time for the whole of August that says alot doesn't it!? It's not your usual workload/structure. Don't forget she said this only happens in August and Jan. Must supply stationary to schools or something anyway cut her some slack, she's not cheating her company if she's getting her work done first thing in the morning. If there isn't enough work that's on the company not her for not making their staff take annual leave then, some companies do close certain times of the year for up to a week or two.

Letskeepcalm · 29/07/2025 14:30

Katherine9 · 29/07/2025 10:51

You asked:

Am I being unreasonable to think I can get by without childcare in August because work is quiet?

And didn't like the answers or the doubts that you've been entirely truthful in your responses. It's not about how happy others are in their own lives but a reflection of different perspectives on honesty, decency and fairness in the workplace, along with appropriate parenting.

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