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To think banning this ad is outrageous?

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JadeyLauraPie · 23/07/2025 10:58

As a society are we so emotionally fragile and immature now that we can't handle seeing someone thin without going off the rails and being at risk of making unhealthy choices to aspire to fashion? There's jabs everywhere for God's sake and somehow m&s are being taken to task about this : https://www.telegraph.co.uk/business/2025/07/23/ms-advert-banned-for-featuring-unhealthily-thin-model/ why are we all treated as though we can't think for ourselves and make decisions that are right for us? I also strongly resent the notion that people who are thin are unhealthy. I don't even think anyone in the public cares? It's just such a non issue.. I wouldn't call the model unhealthy either, I'm Slavic and by our standards that's a pretty normal physique. I'm so fed up with how molly coddled we have become. Aibu?

OP posts:
tvand · 23/07/2025 18:41

I really didn’t like the fashion trend of clothes always being modelled by emaciated androgynous creatures and thankfully that’s changed a bit now. I think if that’s all girls ever saw, it wouldn’t be great. However this ad is for slim fit trousers and shock horror, some women really are very slim and no doubt might have trouble finding clothes to suit. The woman in the photo doesn’t look starved, she just looks like a naturally slim, small framed person. Seems like a massive overreaction from the ASA.

PipilottaDelicatessa · 23/07/2025 18:50

WhereIsMyJumper · 23/07/2025 12:47

YANBU OP and I completely understand what you are getting at. We can’t even look at a picture of a thin person because it’s going to make us all lose our minds? She looks thin to me, she’s stunning obvs but would people really look at that pic and become immediately mentally unwell by it?

Also - double standards everywhere as there are plenty on adverts featuring ‘body positive’ overweight women and that’s not healthy, either. But I’m sure I will get flamed for that.

I remember thinking similar when everyone was kicking off about the 50 shades books - as though us women are so bloody impressionable that reading a few smutty books would make us want to be in abusive relationships. Real life is far, far more complex than that.

I mean, no. People are not complaining because just looking at a picture of a thin person is "going to make us all lose our minds."

They're complaining because there's a decades-long issue with advertisers using unusually thin people to model clothes, over time this tendency has had a negative impact on how society views womens' bodies, and people expect better from this particular brand.

Personally I think she's simply a slim model whose thinness has been exaggerated by the camera angle, and I wouldn't have bothered to complain about it, but I also understand the perspective of people who objected. Apart from anything else, it's difficult to know what clothes will look like on when they're modelled by people who are significantly thinner than average.

SammyScrounge · 23/07/2025 19:15

She looks unhealthily thin.

ArtTheClownIsNotAMime · 23/07/2025 20:36

JadeyLauraPie · 23/07/2025 18:24

How have I made it up lmao? The ad was banned because of this exact thing

No, it wasn't banned because "thin people are unhealthy."

JadeyLauraPie · 23/07/2025 20:37

ArtTheClownIsNotAMime · 23/07/2025 20:36

No, it wasn't banned because "thin people are unhealthy."

Why was it banned then, if this level of thin isnt sometjing theyre trying to prevent people from aspiring to ( hence the ban )? As I say I'm Slavic and this is normal and healthy.

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SweetFancyMoses · 23/07/2025 20:37

I think it was ridiculous to ban the advert. She’s a slim, healthy looking woman. Clothes look better modelled by thin people. It’s daft to complain.

ArtTheClownIsNotAMime · 23/07/2025 20:39

JadeyLauraPie · 23/07/2025 20:37

Why was it banned then, if this level of thin isnt sometjing theyre trying to prevent people from aspiring to ( hence the ban )? As I say I'm Slavic and this is normal and healthy.

Can't you see the different between one specific image and "the notion that thin people are unhealthy"?

Zov · 23/07/2025 20:40

SammyScrounge · 23/07/2025 19:15

She looks unhealthily thin.

Yep, this. ^

Notashamed13 · 23/07/2025 20:43

I can't access the article but everything is banned nowadays...I heard "slim shady" for the first time in decades on the radio at the weekend and I think that there was more censored out of it than in! (Of course I filled in the blanks car karaoke style!)

SilenceOfTheTimTams · 23/07/2025 20:43

Meh. It’s the ASA. They’ll ‘ban’ anything to keep themselves in the news. The ASA is a limited company, not a government body. It has no power to ban anything. It’s just a feeble excuse for a ‘self-regulator’.

If there’s a genuine scandal - like online scams - they can do nothing. So they go for this sort of thing to get noticed. The ASA’s best ignored.

Zov · 23/07/2025 20:44

Notashamed13 · 23/07/2025 20:43

I can't access the article but everything is banned nowadays...I heard "slim shady" for the first time in decades on the radio at the weekend and I think that there was more censored out of it than in! (Of course I filled in the blanks car karaoke style!)

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Notashamed13 · 23/07/2025 20:49

Ooo ok I seriously think i needed to rtft. Apologies to anyone I've offended. Will ask mumsnet to delete x

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