Long term friendships been waning for the past couple of years or so. Very little in common any more. She hardly texts or confides in me. Meet ups been cancelled. She has blocked other former friends before when they have to be honest not done a lot to hurt her (or anything) she reads far to much into things and has always been a bit of a drama queen. I was the last one out of a group of friends she was still in touch with. I told her about my husband having a serious health problem and all I got back was “oh hope he gets sorted”. She makes comments about it where I live being common.
about 2 months ago I found myself blocked on Facebook. I got another person to check if she was still on Facebook and she was so basically I thought that is that. Not too bothered I have lots of other friends I am closer to so friendship over.
a few days ago I get a message which must have been mass sent to everyone (as it was make into a poem) she is still in touch with explaining that she had had a tough year and explaining why and all this other stuff about how hard her life has been.
my husband and I have also been through a shit time with my existing heath problems getting worse and also my husband being diagnosed with MS. Which I know she knows about but I have had nothing from her. I am the other hand has no idea what has been going on with her, she has not told me.
so I sent back that I wish her well in the future and I know she blocked me on Facebook so she obviously does not want to be close anymore but I really wish her well.
got back a message to say she still wants to be friends and she has blocked everyone on Facebook as she does not want the hassle. She also has a go about me not asking her why she has been in hospital (I had no clue she had even been in).
now am I right thinking to you would let someone know if you where blocking them on Facebook but still wanted to be friends and to think I don’t need this drama.