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AIBU for pronouncing the name Brooke as BrOOKe rather than Bruck

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MoserRothOrangeandAlmond · 22/07/2025 11:54

I’m a Geordie and pronounce words such as Book, Look and Cook with an oo sound rather than the uck sound.
A family who are from about an hour a way said that her daughter is sick of everyone pronouncing her name incorrectly.

I explained that it’s an accent thing as we pronounce those words with an oo sound rather that uck so it wouldn’t occur to most people to pronounce it that way and they wouldn’t deliberately mispronounce her name!

Just as if I go another part of the country or different country they pronounce my name differently depending on their accent.

AIBU?

OP posts:
CatHairEveryWhereNow · 22/07/2025 12:56

saraclara · 22/07/2025 12:50

That. If you can say wood, you can say Brooke. Forget how the name is spelled, just listen to the sound and repeat it.

See that's what I'd do.

Though in wales there are sounds I do struggle to reproduce - in in my defence I do have mangled langauge center dyslexia/processing issues- though can't think of any in people's names and do try.

Overthebow · 22/07/2025 12:56

Idontpostmuch · 22/07/2025 12:54

Some people from south of England pronounce book as halfway between book and buck.

I’m from the south and there’s no halfway sound. There’s 3 different sounds here, book, buck and then a long oo as in food. Those 3 words all sound very different to each other.

Dramatic · 22/07/2025 12:57

Littlefish · 22/07/2025 12:25

In Reception and year 1 phonics, children are taught that there are two ‘oo’ sounds.

One is short, as in ‘look’ and ‘book’. One is long, as in ‘too’ and ‘soon’.

I suspect the parents are pronouncing Brooke with the short ‘oo’, not with an ‘u’ sound.

But they are the same in some accents, I'm also from the NE (Durham) and the oo in book is the same as the u in buck. It's the exact same sound

doodleschnoodle · 22/07/2025 12:57

One more try: if I say aloud ‘I took a look at Luke and his hook while reading a book’ all those words rhyme in my accent. So does ‘I’m in the wood in a bad mood because I forgot my hood like anyone could’.

HotCrossBunplease · 22/07/2025 12:57

RampantIvy · 22/07/2025 12:53

Then they should have called the child Bruck.

It is nothing to do with accents. I'm from London, married to a Geordie and live in Yorkshire. We would all pronounce the name Brooke as in look.

Are they dyslexic or trying to be "different"?

Is the child at school? I suspect that when they say they are called Bruck people will spell it accordingly and not Brooke.

Yes but each of you will make a different sound when you say “look”!

spoonbillstretford · 22/07/2025 12:57

Brook/Brooke sounds like same as bruck look, luck, fuck, duck, muck and book in my accent.

Some people from Lancashire would say Cook and Book like Luke and Buke. I've never heard them say "Brooke" but presumably those with different oo sounds would pronounce it the same way, which is fine. It's their accent!

Idontpostmuch · 22/07/2025 12:58

RaraRachael · 22/07/2025 12:50

I'm with you OP. In my Scottish accent it would definitely be BrOOke. I'd feel ridiculous putting on a fake accent to say Bruck.

Haha I once tried to put on what I thought was an English accent when helping DS to learn lines for a play. He begged me to stop because he said it sounded as if I was on drugs.

ICriedAllTheWayToTheChipShop · 22/07/2025 12:58

I'm really astounded by some of the people on here claiming never to have heard people pronouncing words in a different way to theirs. Even if you've never travelled outside the area where you grew up, have you never met anyone from elsewhere in the country? Colleagues, friends, whatever? Do you live in a tiny village where nobody is allowed in who isn't local? Have you never watched any form of media - TV, radio, films - that featured speakers with anything other than your own regional accent? I mean, I grew up in (and still live in) an area of Yorkshire that's pretty much the opposite of diverse and even I managed to encounter people from outside the county in my 45 years on the planet. Or maybe you just don't listen to other people?

Bigearringsbigsmile · 22/07/2025 12:58

Overthebow · 22/07/2025 12:14

Does anyone pronounce it Bruck? Book isn’t pronounced buck, look isn’t pronounced luck so I’m not sure where you’re getting this from. Brook does rhymes with book and look though, but no u sound. I from the south and no one would say bruck.

Buck, look, cook, and brook are all rhyming words and pronounced exactly the same way

MasterBeth · 22/07/2025 12:58

VintageDiamondGirl · 22/07/2025 12:52

Brooke is pronounced Brooke (like a brook, rhymes with crook) regardless of regional accent.

If the parents wanted her name to be pronounced Bruck, they should have named her Bruck.

I have no idea what they are talking about. They are being unreasonable!

Guess what?

People don't all pronounce "brook" and "crook" the same way!

Apillthatmakesyousayalltherightstuff · 22/07/2025 12:59

SweetFancyMoses · 22/07/2025 12:54

It’s pronounced brʊk as in book. Not bruck. No one pronounces book as buck. The ʊ sound is different to the ʌ vowel sound.

I assume the OP is pronouncing it brewk.

I do. Book and buck are the same in my accent. I had this at college when a tutor liked my pararhyme which to me was a perfect rhyme.

Your bubbling blood does me good.

CyberStrider · 22/07/2025 12:59

Idontpostmuch · 22/07/2025 12:58

Haha I once tried to put on what I thought was an English accent when helping DS to learn lines for a play. He begged me to stop because he said it sounded as if I was on drugs.

If I try a rhotic r type sound I just end up a pirate

MasterBeth · 22/07/2025 12:59

Bigearringsbigsmile · 22/07/2025 12:58

Buck, look, cook, and brook are all rhyming words and pronounced exactly the same way

No, in many accents they are not.

I don't pronounce buck to rhyme with cook.

doodleschnoodle · 22/07/2025 12:59

MasterBeth · 22/07/2025 12:58

Guess what?

People don't all pronounce "brook" and "crook" the same way!

Sharon from Little Bigsworth in Surrey in total shock right now.

MoserRothOrangeandAlmond · 22/07/2025 13:00

@HotCrossBunpleasein Sunderland it would be pronounced like that. So Brooke would be pronounce Br-ew-k

OP posts:
Dramatic · 22/07/2025 13:01

SweetFancyMoses · 22/07/2025 12:54

It’s pronounced brʊk as in book. Not bruck. No one pronounces book as buck. The ʊ sound is different to the ʌ vowel sound.

I assume the OP is pronouncing it brewk.

Yes they do! Why do people keep insisting no one pronounces book and buck the same? It's the exact same word with different spellings in my accent (like there and their)

saraclara · 22/07/2025 13:01

doodleschnoodle · 22/07/2025 12:55

This thread is sending my blood pressure sky high. The sheer level of ignorance about the way people who live three or four hours up the road from them speak is bonkers.

A name is different though. Even if the way it's spelled means you would normally use the sound that your accent uses, with a name you go by its sound.

I have friends of other nationalities and languages, and I taught children from all kinds of ethnicities. I have always ensured that I say their names the way that they do (or as close as it's possible to get). Sometimes it's needed a bit of practice (I really struggled with mid word rhotic R's) , but there's no excuse for not trying.

Tweedledumtweedle · 22/07/2025 13:01

Why not pretend her name is spelled “bruck” then job done

Michele09 · 22/07/2025 13:01

SweetFancyMoses · 22/07/2025 12:54

It’s pronounced brʊk as in book. Not bruck. No one pronounces book as buck. The ʊ sound is different to the ʌ vowel sound.

I assume the OP is pronouncing it brewk.

Buck and book are the same in Yorkshire. I cant even imagine how they are different so it's not true to say no one pronounces book as bruck. To me they are both buk.

RaraRachael · 22/07/2025 13:02

When teaching phonics in Scotland we had to ignore the bit about the two oo sounds as they're both the same here.

My sister is called Mary - pronounced May-ray in our accent. When she lived in England people said something like "Mehree". She didn't correct them or say they were mispronouncing her name, she put it down to regional accents which it is

cardibach · 22/07/2025 13:02

VintageDiamondGirl · 22/07/2025 12:52

Brooke is pronounced Brooke (like a brook, rhymes with crook) regardless of regional accent.

If the parents wanted her name to be pronounced Bruck, they should have named her Bruck.

I have no idea what they are talking about. They are being unreasonable!

You understand that brook and crook sound very different in different places though? All they want is a shortened oo. As a few have said, wood tends not to morph as much as other oo words so try that sound.

ZoggyStirdust · 22/07/2025 13:03

Overthebow · 22/07/2025 12:14

Does anyone pronounce it Bruck? Book isn’t pronounced buck, look isn’t pronounced luck so I’m not sure where you’re getting this from. Brook does rhymes with book and look though, but no u sound. I from the south and no one would say bruck.

It is where I come from. (East Midlands)

Soggyspaniel · 22/07/2025 13:03

EspeciallyHeinous · 22/07/2025 12:39

I am from East Lancashire

Wood is pronounced wud
Book is pronounced buck
Cook is pronounced cuck
Brooke I would say Bruck

I’m in South Yorkshire and this is how I say these words too. Brooke definitely rhymes with Bruk here. The same as look, cook, book etc. I haven’t heard that name pronounced in any other way.

moon rhymes with swoon, loon, spoon etc.

I also say poor and pour in exactly the same way.

Idontpostmuch · 22/07/2025 13:03

Overthebow · 22/07/2025 12:56

I’m from the south and there’s no halfway sound. There’s 3 different sounds here, book, buck and then a long oo as in food. Those 3 words all sound very different to each other.

Interesting. The people I heard must have been from somewhere else. They tried hard to get me to say book in the same way as them - not u but not oo. My west of Scotland accent has a pronounced (no pun intended) oo sound.

MasterBeth · 22/07/2025 13:04

Michele09 · 22/07/2025 13:01

Buck and book are the same in Yorkshire. I cant even imagine how they are different so it's not true to say no one pronounces book as bruck. To me they are both buk.

This is what I don't understand. How can you not imagine how they are different? Have you never heard anyone from London speak?