Good on you for reaching out - that in itself is one big scary job!
The other thing (that I'd wish someone had told me, you might find it relevant, you might not!), is that having a stroke is basically having a rather nasty knock on the noggin, and it doesn't just magically come right.
I found that my emotions were all over the show (crying every five minutes for example!), I was tired, I had really been hit where it hurts when it came to my self perception, and sense of self worth. Not to mention, there were so many little things that were so much harder to do than they had been.
It took me over a year to come around to any sort of sense of right.
So, be very, very, gentle and kind to yourself, won't you? Give yourself so much credit for your efforts, let alone your results, allow yourself grace with the days where having a shower is an achievement. It's all hard work that you're doing, and some days are so much harder than others!